AlexAP
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Societal expectations put onto men to be successful in their sex life in order to have any "Value" as a man. Hence why men tend to be more likely to brag about sleeping with loads of women or getting depressed about being a virgin or rarely having sex and playing the "Poor me. Feel sorry for me" card
You know how society and media shoves unrealistic beauty standards on women that can cause women to become self loathing, insecure and obsessed with their looks whilst alsi causing Depression, Eating disorders and BDD.... Well society and media also puts unrealistic standards onto men. Hence why clowns like Andrew Tate are "popular". Lots of cars, brags about having sex with lots of women, rich etc etc etc All these depressed lost impersonable young men who are obsessed with being "Alpha" thinks that will make them happy in life and think it will make them more valuable. Not realising that they already bring a lot of value to their loved ones lives.
When men kill themselves. I don't think they realise how much they are valued by their loved ones. Their parents, their siblings, their friends etc etc etc. For every man that ends his life because they buy into these toxic Societal pressures put onto them. They leave behind a lot of hurt people grieving over them. There is a woman on youtube who made a video called "I lost my son to suicide" which blew up and its heartbreaking. Telling us her journey and helping others with topics around it. Even years later, she is still hurting.
These unrealistic society expectations put onto men is hurting men massively and in turn hurting the people who love and care for those men. That's why men are more obsessed with their sexual endeavours or activity and why some become proud or depressed about it moreso than women. I said this on Facebook which got a shit ton of likes and I mean it: "Some men sadly really do underestimate the value they bring to their loved ones lives."
You know how society and media shoves unrealistic beauty standards on women that can cause women to become self loathing, insecure and obsessed with their looks whilst alsi causing Depression, Eating disorders and BDD.... Well society and media also puts unrealistic standards onto men. Hence why clowns like Andrew Tate are "popular". Lots of cars, brags about having sex with lots of women, rich etc etc etc All these depressed lost impersonable young men who are obsessed with being "Alpha" thinks that will make them happy in life and think it will make them more valuable. Not realising that they already bring a lot of value to their loved ones lives.
When men kill themselves. I don't think they realise how much they are valued by their loved ones. Their parents, their siblings, their friends etc etc etc. For every man that ends his life because they buy into these toxic Societal pressures put onto them. They leave behind a lot of hurt people grieving over them. There is a woman on youtube who made a video called "I lost my son to suicide" which blew up and its heartbreaking. Telling us her journey and helping others with topics around it. Even years later, she is still hurting.
These unrealistic society expectations put onto men is hurting men massively and in turn hurting the people who love and care for those men. That's why men are more obsessed with their sexual endeavours or activity and why some become proud or depressed about it moreso than women. I said this on Facebook which got a shit ton of likes and I mean it: "Some men sadly really do underestimate the value they bring to their loved ones lives."
