Realized being NT matters over looks

[bddcoper]

Water but I hate that it matters. My current gf only fell for me because of my looks but all the signs show she doesn’t think very highly of my socially. Now that my looks have descended her attitude/attraction towards me feels like it’s changed.

I wish I was NT and able to socialize. Even when I knew that I looked good with girls complimenting me I still didn’t have the confidence or social skills to approach. I can barely function in a social setting and will likely need drugs for many years to lower my inhibitions. I know that if I was just able to talk to women I would be much happier in life as I could leave my gf and just have friends

It makes me so sad that eventually I might achieve a social media level face but will live my life sitting in a corner at every party unable to utilize my looks (and height and physique) to make relationships. Gonna actually cry

 

[bddcoper]

And I see other guys much worse off than me in terms of looks and height with loving gfs that text them with intent and passion and don’t play games with response times. Even though the couple isn’t the best looking they’re still happier than I am in my relationship

 

[MentalistKebab]

Change your girl if she doesnt appreciate you, life isnt some shitty romance book where you have to struggle for 4/10 girls

 

[Adyta69]

And I see other guys much worse off than me in terms of looks and height with loving gfs that text them with intent and passion and don’t play games with response times. Even though the couple isn’t the best looking they’re still happier than I am in my relationship

i get u bro everything just feels forced and robotic

 

[Peachy]

What's your excuse for losing your looks?

 

[lacedwgenius2.0]

i get many iois until conversation and then i get told i'm boring, weird, etc

 

[bddcoper]

Change your girl if she doesnt appreciate you, life isnt some shitty romance book where you have to struggle for 4/10 girls

I can’t I barely got this one from a blind date and have too much autism to find a new one. I’ve been wanting to leave her behind since march but have been delaying it and stupidly forgiving many red flags. I mean out of our first 10 dates she showed up (15+ minutes) late to 9 of them even the first one before I met her.

She’s disrespectful but give her the benefit of the doubt and assume it’s because she’s also not very NT and doesn’t realize. and misreading tone in texts bc I’ve only developed this hatred for her when we started long distance for the summer

 

[bddcoper]

What's your excuse for losing your looks?

Excuse is dirty bulking because I thought I was immune to getting fat on test GH and var

So because my facial leanness isn’t the same flaws like nasolabial folds are back and other flaws like bloated masseters from androgens

I can get them back by the end of summer cuz I’m cutting rn but I’m far from my peak. Though there are some improvements but facial leanness is crucial for my looks

 

[bddcoper]

i get many iois until conversation and then i get told i'm boring, weird, etc

But do women go out of their way to stop you just to tell you that you look good facially

I don’t mean just stares and such for IOIs

 

[lacedwgenius2.0]

But do women go out of their way to stop you just to tell you that you look good facially

I don’t mean just stares and such for IOIs

in school occasionally, on the street just walking no usually not, online yes very often

 

[bddcoper]

i get u bro everything just feels forced and robotic

Yeah especially over text. I keep telling her to be open and just talk what’s on her mind but the more open she becomes the ruder I realize she is as a person. And she’s still not very open as we don’t talk as comfortably as we do to our friends

 

[blinkers]

Title is very true I see many people I personally know that below average get some female attention just because there NT

I would consider myself maybe mtn I look better than some of my friends but they still
Pull because of them being NT / social

 

[bddcoper]

in school occasionally, on the street just walking no usually not, online yes very often

Sad because I’m probably the same way but maybe people don’t have the heart to tell me or just say it behind my back that I am autistic

 

[blinkers]

Sad because I’m probably the same way but maybe people don’t have the heart to tell me or just say it behind my back that I am autistic

Mirim the banner

 

[Adyta69]

Yeah especially over text. I keep telling her to be open and just talk what’s on her mind but the more open she becomes the ruder I realize she is as a person. And she’s still not very open as we don’t talk as comfortably as we do to our friends

this is the exact reason i only had one gf for 3 months cuz that dumb bitch had nothing to talk abt

 

[cursedpaki19]

Water but I hate that it matters. My current gf only fell for me because of my looks but all the signs show she doesn’t think very highly of my socially. Now that my looks have descended her attitude/attraction towards me feels like it’s changed.

I wish I was NT and able to socialize. Even when I knew that I looked good with girls complimenting me I still didn’t have the confidence or social skills to approach. I can barely function in a social setting and will likely need drugs for many years to lower my inhibitions. I know that if I was just able to talk to women I would be much happier in life as I could leave my gf and just have friends

It makes me so sad that eventually I might achieve a social media level face but will live my life sitting in a corner at every party unable to utilize my looks (and height and physique) to make relationships. Gonna actually cry

looks matter more, ive tried putting myself out there and taking inhib lowering drugs just for absolutely nothing to change cus of my subhuman looks

 

[soapbubble]

I can’t I barely got this one from a blind date and have too much autism to find a new one. I’ve been wanting to leave her behind since march but have been delaying it and stupidly forgiving many red flags. I mean out of our first 10 dates she showed up (15+ minutes) late to 9 of them even the first one before I met her.

She’s disrespectful but give her the benefit of the doubt and assume it’s because she’s also not very NT and doesn’t realize. and misreading tone in texts bc I’ve only developed this hatred for her when we started long distance for the summer

Yeah especially over text. I keep telling her to be open and just talk what’s on her mind but the more open she becomes the ruder I realize she is as a person. And she’s still not very open as we don’t talk as comfortably as we do to our friends

break up with her before she breaks up or cheats on you herself

 

[bddcoper]

Mirim the banner

Was so close to buying it on a whim this summer

this is the exact reason i only had one gf for 3 months cuz that dumb bitch had nothing to talk abt

I’m in the same case all we have to talk about is sex. Both of us are extreme introverts with very few friends. She’s not very NT like me

So what do you do in this case. I like her and she likes me (or at least definitely likes me when im lean) so is it worth breaking it off genuinely

 

[soapbubble]

looks matter more, ive tried putting myself out there and taking inhib lowering drugs just for absolutely nothing to change cus of my subhuman looks

lower inhib =/= NT

but you're right that nt won't save subhuman

 

[blinkers]

lower inhib =/= NT

but you're right that nt won't save subhuman

True

But still being NT and low inhib is a god tier combo

 

[bddcoper]

looks matter more, ive tried putting myself out there and taking inhib lowering drugs just for absolutely nothing to change cus of my subhuman looks

But even when I had the looks I couldn’t even do anything with them even with drugs btw. Even on pregab bac propranolol test my inhibitions are barely reduced

 

[AustrianMogger]

Water but I hate that it matters. My current gf only fell for me because of my looks but all the signs show she doesn’t think very highly of my socially. Now that my looks have descended her attitude/attraction towards me feels like it’s changed.

I wish I was NT and able to socialize. Even when I knew that I looked good with girls complimenting me I still didn’t have the confidence or social skills to approach. I can barely function in a social setting and will likely need drugs for many years to lower my inhibitions. I know that if I was just able to talk to women I would be much happier in life as I could leave my gf and just have friends

It makes me so sad that eventually I might achieve a social media level face but will live my life sitting in a corner at every party unable to utilize my looks (and height and physique) to make relationships. Gonna actually cry

Cope.

 

[cursedpaki19]

lower inhib =/= NT

but you're right that nt won't save subhuman

autism makes you have higher inhib

 

[bddcoper]

break up with her before she breaks up or cheats on you herself

That’s what I was thinking I just get this nasty feeling that she’s going to cheat. She was a virgin and caught feelings + asked me to be official first but how do I know she won’t cheat now that she’s lost her virginity already and won’t be nervous about sex

 

[Adyta69]

Was so close to buying it on a whim this summer


I’m in the same case all we have to talk about is sex. Both of us are extreme introverts with very few friends. She’s not very NT like me

So what do you do in this case. I like her and she likes me (or at least definitely likes me when im lean) so is it worth breaking it off genuinely

in my case tbh she was a extrovert but was stupid asf and felt stupid even told me she feels like im more intelligent then her and i told her just initiate a conv but tbh idc anymore i realized after we broke up that she was a low iq ltb

only advice i could give u is just start pushing the conv and stop caring so much

 

[bddcoper]

in my case tbh she was a extrovert but was stupid asf and felt stupid even told me she feels like im more intelligent then her and i told her just initiate a conv but tbh idc anymore i realized after we broke up that she was a low iq ltb

only advice i could give u is just start pushing the conv and stop caring so much

Okay yeah I just need to start responding less and just not giving her a say anymore until I get good enough to leave her. Thanks

 

[soapbubble]

That’s what I was thinking I just get this nasty feeling that she’s going to cheat. She was a virgin and caught feelings + asked me to be official first but how do I know she won’t cheat now that she’s lost her virginity already and won’t be nervous about sex

if you've already taken her virginity why bother with someone who's disrespectful and annoying? someone who doesn't give a fuck about the relationship is inevitably going to either cheat or just break things off themselves, might as well just leave and keep your dignity and pride/image as the ex who initiated the separation instead of the ex who either got broken up with or cucked

 

[Adyta69]

Okay yeah I just need to start responding less and just not giving her a say anymore until I get good enough to leave her. Thanks

no just stop thinking while ur talking and be more direct u gotta impose some alpha aura idk i'm not great at ts but saw it working for some ugly ass guys ltn that had cracked mhtb-htb

 

[isis_Bleach]

all about looks tbh

 

[try2beme]

Ohhh wowwww tiktokcel you’re so early and bright!


Kys bro, your algorithm nailed it into you too late

 

[bddcoper]

if you've already taken her virginity why bother with someone who's disrespectful and annoying? someone who doesn't give a fuck about the relationship is inevitably going to either cheat or just break things off themselves, might as well just leave and keep your dignity and pride/image as the ex who initiated the separation instead of the ex who either got broken up with or cucked

Good point as soon as the moment comes I’ll leave. She cares about the relationship but is disrespectful both knowingly and unknowingly

I need to figure out a drug stack and get good at sex plus ascend back to my prime and that’s it if she hasn’t changed goodbye to her

 

[bddcoper]

Ohhh wowwww tiktokcel you’re so early and bright!


Kys bro, your algorithm nailed it into you too late

Smd nigger that’s why you’re virgin