Reminder: The need for validation is feminine

[Deleted member 5431]

Remember the need for validation is feminine. Our society is as such and is why everybody is so insecure and worried about their social status. You think Genghis Khan gave a shit about what women thought of him? No. It’s hard but trying to free yourself from female validation is worthwhile. Might be near impossible but letting a women determine your opinion of yourself is a rollercoaster.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

need for female validation in a sexual/romantic context you mean?

 

[Deleted member 7076]

validation isn't necessary but makes you feel like god

 

[Deleted member 11758]

 

[Deleted member 6403]

Validation is important tbh, you just need it less as man because in primitive times, if you didn't receive validation that means ostracization and as a man you had a higher chance of survival compared to a female

 

[getra]

Acceptance > validation

 

[Deleted member 5431]

need for female validation in a sexual/romantic context you mean?

My point is that men didn’t use to care about what women thought. And just took them like in based masculine societies. In society’s like ours you have to be perfect to pass the test. We should strive to return to such societies where we are not dependent on women having power in the sexual market.

 

[Deleted member 5431]

Validation is important tbh, you just need it less as man because in primitive times, if you didn't receive validation that means ostracization and as a man you had a higher chance of survival compared to a female

It’s not good to be too obsessed with what women think of you. Overthinking leads to less inhibition.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Excellent post.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

need for female validation in a sexual/romantic context you mean?

In any context. Validation from anyone. That would apply to other dudes as well.

 

[Wallenberg]

Remember the need for validation is feminine. Our society is as such and is why everybody is so insecure and worried about their social status. You think Genghis Khan gave a shit about what women thought of him? No. It’s hard but trying to free yourself from female validation is worthwhile. Might be near impossible but letting a women determine your opinion of yourself is a rollercoaster.

Often when I see posts here where someone is trying to prove that he's a chad I ask myself: why would a chad feel the need to prove that he's a slayer on an internet forum? Why would he beg for validation in a weird internet forum?

 

[Deleted member 10536]

Remember the need for validation is feminine. Our society is as such and is why everybody is so insecure and worried about their social status. You think Genghis Khan gave a shit about what women thought of him? No. It’s hard but trying to free yourself from female validation is worthwhile. Might be near impossible but letting a women determine your opinion of yourself is a rollercoaster.

Just be a loner for the rest of your life theory.

 

[Deleted member 5431]

Just be a loner for the rest of your life theory.

Not saying you can’t have friends just don’t be to obsessive with validation as it can hinder your inhibitions.

 

[Deleted member 6113]

It is necessary for survival. It is hard wired to chase validation. Because if you were kicked out of the tribe to fend for yourself you wouldn't make it very long. Isolation and independence is a modern day comfort.

 

[Deleted member 5431]

It is necessary for survival. It is hard wired to chase validation. Because if you were kicked out of the tribe to fend for yourself you wouldn't make it very long. Isolation and independence is a modern day comfort.

Again just don’t become too obsessed as it can lead to high inhibition.

 

[Deleted member 12002]

Rule of thumb, if women are able to emasculate you you're a beta. There should be nothing a woman can ever say or do that will make you feel emasculated. Your masculinity should be something that comes from within, and not something that's based on the approval of women or anybody else.

 

[thickdickdaddy27]

It's kinda true but cope

 

[Deleted member 9467]

the same high t traits that give u low inib make u attractive

so it doesn't mean shit