ThunderBolt
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'' Two things.
Men are attracted mostly visually. That means that men's attraction towards women is generated mostly passively by the woman. This means that a lot of men will be sexually attracted to women right off the bat, before their eyes have even met.
Women are attracted mostly emotionally. That means that women's attraction towards men is generated mostly actively by the man. This means that a lot of women will NOT initially be sexually attracted to men right off the bat, before their eyes have even met. The sparks usually start flying within the first few minutes or so of an interaction, if the man acts in the right way.
This also explains why women are usually not attracted to their male friends: they have a platonic relationship and usually the reason why they've become platonic friends to begin with was that the man did not attract the woman but established a good connection, which means she liked him as a friend only. That's what people refer to as the "friend zone". The man is, as explained above, still passively attracted to the woman, however.
This also explains why men swipe right on more women (attracted to looks) but women swipe right on very few men (attracted to traits that cannot be well displayed in a profile). Men have a huge disadvantage in OLD because it's hard to attract women without a real, face-to-face interaction.
Furthermore, you have simple evolutionary reasons: men are attracted to a wide variety of women because it's easy for them to mate with a lot of women in a short time. Women are often attracted to the creme de la creme of men, the "alpha" if you will, because she can only get pregnant every 9 months and it's risky for her. This may be outdated in the age of casual sex and contraception but it seems evolution has not caught up with the time. In any case, these behaviors like female pickiness can be observed in most areas of the animal kingdom. ''
Men are attracted mostly visually. That means that men's attraction towards women is generated mostly passively by the woman. This means that a lot of men will be sexually attracted to women right off the bat, before their eyes have even met.
Women are attracted mostly emotionally. That means that women's attraction towards men is generated mostly actively by the man. This means that a lot of women will NOT initially be sexually attracted to men right off the bat, before their eyes have even met. The sparks usually start flying within the first few minutes or so of an interaction, if the man acts in the right way.
This also explains why women are usually not attracted to their male friends: they have a platonic relationship and usually the reason why they've become platonic friends to begin with was that the man did not attract the woman but established a good connection, which means she liked him as a friend only. That's what people refer to as the "friend zone". The man is, as explained above, still passively attracted to the woman, however.
This also explains why men swipe right on more women (attracted to looks) but women swipe right on very few men (attracted to traits that cannot be well displayed in a profile). Men have a huge disadvantage in OLD because it's hard to attract women without a real, face-to-face interaction.
Furthermore, you have simple evolutionary reasons: men are attracted to a wide variety of women because it's easy for them to mate with a lot of women in a short time. Women are often attracted to the creme de la creme of men, the "alpha" if you will, because she can only get pregnant every 9 months and it's risky for her. This may be outdated in the age of casual sex and contraception but it seems evolution has not caught up with the time. In any case, these behaviors like female pickiness can be observed in most areas of the animal kingdom. ''
