Rating? + How do I improve? Help!

[panev]

Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.

 

[h@rry]

lmtn

 

[BabuJi]

Chadlite in 2002

 

[panev]

Chadlite in 2002

Wasn't even born yet, you got any tips?

 

[panev]

lmtn

You got any tips?

 

[szr]

These pics arnt to your advantage. Hltn - Lmtn

 

[ThisCat]

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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.

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[rapeeat88]

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[youravgincel]

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[abumaaan]

change hair and glasses
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