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So basically I have known this girl for a week, slept together plenty of times, dates, I’ve been to her place, blablabla

Last night we had dinner and afterwards went into my dorm, and after making out for a while she sitted on the bed and started crying, I asked her what’s wrong and she told me she was scared of us going too fast and getting saturated of each other soon

I can see where she is coming from, but since my brain is wired differently I just didn’t see anything wrong with how things were going

She is coming over again tomorrow, but this thing really fucked me up, because I am very insecure and I now believe it is my fault, eventhough she assured she loves me and wants us to keep seeing each other

Should I slow things with her?

This is my first time dealing with a “relationship” so I want to know your opinion.

Thanks.
 
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Dude don't worry everything is going perfect
 
So basically I have known this girl for a week, slept together plenty of times, dates, I’ve been to her place, blablabla

Last night we had dinner and afterwards went into my dorm, and after making out for a while she sitted on the bed and started crying, I asked her what’s wrong and she told me she was scared of us going too fast and getting saturated of each other soon

I can see where she is coming from, but since my brain is wired differently I just didn’t see anything wrong with how things were going

She is coming over again tomorrow, but this thing really fucked me up, because I am very insecure and I now believe it is my fault, eventhough she assured she loves me and wants us to keep seeing each other

Should I slow things with her?

This is my first time dealing with a “relationship” so I want to know your opinion.

Thanks.
Keep it at a sane rythm that's all
 
So basically I have known this girl for a week, slept together plenty of times, dates, I’ve been to her place, blablabla

Last night we had dinner and afterwards went into my dorm, and after making out for a while she sitted on the bed and started crying, I asked her what’s wrong and she told me she was scared of us going too fast and getting saturated of each other soon

I can see where she is coming from, but since my brain is wired differently I just didn’t see anything wrong with how things were going

She is coming over again tomorrow, but this thing really fucked me up, because I am very insecure and I now believe it is my fault, eventhough she assured she loves me and wants us to keep seeing each other

Should I slow things with her?

This is my first time dealing with a “relationship” so I want to know your opinion.

Thanks.
had the same thing happen to me in my first relationship, just slow down a bit but not too much, show a lot of interest but if she will give you some sign to fuck her, do it
 

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