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Reminder that most of you here are fucking straight losers in the head. You've never approached a girl that shows interest or have experience of talking to people (especially girls), and if you do approach and get rejected you no longer try thus you no longer improve (behaviour/game wise).

Most of you act hard, tough and "alpha" online but quiver in the presence of a female who you are attracted to because you're little bitches; the same way I was. I used to be a socially inept sperg late middle school until I started putting myself in social circles and early high school was when I started getting results with girls and people in general. I started dressing better, I was working out but most importantly I knew how to interact with people, from the good looking girls to the spergs who was being bullied in class I would treat them equally unless they had a problem with me.

This is the first step, general human interactions. The second step is seducing and having "game" with girls, which the first step will easily ease you into.

The thing with "game" is that its not a thing that can just be built up on the first approach if you're not a natural, it takes time to perfect and be intuitive around people. In real life you need to be able to read a females body language/demeanour, that's often how they communicate and if you don't know what you're looking for you're bound to cock block yourself even if the women give clear signals, and you don't know how many times I've cock blocked myself by what I said and did even though the girl was physically attracted to me.

Remember that getting inside a female mind is more powerful than getting to her physically especially in the modern day.


YOU MUST TAKE EVERY PILL, YOU MUST IMPROVE IN EVERY AREA.

Inspired by @Matheus @DatGuyYouLike @tyronelite who seems to have experience irl
 
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First again son

You should be more protective of your threads virginity tbh
@NewParasite the hymen destroyer strikes again

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we have shit looks/genes. (the most important factor) i would bet every last cent if i had chad looks i wouldn't have this problem

and let me expand: social development comes from positive feedback and confidence, which is built from people treating you well because of your looks. while it may be true that if we were given chad looks today we would still have social deficiencies, but if we grew up with chad looks we would not have these social deficiencies.

you are basically victim blaming people OP. and btw those normies who actually have "game" often get cucked by better looking men anyway. a relationship based on looks/genes will have more sustainability than "game"
 
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we have shit looks/genes. (the most important factor) i would bet every last cent if i had chad looks i wouldn't have this problem

and let me expand: social development comes from positive feedback and confidence, which is built from people treating you well because of your looks. while it may be true that if we were given chad looks today we would still have social deficiencies, but if we grew up with chad looks we would not have these social deficiencies.

you are basically victim blaming people OP. and btw those normies who actually have "game" often get cucked by better looking men anyway. a relationship based on looks/genes will have more sustainability than "game"

That doesn't mean you shouldn't try to improve in every area you, if you're poor would want to accept it and stay poor? just because someone else is born to a billionaire family doesn't mean you shouldn't build up your wealth.

Also I moved countries not knowing a word of English and put in a school and area full of white people, I got picked on until I started standing up for myself and stopped cowering
 
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Can't relate. I am naturally socially gifted. In middle school I was always pretty popular, lots of social circles, but girls still didn't like me because I was ugly.

Early high school I was still popular, but distinctions started becoming apparent as my better-looking male friends started socializing more and more with girls. Girls that wanted nothing to do with me because I was ugly. Eventually all I had was other ugly guys as friends, since better looking guys didn't want to associate with me as much anymore.

The first step is always looks. Social skills and confidence come automatically with the positive reinforcement that looks will bring you in life.

If you are ugly, socializing will be a negative experience and it won't come naturally to you with 0 effort like it does to people like OP that get all the positive reinforcement because of their genetic advantage.
 
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anyone who actually needs the information in this thread in their life is probably too far gone to accept it tho
 
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anyone who actually needs the information in this thread in their life is probably too far gone to accept it tho
Unfortunate tbh.
 
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What does being straight have to do with being a loser? You part of the LGBTP community boyo?
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anyone who actually needs the information in this thread in their life is probably too far gone to accept it tho

They rather accept defeat than to try.

These are the same cucks that will let their village get slaughtered, their women raped and get beheaded by invaders than fight back, you might as well try even when the outcome is likely the same.
 
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These are the same cucks that will let their village get slaughtered, their women raped and get beheaded by invaders than fight back, you might as well try even when the outcome is likely the same.
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Good quote but in the end it doesn't mean shit because you're not going to do shit.

You can't take actions, you only accept what you are given.
 
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Just get game and be clown running from one girl to another theory. Is this PUA site?
 
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and let me expand: social development comes from positive feedback and confidence, which is built from people treating you well because of your looks. while it may be true that if we were given chad looks today we would still have social deficiencies, but if we grew up with chad looks we would not have these social deficiencies.

Brutal :feelswah:
 
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Just get game and be clown running from one girl to another theory. Is this PUA site?

Yes because most of you don't know what you're doing because you have no experiences.

This is more than just game, this is life in general.
 
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don’t listen to them OP you are right
 
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They rather accept defeat than to try.

These are the same cucks that will let their village get slaughtered, their women raped and get beheaded by invaders than fight back, you might as well try even when the outcome is likely the same.
Very true.

You'll regret it more later if you don't try, as opposed to trying. At least when it comes to approaching somebody you truly like.
 
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Very true.

You'll regret it more later if you don't try, as opposed to trying. At least when it comes to approaching.

Exactly, a lot of regrets come by not doing more than it does from the failure of doing.

And the further, the longer you leave it, the harder it all becomes. Remember that the first step is always the biggest step.
 
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Funny thing is makers of retarded bluepill threads like these, are incels too.

They just spit random bullshit "muh you are an ugly loser". Yeah bro than what are u ? Wasting your time in an incel site.
 
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Funny thing is makers of retarded bluepill threads like these, are incels too.

They just spit random bullshit "muh you are an ugly loser". Yeah bro than what are u ? Wasting your time in an incel site.

I am exactly that but at least I am aware and willing to change.
 
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Yes because most of you don't know what you're doing because you have no experiences.

This is more than just game, this is life in general.
I have a friend who is 177cm (5'10), 25 years old, he is extroverted, average looking, perfect head of hair, really funny to be around. He takes care of himself. He never get any ioi's from girls yet he still approaches girls. He is that guy who is talking to old people while waiting in line at the store. I was going out with him and you know what? He never had girlfriend. Most girls treat him like he is invisible and you dare to tell me that average introverted guy should making clown out of him like my friend who is extroverted centre of the party? If you want to rope then yes. I agree with all you say, if you are high-tier normie. If you are average just stop coping with PUA bullshit.
 
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Very true.

You'll regret it more later if you don't try, as opposed to trying. At least when it comes to approaching somebody you truly like.
In the end, you only regret the things you didn't do and the chances you didn't take.
I can personally attest to this as I never tried to pursue love, dating, approaching etc. in my teen years.

Now that I'm in my early 20s and nothing has changed in that regard, I'm obviously lagging behind in comparison to other people my age, which could potentially make things even more difficult for me down the line. Still, I have to start trying at one point.
I can't say it's over if I never tried in the first place.

Better late than never is definitely a better mindset than having a defeatist view about everything.
 
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In the end, you only regret the things you didn't do and the chances you didn't take.
I can personally attest to this as I never tried to pursue love, dating, approaching etc. in my teen years.

Now that I'm in my early 20s and nothing has changed in that regard, I'm obviously lagging behind in comparison to other people my age, which could potentially make things even more difficult for me down the line. Still, I have to start trying at one point.
I can't say it's over if I never tried in the first place.

Better late than never is definitely a better mindset than having a defeatist view about everything.
u here bro
 
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a relationship based on looks/genes will have more sustainability than "game"

Its not just about "game" bro, its about being able to interact with people in general which will also help in other area such as with women.

To me "game" is part of being able to be myself instead of trying to be nice to a girl, trying to impress her with every move or being nervous around them just because they're pretty.
 
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I have a friend who is 177cm (5'10), 25 years old, he is extroverted, average looking, perfect head of hair, really funny to be around. He takes care of himself. He never get any ioi's from girls yet he still approaches girls. He is that guy who is talking to old people while waiting in line at the store. I was going out with him and you know what? He never had girlfriend. Most girls treat him like he is invisible and you dare to tell me that average introverted guy should making clown out of him like my friend who is extroverted centre of the party? If you want to rope then yes. I agree with all you say, if you are high-tier normie. If you are average just stop coping with PUA bullshit.

Extroversion does not equal good behaviour. I know extroverts that are annoying af, bordering line unbearable to be around.
 
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Its not just about "game" bro, its about being able to interact with people in general which will also help in other area such as with women.

To me "game" is part of being able to be myself instead of trying to be nice to a girl, trying to impress her with every move or being nervous around them just because they're pretty.
Yep having game is all about being cool coming naturally to u
 
Yep having game is all about being cool coming naturally to u

Not really, it was never "natural" to me and I had to build up through experiences, like I said I failed but I also had success.
 
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Not really, it was never "natural" to me and I had to build up through experiences, like I said I failed but I also had success.
That's what I meant, it comes naturally with time as long as ur putting the effort in interacting. No one develops game immediately.
 
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Funny thing is makers of retarded bluepill threads like these, are incels too.

They just spit random bullshit "muh you are an ugly loser". Yeah bro than what are u ? Wasting your time in an incel site.
keep crying for him he's a chang

In the end, you only regret the things you didn't do and the chances you didn't take.
I can personally attest to this as I never tried to pursue love, dating, approaching etc. in my teen years.

Now that I'm in my early 20s and nothing has changed in that regard, I'm obviously lagging behind in comparison to other people my age, which could potentially make things even more difficult for me down the line. Still, I have to start trying at one point.
I can't say it's over if I never tried in the first place.

Better late than never is definitely a better mindset than having a defeatist view about everything.
It is a shame tbh, because I can confidently say teen years are the best time because there's less expected of you, non-NT shit/turboautism is forgiven, and you're still considered a kid.

I doubt it'll be like this in college.

Still, by trying, and looksmaxxing, you are already ahead of a good percent of men (depends on your base but as long as one's not markedly below average looking, it works).
 
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Extroversion does not equal good behaviour. I know extroverts that are annoying af, bordering line unbearable to be around.
Exactly people use examples like this to show how "NT is cope."
 
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Interesting thread, but debating this shit is pointless, you're not gonna change negative pessimistic guys' emotionally charged belief.
 
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First again son

You should be more protective of your threads virginity tbh
@NewParasite the hymen destroyer strikes again

Everyone who replies after me just gets my sloppy seconds, have fun with my scraps you cucks
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I'm starting to think being low inhib and NT is the one of the few ways of having long term happiness.

Imagine confidently being able to express yourself and not giving a fuck what people think about you.

In so tired to being so anxious around people tbh I'd rather be a NT, no inhib normie than chad tbh

All game is, is being confident in any action you carry out, that to me sounds like a way better life than trying to become chad
 
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Interesting thread, but debating this shit is pointless, you're not gonna change negative pessimistic guys' emotionally charged belief.

Exactly that again, they would cry over what they can't change than to improve what they can.
 
Imagine taking anything on this forum seriously
 
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I'm starting to think being low inhib and NT is the one of the few ways of having long term happiness.

Imagine confidently being able to express yourself and not giving a fuck what people think about you.

In so tired to being so anxious around people tbh I'd rather be a NT, no inhib normie than chad tbh

All game is, is being confident in any action you carry out, that to me sounds like a way better life than trying to become chad

This is what I mean, you are able to be YOURSELF

Most people nowadays are so anxious and cant even hold eye contact more than a second even in small interactions jfl
 
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Am I at a decent situation @Effortless Im pretty social IRL, albeit a bit awkward, I have a good social and friends group and people tend to treat me pretty well. I can talk to girls but in a joking way, as if I’m not serious w the convo (not to point of a jester), I just can’t continue conversations with them in a serious way like how would I know when to ask them out, like you say to ask consistently to ensure experience. It just seems like an awkward situation that would result in me being ostracized or outcasted by friends or the people around me for asking randoms out.
 
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This is what I mean, you are able to be YOURSELF

Most people nowadays are so anxious and cant even hold eye contact more than a second even in small interactions jfl
I've had some of the most fun times while I was drunk and had no inhib, fun as fuck social interactions.

I need to find a way to replicate that sober tbh. I genuinely think being no inhib sober is a massive halo irl
 
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Am I at a decent situation @Effortless Im pretty social IRL, albeit a bit awkward, I have a good social and friends group and people tend to treat me pretty well. I can talk to girls but in a joking way, as if I’m not serious w the convo (not to point of a jester), I just can’t continue conversations with them in a serious way like how would I know when to ask them out, like you say to ask consistently to ensure experience. It just seems like an awkward situation that would result in me being ostracized or outcasted by friends or the people around me for asking randoms out.

You need to show interest as well not just be the funny friendly guy, and they will either comply through body language or reject. Girls will give you subtle hints and its your own decision to make that move, from my experience 99% of girls arent going to be completely direct and drag you to bed, she will give hints of what she wants to do but its up to you to lead her and confirm what she wants.

If you already built up attraction and want to ask her out, do it. Don't be afraid of the outcome, just take it as what ever and not to heart because at least you tried. The more you do it the more you will be comfortable and the better you'll get at making decisions.

Just be in the moment and stop thinking too much.
 
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True but most people who need this either won't accept it or won't have the mental fortitude to handle the tremendous pain and frustration that comes with the first rejections. Also it can seem overly abstract for people who don't have the looks to use online dating, don't have any social circle, and are short on opportunities to meet new people, aka basement dwellers.

Also I would still say 4PSL and >5'6 to be able to game decently. Otherwise it's holding you back
 
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Am I at a decent situation @Effortless Im pretty social IRL, albeit a bit awkward, I have a good social and friends group and people tend to treat me pretty well. I can talk to girls but in a joking way, as if I’m not serious w the convo (not to point of a jester), I just can’t continue conversations with them in a serious way like how would I know when to ask them out, like you say to ask consistently to ensure experience. It just seems like an awkward situation that would result in me being ostracized or outcasted by friends or the people around me for asking randoms out.
Decent situation to be honest if you have a good social circle. I would recommend physical contact to escalate with bitches. You can talk all you want it's just blablabla but be smart with your touch and bingo. Physical contact also allows you to escalate without directly expressing interest. From my experience
 
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True but most people who need this either won't accept it or won't have the mental fortitude to handle the tremendous pain and frustration that comes with the first rejections. Also it can seem overly abstract for people who don't have the looks to use online dating, don't have any social circle, and are short on opportunities to meet new people, aka basement dwellers.

Also I would still say 4PSL and >5'6 to be able to game decently. Otherwise it's holding you back

Just like most things in life, the more you do the better you become at it even if its hard at first.

Who'd you think will be more successful at landing a plane? a bus driver or a pilot.

I'm not saying that looks don't play a major part, but even me who mogs many men when I go out, I gotten rejected because I was either being too pushy, needy or generally retarded. You need to find a balance. Behaviour is a lot more important than people realise.

and for any socially inept dwellers here who think its too late, firstly join the gym, build up a decent body then start looking to join a sport club, any team sports and go regularly. A lot of people are accepting and welcoming, willing to teach you and that way you can gradually build friendship. Just don't be an absolute dickhead.

Yes I know it will be hard and you will be extremely anxious at first but you need to make that leap if you want to better your life.
 
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You need at least average looks to receive anything but humiliation and rejection. The difference in socialising between being a morbidly obese trucel to below average looking was fucking immense for me. It's what made me resent normies in he start before I was even blackpilled. I get wanting to improve social skills and shit but it just isn't worth it if you're ugly imo.
 
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You need at least average looks to receive anything but humiliation and rejection. The difference in socialising between being a morbidly obese trucel to below average looking was fucking immense for me. It's what made me resent normies in he start before I was even blackpilled. I get wanting to improve social skills and shit but it just isn't worth it if you're ugly imo.

This thread is not just about getting girls, its the fact that most people here are afraid of even the smallest interactions and have no clue what to do and expect that if they had the looks they'll automatically become non autistic and get girls dragging them to bed

Everything that you can improve, you should. A lot of small things can add up to big results.
 
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This thread is not just about getting girls, its the fact that most people here are afraid of even the smallest interactions and have no clue what to do and expect that if they had the looks they'll automatically become non autistic

Everything that you can improve, you should. A lot of small things can add up to big results.
I'm not talking about getting girls bro. I never even tried getting girls while I was trucel level, I'm not autistic so I can read body language and facial expressions.
I also agree with your thread, I just don't think it's worth the effort for someone on Incel level with some exceptions.
 
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Cope. Chad doesn’t need game
 
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They rather accept defeat than to try.

These are the same cucks that will let their village get slaughtered, their women raped and get beheaded by invaders than fight back, you might as well try even when the outcome is likely the same.
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I Need to hear that more
 
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Most of you act hard, tough and "alpha" online but quiver in the presence of a female who you are attracted to because you're little bitches; the same way I was. I used to be a socially inept sperg late middle school until I started putting myself in social circles and early high school was when I started getting results with girls and people in general. I started dressing better, I was working out but most importantly I knew how to interact with people, from the good looking girls to the spergs who was being bullied in class I would treat them equally unless they had a problem with me.
This. If some of guys acted as "dark triad" on here as you do Irl i bet you would slay.
 
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Cope. Chad doesn’t need game

But you're not Chad retard.

Just because a paraplegic don't need a wheelchair to cross the street by dragging their body with their arms doesn't mean they're not better of with a wheel chair.
 
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