I showed my Mum the article. She said she is indeed looking for men far above her league who think she's easy and she's forcing a connection, but they don't want her.
Good choice that you ghosted her, these hoes don’t deserve it any better
„Oh yeah last week I took a guy home to creampie me but we‘re only friends nowby the way, please start a LTR with me“
Keep crying for Jovan Andrade
@Kamui
Yeah if women darktriadmaxxed and lied about their bodycount, then they will have much better chances at getting a ltr with a chad. If I found out mid way through a relationship that the woman that I thought was pure is a whore, then I would ghost her on the spot and prob snort some ketamine and jump off a bridge tbh.
Wdym if they darktriadmaxxed
Lied and pretended that they were innocent angels
Mum read the op and gave her opinion.
This female is those incel equivalent who think JBF and pairbonding will make chad invisible to their partner.
Import export uncle
I don't get the last bit.
Yes!
Act pure while being slut. Hiding laycount
Just like this girl here think being educated, fit, with friends makes her think she can get high smv men. She fails to realize there are more girls than high smv guys. So things favour high smv guy in dynamics, despite you trying to pairbond. They can replace you anytime and get other girl.
if that guy meets her standards he would meet other girls' standards
She might be telling her dates how she’s pumped and dumped by other men. It’s a fucking turn off no guy would want to be in serious relationship with her. They will manipulate her until she gives sex and ghost her. Jfl at her delusion. No Sympathy
I agree. That to me is the bare minimum for a 5-6/10 SMV man. Assuming she's MTB, her SMV is around a 5.5/10 combined with her entitled, rotten attitude that these men probably spotted. If she wants 8+ she needs other things that make her stand out.
You mean far more high SMV woken than high SMV men. Like what's the ratio you think?
I agree, because other women want the same few men. Of all SMV levels. He will settle with the highest SMV man (not necessarily a Stacy or stacylite, but a woman with the entire package).
And that's the same for this woman but genders reversed.
She likely started off low and wanted to stay low but got involved with college and uni hookup life where she wanted an ltr with high smv men who have other women of higher smv chasing after them.
I agree. So does Mum. These are very high smv men even if the man is htn facially.
That could be a possibility, or the woman saying that she wants an ltr immediately after matching, which reeks of desperation.
To be honest if a woman says she's looking for an ltr it reeks of "Muh I've been pumped and dumped too many times waa waa"
In any case, the fact she waited 4 dates does not scream easy. The majority of people do it on the 1st. These men wouldn’t be ghosting a very high smv woman they fuck on the first date.
Very few women actively disclose their body count to men she just met and I don’t see anything indicating this is the particular reason why they are ghosting her.
Something about her personality might be trash. If you get pumped and dumped by every man you meet you’re the part of problem. Instead of blaming men she should introspect. There are men who would ltr a high body count woman but they might not be her type and compromise a bit. You can’t have everything in life as perfectly as you want.
I agree with that, plus she's nothing special if she has a degree, a stem job and is fit. That's the bare minimum for an educated, average faced and non obese man.
It's her probably saying "I want am ltr" immediately after matching that makes her seem easy to have sex with as it means unsolved trauma from not getting into an ltr.
What do you define a very high smv woman?
What do you think is the reason?
Yes i dont think she disclosed or not making them wait is the issue. Its probably her behavior or entitlement to high smv man while she probably isnt gling(thats why she did not include good looks in her positive traits maybe)
She really thinks a degree and not fat with a decent face is this rare thing. Literally every attractive guy is spammed with girls like that on Hinge. If dating apps actually showed how many girls are dming a certain guy they'd understand how futile many of their dating attempts are
I don't think these high smv men will put up with her waiting till marriage when they can get other girls. They will prob leave and get another girl. And waiting also only work if she is virgin. Otherwise nope. Even then, most guys will bang other girls instead.
Most man if not all would try to keep the high quality girl they meet. She is 100% the problem. But who gonna get women to accept her fault?
She gave sex to guys on first date too. She probably got emotional and was too drunk and confessed about being pumped and dumped to the guy.
What do you think is the thing?
I agree. And what do you mean attractive guy? Are you talking about being spammed by fit, highly educated white be kids and htbs?
What do you think they'll show and how would they react?
Mum thinks she's likely a white woman, specifically Jewish.
Are you sure? The Money Coping I’m a Catch comes mainly from South Asian Foids. She said I’m Hot in my Own Way and Have an Apartment in Good Location saying she’s the catch.
so fucking true
Shit looks
they'll be spammed by a bunch of fit girls with decent Jobs and ok faces.
This is what it should be like on all dating apps. That would give women a real note on their smv. They need to actually see the competition so they can make a rational decision. Without seeing it they basically think they're the only woman swiping and that they can get any dude. I bet most of the dudes she went on dates with just saw her spam typing him on Hinge and thought "she's alright why not"
The apps only allowed women to be women
well they are worse off and so are men
They are not worse off. All they have to do is use their brain and realize that yes swiping 1/1000 men isn't justified when you don't look like Adriana lima
Mum said tit just doesn't sound like an ethnic because of family controls unless if she's a real self hater
Why not?
Even if she were Stacy or stacylite?
Agreed. Taking into account face only.
And with good, frauded and possibly faceapped pics of them at swanky bars and nice holidays jfl.
The roastie said she felt dehumanised when she saw that jfl.
You are anamoly. You do not define the general high smv. Even in your case, you lost your virginity. If you were virgin, you may still be wanting sex. Its girl that hold sex. If 100% girl stop giving sex and ask for marriage, then it will work. But if there are girls who are willing to give sex, u dont. It wont work. even if stacy or stacylite, unless she accepts him having sex elsewhere till they are married.
Why?
Is my smv good?
Yes, but my body count is only one.
I'd be so sexually frustrated but I cope with lucid dreams, porn, drawings, and beautiful fantasies.
Muslim or not I wouldn‘t want my wife to do that and I wouldn't do that either.
