veryplump67
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before anybody calls me a fucking loser or says im trying to act morally superior, let me explain what i mean. im not claiming to be some perfect guy who never notices a girls body. obviously ive seen physically attractive girls before. i can admit when a girl has an attractive body, and i can admire her appearance. sometimes i even feel guilty about looking in the first place, because i start wondering if im being disrespectful just for noticing.
but heres the thing. noticing that a girl is physically attractive doesnt mean im sitting there thinking about having sex with her. i can look at a girl, acknowledge that shes attractive, and move on with my fucking day. i dont automatically have thoughts about cracking her just because i find her body attractive. sometimes i literally just recognize that somebody looks good, and thats the end of it.
thats what i dont understand about people acting like finding somebody attractive and watching porn are basically the same thing. theres a difference between seeing a girl on your feed, acknowledging that shes physically attractive, and deliberately going out of your way to open porn and watch it. one is noticing someones appearance. the other is actively seeking out sexual content.
im not saying im better than everybody else, and im not pretending i never notice girls. i do. i can admit when somebody has an attractive body without making excuses about it. but theres a difference between acknowledging that attraction and deliberately choosing to engage with porn.
and sometimes i genuinely feel guilty just for looking at a girls body, even when im not trying to sexualize her or imagine anything happening between us. i dont want people assuming that every time a guy notices an attractive girl, his mind automatically goes straight to sex. thats not how i experience attraction.
i can think a girl is physically attractive without wanting to do anything with her. i can admire her appearance without having sexual thoughts about her. and i can acknowledge that she looks good without feeling the need to watch porn. thats the distinction im trying to make, and i dont understand why people act like those things are all the same. call me a foid panderer or whatever but thats just me. I might not like foids but for some reason I always feel guilty when even acknowledging a girl is psychically attarctive
but heres the thing. noticing that a girl is physically attractive doesnt mean im sitting there thinking about having sex with her. i can look at a girl, acknowledge that shes attractive, and move on with my fucking day. i dont automatically have thoughts about cracking her just because i find her body attractive. sometimes i literally just recognize that somebody looks good, and thats the end of it.
thats what i dont understand about people acting like finding somebody attractive and watching porn are basically the same thing. theres a difference between seeing a girl on your feed, acknowledging that shes physically attractive, and deliberately going out of your way to open porn and watch it. one is noticing someones appearance. the other is actively seeking out sexual content.
im not saying im better than everybody else, and im not pretending i never notice girls. i do. i can admit when somebody has an attractive body without making excuses about it. but theres a difference between acknowledging that attraction and deliberately choosing to engage with porn.
and sometimes i genuinely feel guilty just for looking at a girls body, even when im not trying to sexualize her or imagine anything happening between us. i dont want people assuming that every time a guy notices an attractive girl, his mind automatically goes straight to sex. thats not how i experience attraction.
i can think a girl is physically attractive without wanting to do anything with her. i can admire her appearance without having sexual thoughts about her. and i can acknowledge that she looks good without feeling the need to watch porn. thats the distinction im trying to make, and i dont understand why people act like those things are all the same. call me a foid panderer or whatever but thats just me. I might not like foids but for some reason I always feel guilty when even acknowledging a girl is psychically attarctive
