Report after first dating app date

[Secretariat12]

We drank coffee in Starbucks (both 18 no drinks). I was pretty relaxed and started touching each other. (touch barrier broken) And agreed on another date 3 days later. Is this going to anywhere or not?

 

[Secretariat12]

bump

 

[RoundHouse]

 

[Secretariat12]

I was asking a question tho

 

[RoundHouse]

I was asking a question tho

ye but i didn't

 

[Matheus]

Yeah bro keep going, she would have ghosted you if things didn't went well. Next one try to go for the kiss

 

[W0KESTMOTHF]

Over if you didn't fuck on the first date

 

[JustAFewMM]

GL

 

[RoundHouse]

Yeah bro keep going, she would have ghosted you if things didn't went well. Next one try to go for the kiss

https://looksmax.org/threads/incel-giving-dating-advices-lol.219691/

 

[JustBeCurry]

Over if you didn't fuck on the first date

 

[Deleted member 7866]

Over if you didn't fuck on the first date

 

[Deleted member 7866]

Should've got her to fuck, otherwise you're pretty much a betabux.

 

[Matheus]

https://looksmax.org/threads/incel-giving-dating-advices-lol.219691/

Bluecel shitposting as usual

 

[RoundHouse]

Bluecel shitposting as usual

shut up cunt

 

[Secretariat12]

So? I think apart from trolling Im good to go

 

[aleksandr]

We drank coffee in Starbucks (both 18 no drinks). I was pretty relaxed and started touching each other. (touch barrier broken) And agreed on another date 3 days later. Is this going to anywhere or not?

I moved to a new city last year and hit the dating apps hard. You win some you lose some, and its completely random. I had dates with chicks were they weren't that hot but I thought we still had a good time and they've rejected me, and i've had dates with chicks that were really hot and I thought the date was horrible and awkward but it turned out they were super into me. Just gotta put yourself out there over and over. We have all these theories here, and they're great to theorise ideas etc, but in reality theres other elements, no theory is perfect.

A lot of the sentiment of this forum is "you gotta be a chad to get with women" - but i've got a recessed chin and skinny face but manage to get a decent amount of dates that lead places through dating apps. I can't remember exactly, but probably 8-9 different girls last year, and some of them took me off the apps for a bit and we had ongoing FWB. I am a 6"1 white guy, but you know this place says 70% comes down to face (and mine is not chad). I think the biggest thing you can do is just put yourself out there over and over. You miss all the shots you don't take, you know? Maybe not if you're "subhuman" or worse than normie though, I dunno.


Anyway to your question:
If you were relaxed, touched, and agreed on another date those are all good signs. If you like her, you should go for the kiss on the 2nd date. Just take a shot whenever it comes up, or force yourself that you'll do it when you say goodbye at the end at a minimum.

"To avoid friend zone, be bold and swift." - Lao Tzu