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Holy fuck at this disgrace of a 'man'
Cucks like this need to be taken out back and shot
I’m about to be cheated on and I don’t know how to stop it
I (M28) have been in a long distance with my girlfriend (F23) for the past almost 5 years. We met on a video game and since then we have been joined to the hip. Our relationship has been very strong even though we have met our fair share of obstacles. She lives in Central America and I am in the UK so timezones for starters are hard.
I would say that recently we went through a rough patch. We almost separated but we talked things out and decided to keep working on it as our love for each other was still very strong. Let me just cut to the chase because I have too much anxiety at the moment.
Late last year, after being together for about 4.5 years, I discovered that my GF was actually catfishing me. It was a whole thing. I uncovered all these social medias that she had not told me about and I managed to do some social engineering to get her to accept my insta follow request. I called her out on it and she broke down and asked for forgiveness. It also explained a lot of things that were causing issues in our rship like why she would not send me pictures very often and things like that. Weird thing was that she looks better than the girl she used the pictures of in my opinion not that it matters, I love her regardless of how she looks. I forgave her despite this being a huge lie, to lie to me every day for 4.5 years. But I believed she meant what she said as to why she did that and why she felt stuck and not able to tell me.
So we have been working on our relationship since until suddenly a week or so ago she met this guy. He's online as well from Canada and somehow they really hit it off. She told me at the beginning and was forthcoming about their convos etc. He's like some streamer or some shit and all of sudden I start to notice weird things like she doesn't answer my texts for hours sometimes. Or I see her online on discord (mobile icon) at like the middle of the night and I know she is in a call with him. It just fucks me up. So we kept having talks where I would say I am feeling insecure and it would cause me to question her and notice things. Ofc she didn't like that as she said it was like she was being monitored or something and I accepted that and tried to back up a bit. I should be confident in myself and the relationship right? But I get SUCH bad vibes.
So I did something bad. I knew her discord login though I had never logged into it. I was just possessed by paranoia and I logged in. This morning when I was trying to call her, she wasn't answering me but I saw she was online so I figured she was in a call with him right? I read the chat and my heart broke. They have like this safe word where they say "sloth" when they want to say something serious and not joking. Last night, they were reading some smut porn erotica or something together. She said she never flirts with him, but she encouraged him to call her in bed to "read her a bedtime story" and then from what I have gathered, they roleplayed and read together. He was saying how it was hot when she read and that she was touching herself. And she didn't deny it. They were using their "sloth" codeword and then saying things like "I can't stop talking to you" and how "we're fucked.. more than we know" and he said "it's gonna be a mess one day" to which she said "I know".
I know its an online relationship and I will get Chad's making fun of me for it but this persons means so much to me and I know she has never done this before. Why now? Why him? Why does she feel the need to do that with him. I give her everything I have and can to make her happy. Would you say she is already cheating? Or is it only a matter of time? I don't know what to do, I'm shaking and I feel like my world is falling apart. I just feel broken and lost and I have nowhere to turn to. I can't even confront her about it without admitting I logged into her discord which is an invasion of her privacy. How do I even approach this?
Also I want to point out, I am extremely shaken and I don't know how well I have communicated everything. She is not a villain, I don't know how well I have represented her but I have tried not to omit any key details.
Let me know if you have questions I will try my best to answer.
Cucks like this need to be taken out back and shot
I’m about to be cheated on and I don’t know how to stop it
I (M28) have been in a long distance with my girlfriend (F23) for the past almost 5 years. We met on a video game and since then we have been joined to the hip. Our relationship has been very strong even though we have met our fair share of obstacles. She lives in Central America and I am in the UK so timezones for starters are hard.
I would say that recently we went through a rough patch. We almost separated but we talked things out and decided to keep working on it as our love for each other was still very strong. Let me just cut to the chase because I have too much anxiety at the moment.
Late last year, after being together for about 4.5 years, I discovered that my GF was actually catfishing me. It was a whole thing. I uncovered all these social medias that she had not told me about and I managed to do some social engineering to get her to accept my insta follow request. I called her out on it and she broke down and asked for forgiveness. It also explained a lot of things that were causing issues in our rship like why she would not send me pictures very often and things like that. Weird thing was that she looks better than the girl she used the pictures of in my opinion not that it matters, I love her regardless of how she looks. I forgave her despite this being a huge lie, to lie to me every day for 4.5 years. But I believed she meant what she said as to why she did that and why she felt stuck and not able to tell me.
So we have been working on our relationship since until suddenly a week or so ago she met this guy. He's online as well from Canada and somehow they really hit it off. She told me at the beginning and was forthcoming about their convos etc. He's like some streamer or some shit and all of sudden I start to notice weird things like she doesn't answer my texts for hours sometimes. Or I see her online on discord (mobile icon) at like the middle of the night and I know she is in a call with him. It just fucks me up. So we kept having talks where I would say I am feeling insecure and it would cause me to question her and notice things. Ofc she didn't like that as she said it was like she was being monitored or something and I accepted that and tried to back up a bit. I should be confident in myself and the relationship right? But I get SUCH bad vibes.
So I did something bad. I knew her discord login though I had never logged into it. I was just possessed by paranoia and I logged in. This morning when I was trying to call her, she wasn't answering me but I saw she was online so I figured she was in a call with him right? I read the chat and my heart broke. They have like this safe word where they say "sloth" when they want to say something serious and not joking. Last night, they were reading some smut porn erotica or something together. She said she never flirts with him, but she encouraged him to call her in bed to "read her a bedtime story" and then from what I have gathered, they roleplayed and read together. He was saying how it was hot when she read and that she was touching herself. And she didn't deny it. They were using their "sloth" codeword and then saying things like "I can't stop talking to you" and how "we're fucked.. more than we know" and he said "it's gonna be a mess one day" to which she said "I know".
I know its an online relationship and I will get Chad's making fun of me for it but this persons means so much to me and I know she has never done this before. Why now? Why him? Why does she feel the need to do that with him. I give her everything I have and can to make her happy. Would you say she is already cheating? Or is it only a matter of time? I don't know what to do, I'm shaking and I feel like my world is falling apart. I just feel broken and lost and I have nowhere to turn to. I can't even confront her about it without admitting I logged into her discord which is an invasion of her privacy. How do I even approach this?
Also I want to point out, I am extremely shaken and I don't know how well I have communicated everything. She is not a villain, I don't know how well I have represented her but I have tried not to omit any key details.
Let me know if you have questions I will try my best to answer.
