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optimisticzoomer
Licensed sex therapist. Taking consultations.
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If you're not at least chadlite, you will never be their first choice.
This is fine for sex: it doesn't matter if they want someone else, if you hit you've still succeeded.
But for a relationship, if you are normie level looks, you will never be her first choice and thus she will always feel disappointed she didn't/couldn't get someone better
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This is fine for sex: it doesn't matter if they want someone else, if you hit you've still succeeded.
But for a relationship, if you are normie level looks, you will never be her first choice and thus she will always feel disappointed she didn't/couldn't get someone better