Rating? + How do I improve? Help!

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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
 
These pics arnt to your advantage. Hltn - Lmtn
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.









Go to the rest of the best thread and look for guides but for now follow these guides
 
grow ur hair long, trust me
 
change your glasses if you wear them consistently.
 
change hair and glasses
try growing a stubble and see how it looks
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
Hltn - lmtn
 
kinda over I don’t see much left for you to do
 
Grow your hair out bro
 
terrible pics to rate ; take a pic with backwards camera 4-6ft away from mirror otherwise you’re gonna look ltn
 
Your FWHR nerfs you, to fix that choose a hairstyle that covers your forehead, grow out the sides, and keep clean shaven.
 

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