[Rant] I really feel like I am on this site for a completely different reason than most guys here

TimmyAshan1

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DNR: Dealing with hairloss, trying to nichemaxx to girls that heavily fetishize hair, forced to use hair systems, can't get anyone to answer me.

Basically, the ONLY thing I really care about is nichemaxxing towards hippie/boho girls; but the main thing that they fetishize is guys with longer hair; which I didn't realize until AFTER I started going bald and being completely baited by /r/bald to 'just shave it off bro' at Norwood2-3. I literaly do NOT care about any other type of looksmaxxing at all; I KNOW that I have a recessed chin, maxilla and asymmetrical nose but I am completely fine with that.

So I'm pretty much forced to wear hair systems, but 99.99% of ya'll on this forum are young meaning that yall don't deal with hairloss or they prevent it early enough that it doesn't matter. So I'm essentially spamming hair system questions 24/7 to a crowd that doesn't even have to worry about hairloss at all yet.
And even in my niche IRL, most people who are balding are just bluepilled beyond belief, they genuinely believe "It doesn't matter if I am bald; the universe has just decided it is time for me to remove my hair" or even worse people who shave bald on purpose to be more 'spiritually enlightened'.
Also the fucking brutal double standard: There are literally stands for woolen dreadlock extensions at several festivals, but most of them are aimed at girls in their texture/designs. And even if they weren't they are OVERPRICED AS FUCK! $5 for ONE fucking dreadlock while I need like 30!

And the worst fucking thing is, I am shadowbanned on Reddit so I can't even ask /r/hairsystem because "Your post has been removed by Reddit's filters" no matter which subreddit I post to. This means that I need to rely entirely on AI for my questions which is a fucking mixed bag of contradictions (and it's also almost impossible to blackpill most AIs anyways, so they just revert to their 'bluepilled cuck' mode). Fucking kill me :feelsrope:

DNR: Dealing with hairloss, trying to nichemaxx to girls that heavily fetishize hair, forced to use hair systems, can't get anyone to answer me.
 
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why waste money on expensive hair systems when you could spend 5k to fly to turkey and get a transplant?

So you not only waited until you were nearly bald to do something, you are now wasting money on temp fixes?

I've been on fin since 2020 and am NW0 at 31
 
why waste money on expensive hair systems when you could spend 5k to fly to turkey and get a transplant?

So you not only waited until you were nearly bald to do something, you are now wasting money on temp fixes?

I've been on fin since 2020 and am NW0 at 31
I'll talk to a dermatologist next month but it's very unlikely for me to get a transplant given my loss. And even if I COULD get a transplant, it will likely just be 'not bald anymore', instead of the lush hair I want. But we'll see, I'm just hoping and praying that they will be able to at least do something for my hair

For me it's either "long lush hair" or "completely bald", no real inbetween. Because I do NOT hate myself for being bald, I just hate the fact that I can't get long hair.
 
I'll talk to a dermatologist next month but it's very unlikely for me to get a transplant given my loss. And even if I COULD get a transplant, it will likely just be 'not bald anymore', instead of the lush hair I want. But we'll see, I'm just hoping and praying that they will be able to at least do something for my hair

For me it's either "long lush hair" or "completely bald", no real inbetween. Because I do NOT hate myself for being bald, I just hate the fact that I can't get long hair.
send pics of your head
 
I'll talk to a dermatologist next month but it's very unlikely for me to get a transplant given my loss. And even if I COULD get a transplant, it will likely just be 'not bald anymore', instead of the lush hair I want. But we'll see, I'm just hoping and praying that they will be able to at least do something for my hair

For me it's either "long lush hair" or "completely bald", no real inbetween. Because I do NOT hate myself for being bald, I just hate the fact that I can't get long hair.
Good luck bhai, hair matters a lot
 
Just visit Dr cenk bro

Only 5k
 
send pics of your head
This was before I shaved to fit the hair system

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This is the current hair system that I use for festivals and me wearing it (I use the headwrap to hide the hairline)
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This is the shorter hair system that I wear for daily life

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do a consultation with a turkish doctor via webcam, I think its savable
 
do a consultation with a turkish doctor via webcam, I think its savable
I think it's around Norwood4-5 with diffuse thinning?
Although my donor area (the sides and back) are still extremely dense/thick, so I think they can harvest a lot from there?
 
I basically met this other bald guy at a festival 2 months ago and I talked to him about using a hair system (and he was EXTREMELY impressed with how it looked); and I got his number (because he let me borrow his powerbank so I could return it to him afterwards) and then he did a video call with me where he was all over my hair system; and he even said to the other people in the room that I am wearing the hair system and that it looked really amazing and they kept asking questions about where I got it and asked me to show the long hair system (I was already wearing the short hair). Even the girls in the room said "Holy shit, you look sooooo fucking different with that wig! It looks so good!"

Even when I first met the other bald guy he was kinda jealous of my hair, and I legit told him that it was a hair system. And he was like "Yeah right, take it off then" in a mildly sarcastic tone; and I had to literally explain that it was glued and I couldn't take it off; and I had to literally show the lace to convince him that it wasn't real hair
I basically met this other bald guy at a festival 2 months ago and I talked to him about using a hair system (and he was EXTREMELY impressed with how it looked); and I got his number (because he let me borrow his powerbank so I could return it to him afterwards) and then he did a video call with me where he was all over my hair system; and he even said to the other people in the room that I am wearing the hair system and that it looked really amazing and they kept asking questions about where I got it and asked me to show the long hair system (I was already wearing the short hair). Even the girls in the room said "Holy shit, you look sooooo fucking different with that wig! It looks so good!"

DNR: Another bald guy at a festival was really impressed with my hair system
 
I really feel like 99% of my time is just spend doomscrolling, doomspiraling in my own thoughts and banging my head against a wall; and 1% actually trying to looksmax.
What I've done today:

12 hours playing video games while doomscrolling AI for blackpilled verdicts
10 minutes actually lifting weights and exercising
 

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