JohnDoe
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Apparently in christianity there is no such thing as Divorce, you can't marry a divorced woman because the concept doesn't exist. In Islam there are certain restrictions placed on the woman and she can;t just divorce for no reason and rightfully so as seen in the west when women are divorcing just for random reasons.
People forget marriage is sacred and it's for life, there is no do-overs or 2nd chances unless you meet the strict requirements but for the most part you are stuck with that person for life. This is why it's so stupid to just get a wife based on looks. Looks always fade, there's no way around it. This is also why you have to like the woman you want to marry on a very core level, you have to like her character, her spirit, it's the only way to have a lifelong fulfilling and happy marriage.
This is why i don't understand when people laugh when they see me say personality and character/nature is more important even if the girl is average.
Marriage & sex are both sacred, being a virgin and not engaging in pre-marital sex or just in general having sex with women i have no intention of marrying is something good, i see that now. I really think you have to be of a certain level of maturity, past the whole slaying/hedonistic pleasure seeking state of mind to truly understand the real nature of marriage and having a partner. There is a reason why it is forbidden by God. A lifelong partner, and you want to judge them based solely on their looks? only a fool would think this way.
People forget marriage is sacred and it's for life, there is no do-overs or 2nd chances unless you meet the strict requirements but for the most part you are stuck with that person for life. This is why it's so stupid to just get a wife based on looks. Looks always fade, there's no way around it. This is also why you have to like the woman you want to marry on a very core level, you have to like her character, her spirit, it's the only way to have a lifelong fulfilling and happy marriage.
This is why i don't understand when people laugh when they see me say personality and character/nature is more important even if the girl is average.
Marriage & sex are both sacred, being a virgin and not engaging in pre-marital sex or just in general having sex with women i have no intention of marrying is something good, i see that now. I really think you have to be of a certain level of maturity, past the whole slaying/hedonistic pleasure seeking state of mind to truly understand the real nature of marriage and having a partner. There is a reason why it is forbidden by God. A lifelong partner, and you want to judge them based solely on their looks? only a fool would think this way.