
faustianspirit
nothing ever feels right, get used to it
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So basically I have known this girl for a week, slept together plenty of times, dates, I’ve been to her place, blablabla
Last night we had dinner and afterwards went into my dorm, and after making out for a while she sitted on the bed and started crying, I asked her what’s wrong and she told me she was scared of us going too fast and getting saturated of each other soon
I can see where she is coming from, but since my brain is wired differently I just didn’t see anything wrong with how things were going
She is coming over again tomorrow, but this thing really fucked me up, because I am very insecure and I now believe it is my fault, eventhough she assured she loves me and wants us to keep seeing each other
Should I slow things with her?
This is my first time dealing with a “relationship” so I want to know your opinion.
Thanks.
Last night we had dinner and afterwards went into my dorm, and after making out for a while she sitted on the bed and started crying, I asked her what’s wrong and she told me she was scared of us going too fast and getting saturated of each other soon
I can see where she is coming from, but since my brain is wired differently I just didn’t see anything wrong with how things were going
She is coming over again tomorrow, but this thing really fucked me up, because I am very insecure and I now believe it is my fault, eventhough she assured she loves me and wants us to keep seeing each other
Should I slow things with her?
This is my first time dealing with a “relationship” so I want to know your opinion.
Thanks.