rate me and my potential. 16 yo

[idmanti8]

i wanna know where i can ascend with softmax. and is it possible for me to find a girlfriend? i never had one

 

[someone29]

i wanna know where i can ascend with softmax. and is it possible for me to find a girlfriend? i never had one

did you seriously never have a gf like even when you were younger? if yes then it must genuinly must be the place and people next to you

 

[idmanti8]

did you seriously never have a gf like even when you were younger? if yes then it must genuinly must be the place and people next to you

i dont know if its the place the problem. maybe. but surely if i was attractive i would have had one. can you tell me if i am even just a bit attractive or if its over for me. and one last question. why when I post a thread i barely get answers? people who posted minutes ago have already a lot of answers. and why not mine too?

 

[m4thewsonn1845]

i wanna know where i can ascend with softmax. and is it possible for me to find a girlfriend? i never had one

Have you Even try to talk to a girl once ??

 

[idmanti8]

Have you Even try to talk to a girl once ??

i tried once irl. i saw a really beautiful girl and after a lot i asked for her instagram. unfortunately she had a bf already. but then no girl in my life has ever even tried to get near me or things like this. i never even got a hug from a girl. all of my friends try to talk with girls on instagram, but man i dont even find myself attractive. how am i supposed to do it.

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

There isn't much that you can do with softmaxxing but you can definitely find a gf, you're not bad looking at all, I'm sure u can do it you look better than me and girls still approach me so u can do it too

 

[idmanti8]

There isn't much that you can do with softmaxxing but you can definitely find a gf, you're not bad looking at all, I'm sure u can do it you look better than me and girls still approach me so u can do it too

girls approach you? damn, I wished it happened to me. btw how would you rate me honestly? but fact these are my "best" photos, like when my hair is perfect. i dont think I look like this when I go out with my friends.

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

girls approach you? damn, I wished it happened to me. btw how would you rate me honestly? but fact these are my "best" photos, like when my hair is perfect. i dont think I look like this when I go out with my friends.

You're an mtn, trust me the things that you see are probably not that visible to others, i feel like im an ltn at best (although i might be too harsh beacuse i can see absolutely every flaw that other people may not), so yeah since u mog me im pretty sure u could pull off the same, yes the chances of a girl approaching first are small thats why u would think its impossible to happen but its not it happens to me so it can definitely happen to you too, or if they show signs of interest just shot your shot you got nothing to lose, i would just recommend to do it when they are alone and actually show signs of interest that way its the safest if u get rejected talking from experience

 

[i_blame_jake]

i wanna know where i can ascend with softmax. and is it possible for me to find a girlfriend? i never had one

i can see you getting w some stinky emo girl

 

[idmanti8]

You're an mtn, trust me the things that you see are probably not that visible to others, i feel like im an ltn at best (although i might be too harsh beacuse i can see absolutely every flaw that other people may not), so yeah since u mog me im pretty sure u could pull off the same, yes the chances of a girl approaching first are small thats why u would think its impossible to happen but its not it happens to me so it can definitely happen to you too, or if they show signs of interest just shot your shot you got nothing to lose, i would just recommend to do it when they are alone and actually show signs of interest that way its the safest if u get rejected talking from experience

thank you, I appreciate it a lot the fact you are answering me. but i dont even have the chance to get to know some girls first to then shot my shot. in school, the only 2 girls in my class already have a bf. and for the others girls in the school, I dont have neither the time nor the chances just to meet them. i dont know where you are from but in my school is like this. i go to the gym too but there are not even girls my age. the only chances i have is when I go out with my friends, where the only thing I can do is ask them their instagram. no more. so I start from zero.

 

[idmanti8]

i can see you getting w some stinky emo girl

why man?

 

[i_blame_jake]

why man?

idek bro i just see it

 

[forcedtemptations]

Bump

 

[idmanti8]

idek bro i just see it

wouldnt mind tho, just if she doesnt stink

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

thank you, I appreciate it a lot the fact you are answering me. but i dont even have the chance to get to know some girls first to then shot my shot. in school, the only 2 girls in my class already have a bf. and for the others girls in the school, I dont have neither the time nor the chances just to meet them. i dont know where you are from but in my school is like this. i go to the gym too but there are not even girls my age. the only chances i have is when I go out with my friends, where the only thing I can do is ask them their instagram. no more. so I start from zero.

Of course man im glad to help anyone i can, i know how it feels im probably way older than you so i know more about this stuff too, im in college now and there isn't any girl that im interested in even though most of the students on my major are girls, usually when girls approached me it wasn't in school but public places like on vacations, on a bus even in a municipality building when i was getting my documents, this is why it's better to approach them in public places they are usually alone and if you get rejected you will likely never meet them again (what happened with every one of my cases) while for the times when i got rejected in high school she also had a friend group that witnessed everything so it was awkward until i graduated, so yeah always make sure to see at least some signs of interest and make sure they are alone so u dont make the same mistake as i did

 

[try2beme]

did you seriously never have a gf like even when you were younger? if yes then it must genuinly must be the place and people next to you

That’s not how the real world works

 

[idmanti8]

Of course man im glad to help anyone i can, i know how it feels im probably way older than you so i know more about this stuff too, im in college now and there isn't any girl that im interested in even though most of the students on my major are girls, usually when girls approached me it wasn't in school but public places like on vacations, on a bus even in a municipality building when i was getting my documents, this is why it's better to approach them in public places they are usually alone and if you get rejected you will likely never meet them again (what happened with every one of my cases) while for the times when i got rejected in high school she also had a friend group that witnessed everything so it was awkward until i graduated, so yeah always make sure to see at least some signs of interest and make sure they are alone so u dont make the same mistake as i did

oh, may I ask you what those who approached you asked you? btw i am 16, i am in high school now. i may be a mtn, but probably only in these pictures. i swear those two front pics are the only two pics of me i like. for the rest of the time when I look at myself in the mirror I dont see someone who is attractive. and somehow when I look at others, i always find something that makes them attractive. but i cant do it on me.

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

oh, may I ask you what those who approached you asked you? btw i am 16, i am in high school now. i may be a mtn, but probably only in these pictures. i swear those two front pics are the only two pics of me i like. for the rest of the time when I look at myself in the mirror I dont see someone who is attractive. and somehow when I look at others, i always find something that makes them attractive. but i cant do it on me.

Yeah thats exactly the same thing i do too, its normal for u to see every flaw on yourself but to see others good i honestly see myself as the only ugly person its better to think that way beacuse i dont judge others then, im 19 almost 20 so yeah i do have a lot more experience and dont worry you're still young the moment will come eventually, and for the things they asked they were usually some typical small talk questions like which high school i go to before asking for my insta

 

[idmanti8]

Yeah thats exactly the same thing i do too, its normal for u to see every flaw on yourself but to see others good i honestly see myself as the only ugly person its better to think that way beacuse i dont judge others then, im 19 almost 20 so yeah i do have a lot more experience and dont worry you're still young the moment will come eventually, and for the things they asked they were usually some typical small talk questions like which high school i go to before asking for my insta

sorry if I answer you just now but i was sleeping. by the way, do you have any tips for me to look better? i feel my eyes are my main flaw. i just see them too round. and my glasses too.

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

sorry if I answer you just now but i was sleeping. by the way, do you have any tips for me to look better? i feel my eyes are my main flaw. i just see them too round. and my glasses too.

No worries i checkup my account often, what i would recommend you is to fix ur posture its an easy thing to do and can help your spine and neck a lot but also keeping correct posture helps to have better airway and can in long term improve the face beacuse the jaw wont push downwards there is a lot of exercises that can help you with this you can find them on the internet like i did just gotta stay consistent, also for your eyes they are not round from your picture they are 100% almond shaped which is a very good eye shape, for your glasses idk how to help idk much about styling so i would recommend the ones that suit the face and don't cover ur eyes and good features like eyebrows too much

 

[idmanti8]

No worries i checkup my account often, what i would recommend you is to fix ur posture its an easy thing to do and can help your spine and neck a lot but also keeping correct posture helps to have better airway and can in long term improve the face beacuse the jaw wont push downwards there is a lot of exercises that can help you with this you can find them on the internet like i did just gotta stay consistent, also for your eyes they are not round from your picture they are 100% almond shaped which is a very good eye shape, for your glasses idk how to help idk much about styling so i would recommend the ones that suit the face and don't cover ur eyes and good features like eyebrows too much

thank you man

No worries i checkup my account often, what i would recommend you is to fix ur posture its an easy thing to do and can help your spine and neck a lot but also keeping correct posture helps to have better airway and can in long term improve the face beacuse the jaw wont push downwards there is a lot of exercises that can help you with this you can find them on the internet like i did just gotta stay consistent, also for your eyes they are not round from your picture they are 100% almond shaped which is a very good eye shape, for your glasses idk how to help idk much about styling so i would recommend the ones that suit the face and don't cover ur eyes and good features like eyebrows too much

thanks man, a lot. one last thing, i know i am asking a lot but you are the only one answering me and genuinely one of the kindest on org. the thing is i feel like my nose is very big, do you have any tips?

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

thank you man

thanks man, a lot. one last thing, i know i am asking a lot but you are the only one answering me and genuinely one of the kindest on org. the thing is i feel like my nose is very big, do you have any tips?

No worries bro I'm glad to help, your nose isn't that big and the reason why u think it is would be beacuse of your lip width to nose ratio as it isn't ideal but your nose is not the problem itself looking at your side profile you do have a slight recession in maxilla its not terrible but thats probably the reason as nose is dependent on maxilla's support there isn't much that u can do about that with softmaxxing as its a skeletal issue but maybe marpe could help to push maxilla more forward which would give more support to your nose and this is a good thing as it isn't a surgical intervention you should still get it checked up with the orthodontist as they can tell you the best beacuse without X-ray just by looking at the face its not possible to tell exactly whats needed, if u would consider hardmaxx a rhinoplasty to make the nose narrower can help but if you dont want to do any surgery, get a checkup with an orthodontist and an marpe might be what u need depending if im correct also like i previously mentioned fixing ur posture will also have an effect on this beacuse you wont be pushing your jaw downward which causes vertical growth of the maxilla that makes the nose droppy and much bigger

 

[idmanti8]

No worries bro I'm glad to help, your nose isn't that big and the reason why u think it is would be beacuse of your lip width to nose ratio as it isn't ideal but your nose is not the problem itself looking at your side profile you do have a slight recession in maxilla its not terrible but thats probably the reason as nose is dependent on maxilla's support there isn't much that u can do about that with softmaxxing as its a skeletal issue but maybe marpe could help to push maxilla more forward which would give more support to your nose and this is a good thing as it isn't a surgical intervention you should still get it checked up with the orthodontist as they can tell you the best beacuse without X-ray just by looking at the face its not possible to tell exactly whats needed, if u would consider hardmaxx a rhinoplasty to make the nose narrower can help but if you dont want to do any surgery, get a checkup with an orthodontist and an marpe might be what u need depending if im correct also like i previously mentioned fixing ur posture will also have an effect on this beacuse you wont be pushing your jaw downward which causes vertical growth of the maxilla that makes the nose droppy and much bigger

yeah i already heard about that, thanks. ive been already training my posture, i do normal chin tucks while I push upwards with my thumbs. i think its enough to change posture if done correctly. same for mewing. i have been practing with mewing for the past 7 months. do you think mewing/hard mewing will eventually push whats left of my maxilla recession? ofc i am not asking if it will happen over night, but will it do its work?

 

[personalitymaxxer06]

yeah i already heard about that, thanks. ive been already training my posture, i do normal chin tucks while I push upwards with my thumbs. i think its enough to change posture if done correctly. same for mewing. i have been practing with mewing for the past 7 months. do you think mewing/hard mewing will eventually push whats left of my maxilla recession? ofc i am not asking if it will happen over night, but will it do its work?

Mewing is just a correct tongue posture it cant fix recession you should still do it ofc but it wont undo a recession the way to fix recession actually now like i already said would be either through surgery or marpe so if u can get an marpe do that as it isn't a surgery, mewing and correct posture will just make sure u dont further worsen your recessions so keep doing those but to fix a recession you will need to do marpe or surgery so get a checkup with an orthodontist for that

 

[smoochumsthesoft]

grow out hair and dw u'll find someone