Read this thread and you won't ever see your "crush" the same way ever again

[swaggyp1]

crushes are really arbitrary

most of the time they are mtbs that you arbitrarily latch onto, since they are attractive enough, but seen as attainable

and due to a combination of these two factors, you begin fantasizing and imagining a version of them that doesn't exist in the real world

that is how crushes form and develop

Most oneitis level girls are around PSL 5 to 5.5

The real way to get a girlfriend is to looksmax to a high level, cast a wide net via apps and social media, and choose the women who choose you

We raised a whole generation to think that you get women by talking to them and asking them out once you’ve built rapport

 

[werewollf]

I don't really want to read this

 

[Slavurik]

crushes are really arbitrary

most of the time they are mtbs that you arbitrarily latch onto, since they are attractive enough, but seen as attainable

and due to a combination of these two factors, you begin fantasizing and imagining a version of them that doesn't exist in the real world

that is how crushes form and develop

Most oneitis level girls are around PSL 5 to 5.5

The real way to get a girlfriend is to looksmax to a high level, cast a wide net via apps and social media, and choose the women who choose you

We raised a whole generation to think that you get women by talking to them and asking them out once you’ve built rapport

It is all true, crushes are mostly a waste of time. I had a crush in HS for 2.5 years, fumbled a lot of girls bcs I wanted only her, but was too high-inhib so ended up not even trying talk to her. I am already several months out of HS and still think abt her sometimes. A girl I never talked to btw. And women I did talk or talk to that like me I dgaf about them at all, it is pretty funny how this shit even works

 

[slaviccartfiend]

yes its called infatuation lol

 

[SecularIslamist]

most of the time they are mtbs that you arbitrarily latch onto, since they are attractive enough, but seen as attainable

Nah mine were stacies that the entire school dropped over.