Reminder that most of you here are fucking straight losers because...

[Deleted member 9989]

It is true. The less look you have, the more play you should have.

But we are here to get looks, the best way to attract foids. We are here to don’t use game. Just be natural. Game is for normies and incel imo

 

[Effortless]

It is true. The less look you have, the more play you should have.

But we are here to get looks, the best way to attract foids. We are here to don’t use game. Just be natural. Game is for normies and incel imo

"Its not just about "game" bro, its about being able to interact with people in general which will also help in other area such as with women.

To me "game" is part of being able to be myself instead of trying to be nice to a girl, trying to impress her with every move or being nervous around them just because they're pretty. "

^^

 

[Deleted member 9989]

"Its not just about "game" bro, its about being able to interact with people in general which will also help in other area such as with women.

To me "game" is part of being able to be myself instead of trying to be nice to a girl, trying to impress her with every move or being nervous around them just because they're pretty. "

^^

« Personnality » is more harder to change than looks tbh

just hit cocaine maxxing for dating ngl

 

[Effortless]

« Personnality » is more harder to change than looks tbh

You just can cocaine maxxing for dating ngl

Jfl if you're not overdosing on your dates

lets be honest, most here can only looksmax to 5-6 PSL max and after that point its more beneficial work on your personality

If I can change something for the better I will, in every aspect.

 

[Deleted member 9989]

Jfl if you're not overdosing on your dates :feelshaha :

lets be honest, most here can only looksmax to 5-6 PSL max and after that point its more beneficial work on your personality

If I can change something for the better I will, in every aspect.

Yes. And then even if you miss a date with a foid beceause cringe move, you can fuck her later if you have looks she can still attract

 

[Effortless]

Yes. And then even if you miss a date with a foid beceause cringe move, you can fuck her later if you have looks she can still attract

Thats if you want to slay and as a guy who has I wouldn't recommend it

It leaves you unfulfilled and makes you think that every women is an automatic whore because when you look for ons you will find whores

 

[Deleted member 9989]

Thats if you want to slay and as a guy who has I wouldn't recommend it

It leaves you unfulfilled and makes you think that every women is an automatic whore

every women is an automatic whore

 

[Effortless]

every women is an automatic whore

There are good women out there, they're just very low percentage.

Same with guys, majority of males and females are low quality, maybe not looks wise but in values and integrity

 

[Deleted member 9989]

There are good women out there, they're just very low percentage.

Same with guys, majority of males and females are low quality.

I hope you will slay, boyo

 

[Effortless]

I hope you will slay, boyo

I have a girlfriend bro, wish you well though

 

[Deleted member 6191]

You need to show interest as well not just be the funny friendly guy, and they will either comply through body language or reject. Girls will give you subtle hints and its your own decision to make that move, from my experience 99% of girls arent going to be completely direct and drag you to bed, she will give hints of what she wants to do but its up to you to lead her and confirm what she wants.

If you already built up attraction and want to ask her out, do it. Don't be afraid of the outcome, just take it as what ever and not to heart because at least you tried. The more you do it the more you will be comfortable and the better you'll get at making decisions.

Just be in the moment and stop thinking too much.

I legit can't tell IOI [which i tend to think it's just the next thing] to just being friendly, i try to be/show hints of interest on my end but usally nothing happens. I'm in senior HS, and it's coming to an end w/ no opportunities rn cuz of rona. But even before that, what am I supposed to do? hey do you wanna go out w me? it seems cringe to people irl and seems like it'd end miserably.
Example of something ik for sure was earlier last year my oneitis "showed hints" w wanting to dm everyday and told mutual friends of interest, so i started talking to her and when i told her I was interested she says she doens't know me enough and we should talk more, and then i just stopped talking to her cuz it seemed like an intense waste of time after months on end. I'm pretty sure since I was aspie af and barely spoke to her irl [and only online] I made her think I was creepy.
all in all i mean, if i just ask everyone out at my school or uni next year, wouldn't it seem extra and just down bad/desperate asking girls whom I have interest in? I don't wanna waste

Decent situation to be honest if you have a good social circle. I would recommend physical contact to escalate with bitches. You can talk all you want it's just blablabla but be smart with your touch and bingo. Physical contact also allows you to escalate without directly expressing interest. From my experience

i mean these are kinda girls im close w, but wouldn't touching them randomly come off as creepy? could u elab?

 

[Deleted member 8616]

@Effortless mirin your threads, couldn't articulate any of this better
i actually get a lot of female attention(im 17) but i never really went a step further to actually form a relationship
instead i obsess over every single flaw of mine i can find, instead of focusing on irl results instead. im sure many others can relate
for example i used to obsess over a tiny scar i have on my forehead who nobody had ever noticed, then I was convinced i had anterior pelvic tilt, then i thought i was balding and even got invisalign despite having a perfect bite naturally...
i have dealt with those problems now, the only thing i feel like its holding me back and i still obsess over, is my height. im 177.5cm when i wake up and my low is 176.5cm. if i could get my low to be 177cm then i would stop obsessing

 

[Deleted member 4464]

I agree with this a little. I have never approached a girl, even the girl from my class which was sitting across the room and which I have caught her more than once to turn back and look at me for more than a few seconds(idk why I can always feel when somebody is staring at me) but I think if she really found me attractive maybe she would have approached me first right?

 

[Deleted member 8616]

I agree with this a little. I have never approached a girl, even the girl from my class which was sitting across the room and which I have caught her more than once to turn back and look at me for more than a few seconds(idk why I can always feel when somebody is staring at me) but I think if she really found me attractive maybe she would have approached me first right?

very unlikely she would approach you herself, even if she liked you
read this thread if u haven't already, https://looksmax.org/threads/women-do-approach.88403/

 

[Matheus]

I legit can't tell IOI [which i tend to think it's just the next thing] to just being friendly, i try to be/show hints of interest on my end but usally nothing happens. I'm in senior HS, and it's coming to an end w/ no opportunities rn cuz of rona. But even before that, what am I supposed to do? hey do you wanna go out w me? it seems cringe to people irl and seems like it'd end miserably.
Example of something ik for sure was earlier last year my oneitis "showed hints" w wanting to dm everyday and told mutual friends of interest, so i started talking to her and when i told her I was interested she says she doens't know me enough and we should talk more, and then i just stopped talking to her cuz it seemed like an intense waste of time after months on end. I'm pretty sure since I was aspie af and barely spoke to her irl [and only online] I made her think I was creepy.
all in all i mean, if i just ask everyone out at my school or uni next year, wouldn't it seem extra and just down bad/desperate asking girls whom I have interest in? I don't wanna waste

i mean these are kinda girls im close w, but wouldn't touching them randomly come off as creepy? could u elab?

Assume interest, at first I looked for IOIs but it's bullshit. Just make moves she'll tell you or make it clear if she isn't into you.

You can do it with HS girls but be aware if you do it too much you'll have a bad rep. I did a year in social sciences with mostly girls and hit on a load of them despite being an introvert and not going too much towards them. I had a gutter tier rep though sometimes I would talk to girls and they would randomly mention my reputation. Try to diversify your "training" with multiple social circles or focus on one where you dgaf about your rep.

Yes ask her for a walk, a drink, a movie, whatever floats your boat. She knows what it means but you can't make it too explicit. Just ask it as an off-beat like it doesn't mean much.

Don't tell a girl you're interested, ask her out, or show interest with backhanded compliments or physical touch. You need to see her IRL btw.

Obviously don't finger the girl out of nowhere lol, but touch her shoulder to make a point, her arm when joking, take her hand when you're leading her around. If you're courageous get your hand around her waist, very powerful. Your hand on her thigh is also very powerful but obviously don't do it out of nowhere. The keyword is escalation you must do it slowly enough that you don't creep her out, but fast enough that she doesn't lose interest.
Btw hand in hair or across her face is potent asf. I've never been denied a kiss by a girl who let me run my hand in her hair.
Ass, tits, belly, and obviously pussy keep it for after the kiss once you're making out for real. Pussy kept last.

 

[Deleted member 8616]

Assume interest, at first I looked for IOIs but it's bullshit. Just make moves she'll tell you or make it clear if she isn't into you.

You can do it with HS girls but be aware if you do it too much you'll have a bad rep. I did a year in social sciences with mostly girls and hit on a load of them despite being an introvert and not going too much towards them. I had a gutter tier rep though sometimes I would talk to girls and they would randomly mention my reputation. Try to diversify your "training" with multiple social circles or focus on one where you dgaf about your rep.

Yes ask her for a walk, a drink, a movie, whatever floats your boat. She knows what it means but you can't make it too explicit. Just ask it as an off-beat like it doesn't mean much.

Don't tell a girl you're interested, ask her out, or show interest with backhanded compliments or physical touch. You need to see her IRL btw.

Obviously don't finger the girl out of nowhere lol, but touch her shoulder to make a point, her arm when joking, take her hand when you're leading her around. If you're courageous get your hand around her waist, very powerful. Your hand on her thigh is also very powerful but obviously don't do it out of nowhere. The keyword is escalation you must do it slowly enough that you don't creep her out, but fast enough that she doesn't lose interest.
Btw hand in hair or across her face is potent asf. I've never been denied a kiss by a girl who let me run my hand in her hair.
Ass, tits, belly, and obviously pussy keep it for after the kiss once you're making out for real. Pussy kept last.

this guy fucks

 

[Effortless]

I agree with this a little. I have never approached a girl, even the girl from my class which was sitting across the room and which I have caught her more than once to turn back and look at me for more than a few seconds(idk why I can always feel when somebody is staring at me) but I think if she really found me attractive maybe she would have approached me first right?

Do you expect her to approach her in the middle of class bro?

Like I said before girls communicate through body language and its your decision to make the "first moves". Girls are just as scared of rejection as you mate.

I had girls checking me out and showing interests but I didn't approach until way later, I end up asking them "if you liked me why didn't you say hi" and they said its because they're scared. I have had girls approach but nothing outside of clubs and house parties, most of the time they'll use their friends if they really want you to come over.

 

[Effortless]

Assume interest, at first I looked for IOIs but it's bullshit. Just make moves she'll tell you or make it clear if she isn't into you.

You can do it with HS girls but be aware if you do it too much you'll have a bad rep. I did a year in social sciences with mostly girls and hit on a load of them despite being an introvert and not going too much towards them. I had a gutter tier rep though sometimes I would talk to girls and they would randomly mention my reputation. Try to diversify your "training" with multiple social circles or focus on one where you dgaf about your rep.

Yes ask her for a walk, a drink, a movie, whatever floats your boat. She knows what it means but you can't make it too explicit. Just ask it as an off-beat like it doesn't mean much.

Don't tell a girl you're interested, ask her out, or show interest with backhanded compliments or physical touch. You need to see her IRL btw.

Obviously don't finger the girl out of nowhere lol, but touch her shoulder to make a point, her arm when joking, take her hand when you're leading her around. If you're courageous get your hand around her waist, very powerful. Your hand on her thigh is also very powerful but obviously don't do it out of nowhere. The keyword is escalation you must do it slowly enough that you don't creep her out, but fast enough that she doesn't lose interest.
Btw hand in hair or across her face is potent asf. I've never been denied a kiss by a girl who let me run my hand in her hair.
Ass, tits, belly, and obviously pussy keep it for after the kiss once you're making out for real. Pussy kept last.

Exactly this...if you want the girl to stay at least

https://looksmax.org/threads/responding-to-amnesia.267134/

 

[Deleted member 6191]

Assume interest, at first I looked for IOIs but it's bullshit. Just make moves she'll tell you or make it clear if she isn't into you.

You can do it with HS girls but be aware if you do it too much you'll have a bad rep. I did a year in social sciences with mostly girls and hit on a load of them despite being an introvert and not going too much towards them. I had a gutter tier rep though sometimes I would talk to girls and they would randomly mention my reputation. Try to diversify your "training" with multiple social circles or focus on one where you dgaf about your rep.

Yes ask her for a walk, a drink, a movie, whatever floats your boat. She knows what it means but you can't make it too explicit. Just ask it as an off-beat like it doesn't mean much.

Don't tell a girl you're interested, ask her out, or show interest with backhanded compliments or physical touch. You need to see her IRL btw.

Obviously don't finger the girl out of nowhere lol, but touch her shoulder to make a point, her arm when joking, take her hand when you're leading her around. If you're courageous get your hand around her waist, very powerful. Your hand on her thigh is also very powerful but obviously don't do it out of nowhere. The keyword is escalation you must do it slowly enough that you don't creep her out, but fast enough that she doesn't lose interest.
Btw hand in hair or across her face is potent asf. I've never been denied a kiss by a girl who let me run my hand in her hair.
Ass, tits, belly, and obviously pussy keep it for after the kiss once you're making out for real. Pussy kept last.

Indeed, most IOIs I think, I THEN assume they're just in my head by chance.
I get too high inhib to ask thinking she'll tell the mutual friends whomever it may be and say something dumb ab me. I know that's the thing I have to get past too.

Yeah i made a mistake, i was retarded and asked mutual friends [girl] for what to do and she told me to write and autistic paragraph [i didn't do that lol, when someone did that to her she rdrd him] but i still went w it a bit and thats why i said it. I just didn't talk to her IRL, too worried and just messaged her when she mesaged me.

never gotten to a point where it seemed in place to touch anyone like that, cuz i've never escalated beyond minor flirtations and overall platonic relationships.

does the same advice you give apply for getting laid and/or relationship?

 

[Deleted member 4464]

very unlikely she would approach you herself, even if she liked you
read this thread if u haven't already, https://looksmax.org/threads/women-do-approach.88403/

oh yeah this thread, I have even ugh reacted to it for some reason

Do you expect her to approach her in the middle of class bro?

Like I said before girls communicate through body language and its your decision to make the "first moves". Girls are just as scared of rejection as you mate.

I had girls checking me out and showing interests but I didn't approach until way later, I end up asking them "if you liked me why didn't you say hi" and they said its because they're scared. I have had girls approach but nothing outside of clubs and house parties, most of the time they'll use their friends if they really want you to come over.

maybe you are right idk

 

[Effortless]

Indeed, most IOIs I think, I THEN assume they're just in my head by chance.
I get too high inhib to ask thinking she'll tell the mutual friends whomever it may be and say something dumb ab me. I know that's the thing I have to get past too.

Yeah i made a mistake, i was retarded and asked mutual friends [girl] for what to do and she told me to write and autistic paragraph [i didn't do that lol, when someone did that to her she rdrd him] but i still went w it a bit and thats why i said it. I just didn't talk to her IRL, too worried and just messaged her when she mesaged me.

never gotten to a point where it seemed in place to touch anyone like that, cuz i've never escalated beyond minor flirtations and overall platonic relationships.

does the same advice you give apply for getting laid and/or relationship?

This is why behaviour is important irl especially if your text game is not strong, you not talking to her irl kinda shows that you're a bit of a pussy to her honestly, girls at that age imo are very easy to be a bit more direct to because they want to experience new things and emotions are heightened.

If she's still showing interest in you just go speak to her or meet up with her irl, act relaxed not nervous(even if you are), a lot of times girls will vibe of your energy no kidding, if she sees you're having fun 90% of the time she will be too, if you're relaxed and comfortable she will be too, if you're a nervous wreck she will be too and feel uncomfortable

 

[Matheus]

Indeed, most IOIs I think, I THEN assume they're just in my head by chance.
I get too high inhib to ask thinking she'll tell the mutual friends whomever it may be and say something dumb ab me. I know that's the thing I have to get past too.

Yeah i made a mistake, i was retarded and asked mutual friends [girl] for what to do and she told me to write and autistic paragraph [i didn't do that lol, when someone did that to her she rdrd him] but i still went w it a bit and thats why i said it. I just didn't talk to her IRL, too worried and just messaged her when she mesaged me.

never gotten to a point where it seemed in place to touch anyone like that, cuz i've never escalated beyond minor flirtations and overall platonic relationships.

does the same advice you give apply for getting laid and/or relationship?

Most IOIs are indeed in your head because they're just so ambiguous. Once you are well calibrated you will get the overall vibe of the conversation and you'll know how it's going. Only IOI that matters is eye contact because you can't get the vibe : if eye contact assume interest. It's very possible the girl will talk shit behind your back if you screw up but who gives a fuck you've gotta get better at some point.

Don't write paragraphs about how you like her yada yada. Depending on the girl it can be fine to talk online, even writing long messages I know some wisely advise against it but if you're looking for something serious it isn't always a bad idea. It's a risky move obviously because she can lose interest fast. What I'd do is frequently refuse to answer some questions and not enter certain subjects, saying I'd keep them for IRL. Keeps the idea of meeting up in her head and makes her wait for it. Text messaging is a whole subject on its own tbh, but know that it gets mogged hard by IRL interaction even if you're awkward.

Idk force yourself a bit sometimes, not too much though. You can't do anything if you aren't both comfortable with physical touch. If she's attracted she really won't mind some touch.

Advice applies to both, what changes I'd say is the speed, contents of your interactions, and some parts of your behaviour. Which one you'd like to know more?

 

[Deleted member 6191]

This is why behaviour is important irl especially if your text game is not strong, you not talking to her irl kinda shows that you're a bit of a pussy to her honestly, girls at that age imo are very easy to be a bit more direct to because they want to experience new things and emotions are heightened.

If she's still showing interest in you just go speak to her or meet up with her irl, act relaxed not nervous(even if you are), a lot of times girls will vibe of your energy no kidding, if she sees you're having fun 90% of the time she will be too, if you're relaxed and comfortable she will be too, if you're a nervous wreck she will be too and feel uncomfortable

when she intiially messaged me she said i was too mature
i was retarded back then thinking its cool, my texting is better but i think its beyond fucked w her.
this girl has never had any relationships before and is hella awk herself. she prob wouldn't meet w me irl or any other guy, i dont think she ever done that tbh.
idk ill prob have to wait till uni to meet someone since next sem is forced online. ima try to be more comfortable and whatnot. but ill prob struggle with approaching in general again

 

[LilJojo]

Reminder that most of you here are fucking straight losers in the head. You've never approached a girl that shows interest or have experience of talking to people (especially girls), and if you do approach and get rejected you no longer try thus you no longer improve (behaviour/game wise).

Most of you act hard, tough and "alpha" online but quiver in the presence of a female who you are attracted to because you're little bitches; the same way I was. I used to be a socially inept sperg late middle school until I started putting myself in social circles and early high school was when I started getting results with girls and people in general. I started dressing better, I was working out but most importantly I knew how to interact with people, from the good looking girls to the spergs who was being bullied in class I would treat them equally unless they had a problem with me.

This is the first step, general human interactions. The second step is seducing and having "game" with girls, which the first step will easily ease you into.

The thing with "game" is that its not a thing that can just be built up on the first approach if you're not a natural, it takes time to perfect and be intuitive around people. In real life you need to be able to read a females body language/demeanour, that's often how they communicate and if you don't know what you're looking for you're bound to cock block yourself even if the women give clear signals, and you don't know how many times I've cock blocked myself by what I said and did even though the girl was physically attracted to me.

Remember that getting inside a female mind is more powerful than getting to her physically especially in the modern day.


YOU MUST TAKE EVERY PILL, YOU MUST IMPROVE IN EVERY AREA.

YOU MUST TAKE EVERY PILL...

I'm going to start of by saying that no this is not me coping, I truly think there is a fine line between every pill and that not everything is black and white. What it means to me... Bluepill = ignorance is bliss and motivation Redpill = Start taking actions and doing Blackpill = observe...

looksmax.org

Inspired by @Matheus @DatGuyYouLike @tyronelite who seems to have experience irl

Dn red im on adderall

 

[Deleted member 6191]

Most IOIs are indeed in your head because they're just so ambiguous. Once you are well calibrated you will get the overall vibe of the conversation and you'll know how it's going. Only IOI that matters is eye contact because you can't get the vibe : if eye contact assume interest. It's very possible the girl will talk shit behind your back if you screw up but who gives a fuck you've gotta get better at some point.

Don't write paragraphs about how you like her yada yada. Depending on the girl it can be fine to talk online, even writing long messages I know some wisely advise against it but if you're looking for something serious it isn't always a bad idea. It's a risky move obviously because she can lose interest fast. What I'd do is frequently refuse to answer some questions and not enter certain subjects, saying I'd keep them for IRL. Keeps the idea of meeting up in her head and makes her wait for it. Text messaging is a whole subject on its own tbh, but know that it gets mogged hard by IRL interaction even if you're awkward.

Idk force yourself a bit sometimes, not too much though. You can't do anything if you aren't both comfortable with physical touch. If she's attracted she really won't mind some touch.

Advice applies to both, what changes I'd say is the speed, contents of your interactions, and some parts of your behaviour. Which one you'd like to know more?

yeye i get you, i stopped thinking it was legit a while ago, and i had always been sus about my so called iois.
anyways yeah that was dumb, the long paragraph thing was cuz this girl writes paragraphs to me for every response [i said in reply right before she was never in relationships before tmk].so i assumed she'd like it. even tho when convo goes on it ended up being v dry on both ends since topics were dumb, this girl would've been hard to meet irl cuz of her nature.

before the touching I'd have to know for sure, there's legit an interest from her end. which i'd have to get that far lol. i assume what u said for that would apply then.
Yeah im prob more suited for relationships v. getting laid for now ig lol

 

[Effortless]

when she intiially messaged me she said i was too mature
i was retarded back then thinking its cool, my texting is better but i think its beyond fucked w her.
this girl has never had any relationships before and is hella awk herself. she prob wouldn't meet w me irl or any other guy, i dont think she ever done that tbh.
idk ill prob have to wait till uni to meet someone since next sem is forced online. ima try to be more comfortable and whatnot. but ill prob struggle with approaching in general again

Shit happens mate, don't dwell on it and just give it a shot, better to do it now than later

Don't be needy and Best of luck

 

[Deleted member 6191]

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Shit happens mate, don't dwell on it and just give it a shot, better to do it now than later

Don't be needy and Best of luck

app it man, thanks for the help here. likewise man

 

[Effortless]

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app it man, thanks for the help here. likewise man

If you're having negative thoughts or doubts I really recommend you to try this, take the 17 minutes you have and try to understand and use this.

Create another bubble in your mind to observe your thoughts and to be aware of it... 90% of the time its irrational and negative, this helped me a lot

 

[Matheus]

yeye i get you, i stopped thinking it was legit a while ago, and i had always been sus about my so called iois.
anyways yeah that was dumb, the long paragraph thing was cuz this girl writes paragraphs to me for every response [i said in reply right before she was never in relationships before tmk].so i assumed she'd like it. even tho when convo goes on it ended up being v dry on both ends since topics were dumb, this girl would've been hard to meet irl cuz of her nature.

before the touching I'd have to know for sure, there's legit an interest from her end. which i'd have to get that far lol. i assume what u said for that would apply then.
Yeah im prob more suited for relationships v. getting laid for now ig lol

Paragraphs can be fine tbh but not paragraphs about how you like her and whatnot, like I said. There was this becky where we always sent each other walls of text when we wouldn't meet, didn't really impede the thing. Obviously for quick lays you don't do it.
Tell her that if she doesn't want to meet up you will stop talking over text… I mean if she refuses and it's not some logistical impossibility, and you talked a bit before.

Well, thing is, you know there's an interest if she lets you touch her without going cold or distant or whatnot.
If you're looking for relationships then you will fluff more talking about subjects that don't pertain to meeting up or sexual banter. Also you will take it more slowly. I usually recommend kissing on the first date in any case but for a relationship don't escalate further. Also don't kiss immediately on the first date, two steps forward, one step backward. Whether you escalate to sex on the 2nd or 3rd is up to you. Also you'll probably want to be "nicer" in your behaviour, not necessarily teasing her as much and whatnot

 

[Deleted member 6191]

Paragraphs can be fine tbh but not paragraphs about how you like her and whatnot, like I said. There was this becky where we always sent each other walls of text when we wouldn't meet, didn't really impede the thing. Obviously for quick lays you don't do it.
Tell her that if she doesn't want to meet up you will stop talking over text… I mean if she refuses and it's not some logistical impossibility, and you talked a bit before.

Well, thing is, you know there's an interest if she lets you touch her without going cold or distant or whatnot.
If you're looking for relationships then you will fluff more talking about subjects that don't pertain to meeting up or sexual banter. Also you will take it more slowly. I usually recommend kissing on the first date in any case but for a relationship don't escalate further. Also don't kiss immediately on the first date, two steps forward, one step backward. Whether you escalate to sex on the 2nd or 3rd is up to you. Also you'll probably want to be "nicer" in your behaviour, not necessarily teasing her as much and whatnot

yeah the paragraph i was supposed to send her was dumb lol, maybe it was the mutuals fantasy of how it would happen to them idk. that sounds good, rather than what i did to lead myself on path of delusion that me not talking to her irl would result in.

yeah thats what i assumed w it, that i'd have to take it slow, thats what i assume would be the more comfortable sdtage i'd be in; im able to talk and make other feel comfortable if i get to a stage where i know they're close, otherwise im hella awkward. being ncie shouldn't be too hard w me lol, just not nice guy tier, idk if hypotheticall 2 sem now on campus and rona is gone, do i just talk to a girl after a lecture and ask to get to know her?

 

[Deleted member 6191]

If you're having negative thoughts or doubts I really recommend you to try this, take the 17 minutes you have and try to understand and use this.

Create another bubble in your mind to observe your thoughts and to be aware of it... 90% of the time its irrational and negative, this helped me a lot

great watch man thanks for recommending it, ill look into this stuff more.

 

[Matheus]

yeah the paragraph i was supposed to send her was dumb lol, maybe it was the mutuals fantasy of how it would happen to them idk. that sounds good, rather than what i did to lead myself on path of delusion that me not talking to her irl would result in.

yeah thats what i assumed w it, that i'd have to take it slow, thats what i assume would be the more comfortable sdtage i'd be in; im able to talk and make other feel comfortable if i get to a stage where i know they're close, otherwise im hella awkward. being ncie shouldn't be too hard w me lol, just not nice guy tier, idk if hypotheticall 2 sem now on campus and rona is gone, do i just talk to a girl after a lecture and ask to get to know her?

Yeah she'll probably ask why you can't continue talking online. Usually I'd tell the girl I can't bother but it has to be congruent with your personality. Maybe you can say it's taking too much of your time, etc

Remember not too slow lol. You're the only judge but know that it's better to be too fast than too slow…
Yeah you can go after a lecture but ask to know her sounds kinda autistic. Make a joke or an off-handed comment or make a comment on something about her. I met what could have been my gf in English (uni), we had like 4hours lecture and a break in between. She was sitting on a bench in front of the door during the break so I just sat next to her and said "2hours remaining fuck". Conversation went from there. It's dumb asf but if it gets things going then it gets them going and that's that.

 

[oatmeal]

lets be honest, most here can only looksmax to 5-6 PSL max and after that point its more beneficial work on your personality

good news tbh. after 6psl the returns begin to stagnate for dating and I guess more for job opportunities as a model really.

 

[Deleted member 6191]

Yeah she'll probably ask why you can't continue talking online. Usually I'd tell the girl I can't bother but it has to be congruent with your personality. Maybe you can say it's taking too much of your time, etc

Remember not too slow lol. You're the only judge but know that it's better to be too fast than too slow…
Yeah you can go after a lecture but ask to know her sounds kinda autistic. Make a joke or an off-handed comment or make a comment on something about her. I met what could have been my gf in English (uni), we had like 4hours lecture and a break in between. She was sitting on a bench in front of the door during the break so I just sat next to her and said "2hours remaining fuck". Conversation went from there. It's dumb asf but if it gets things going then it gets them going and that's that.

legit what happened before, but i was too aspie to do anything ab it, whatever i have tried to move on from ONITISE CUZ its autistic.
yeah ik otherwise she might go onto someone else tmk or something. lmao idk i just thought that randomly, i worry if i say a comment like that and they respond ill end up being unable to uphold the convo plus being awk but it seems like i gotta learn to socialize w/ randoms better from what you've been saying.
thanks for the help btw

 

[Matheus]

legit what happened before, but i was too aspie to do anything ab it, whatever i have tried to move on from ONITISE CUZ its autistic.
yeah ik otherwise she might go onto someone else tmk or something. lmao idk i just thought that randomly, i worry if i say a comment like that and they respond ill end up being unable to uphold the convo plus being awk but it seems like i gotta learn to socialize w/ randoms better from what you've been saying.
thanks for the help btw

I didn't understand your comment tbh jfl
You do you. If you think it's wise to go after your OI then all the better for you. Socialising with randoms is a great idea though ngl, the first moves are hard but you'll usually notice that nothing is ever as bad in reality as in your head
No problem bro

 

[Deleted member 6191]

I didn't understand your comment tbh jfl
You do you. If you think it's wise to go after your OI then all the better for you. Socialising with randoms is a great idea though ngl, the first moves are hard but you'll usually notice that nothing is ever as bad in reality as in your head
No problem bro

Lmao I didn’t REALLT phrase the stuff properly lol
Nah my IOI is done w anyways, ima try and do what u and effortless say w approaching and socializing, might practice w it on a platonic note w both genders to see how to keep it going w a convo. Thank you man.

 

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[KnoxHarrington]

“Just try harder bro.”

This is blue pill low iq bullshit.


You’re a low iq piece of shit

Shame on you for spouting this steaming hot diarrhea from your dumb shit face.

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

“Just try harder bro.”

This is blue pill low iq bullshit.


You’re a low iq piece of shit

Shame on you for spouting this steaming hot diarrhea from your dumb shit face.

died

 

[Effortless]

“Just try harder bro.”

This is blue pill low iq bullshit.


You’re a low iq piece of shit

Shame on you for spouting this steaming hot diarrhea from your dumb shit face.

keep barking abused dog.

 

[KnoxHarrington]

keep barking abused dog.

Fuck you bitch.

 

[MusicMaxxingMidget]

Dn read but true, unless youre disfigured you can get pussy. So many dudes I meet irl are autistic and low t af which I automatically assume is most people in here

 

[Effortless]

Fuck you bitch.

Is that what you'd like you raging homo