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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
 
Chadlite in 2002
 
These pics arnt to your advantage. Hltn - Lmtn
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.









Go to the rest of the best thread and look for guides but for now follow these guides
 
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grow ur hair long, trust me
 
change your glasses if you wear them consistently.
 
change hair and glasses
try growing a stubble and see how it looks
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
Hltn - lmtn
 
kinda over I don’t see much left for you to do
 
Grow your hair out bro
 
terrible pics to rate ; take a pic with backwards camera 4-6ft away from mirror otherwise you’re gonna look ltn
 
Your FWHR nerfs you, to fix that choose a hairstyle that covers your forehead, grow out the sides, and keep clean shaven.
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
get jaw fillers, gymmaxx, focus on your confidence and practice comunicating with people, try a different, more younger appealing haircut, smaller less chunky glasses and/or get contacts, look into light coloured contacts too for contrast, rhinoplasty or get topical steroids for nose temporarily
 
Fuck dont know why my last thread got munted like that
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
def ltn but easy potential to ascend
 
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
lol
 
u rrly good
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Alright, I’ll be straight up—I’m 18, feel like an absolute low-tier guy right now, and I’m here because I genuinely want to improve.

My self-esteem is basically in the gutter. My ex left me mostly because of how I look (she never said it directly, but it was obvious), and ever since, I’ve felt like I’m just not good enough. I’ve tried approaching girls a few times and it’s been nothing but awkward, uncomfortable, and humiliating. I’m clearly doing something wrong—whether it’s my face, my vibe, or just being too nervous—but I don’t know where to even start fixing it.

I’ve started calling myself an incel because, honestly, I am one at this point. I’m not proud of it. I’m not here to whine or blame anyone—I just want a brutally honest rating and real advice on how I can actually level up.

Please don’t sugarcoat it. I’d rather hear the harsh truth if it’ll help me stop being this insecure mess. I want to look better, feel better, and maybe one day actually have a shot at finding someone who sees value in me. I know it’s on me to do the work—I just need to know where to aim.

I’ll post pics below—rate me, be honest, and let me know what areas I need to focus on (jaw, skin, hair, grooming, etc). Any tips or resources would mean a lot.

Thanks in advance.
and potencial bro, depends on geo u reach a htn, LHTN in my opn
maybe change haircut and grow ur hair, and try volufimine:blackpill:
 

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