Requirements for a girl to approach you

[TheReckons]

How rare is it for a girl to approach a guy and what is the looks threshold for it

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

When this occurs I'll know I made it

But just being strikingly attractive, unusually hot, to the point they would regret not asking you. Can't just be above average.

For most users this will never happen without good NT

 

[nolimitjosh]

rare

 

[TheReckons]

Pretty boy

Like fr bro htn get approached?

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Like fr bro htn get approached?

If ur white and tall yes

 

[AspiringChanglite]

You need to clear the threshold of just "I'd fuck him" to "I NEED to fuck him". However, I know several above-average height HTN friends (some of whom aren't even pureblooded WASP or Northern Han Chinese JFL) who gets approached multiple times on a night out without fail.

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women once in a while:
- 5'9+
- High MTN face
- Well groomed & look NT

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women frequently:
- 5'11+
- Low HTN face
- Above average frame

Requirements to be approached by SOBER women frequently:
- 6'0+
- High HTN, bordering on Low Chadlite face
- Above average frame

As an anecdote, I fraud 6'5" in shoes and lifts, modestly gymmaxxed with a lean, male model/swimmer physique and 22" bidelt with low-mid Changlite face and I get approached probably once or twice a week in daylight by sober, mainly white/slav/hapa/NEA foids and multiple times (sometimes she'll bring her friend or friends to approach me too) a night by foids of all ethnicities if they're intoxicated. It's honestly a lower number compared to my paler NEA or white looksmatched/heightmatched/framematched friends.

 

[Debetro]

0

 

[Debetro]

be horse

 

[TheReckons]

You need to clear the threshold of just "I'd fuck him" to "I NEED to fuck him". However, I know several above-average height HTN friends (some of whom aren't even pureblooded WASP or Northern Han Chinese JFL) who gets approached multiple times on a night out without fail.

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women once in a while:
- 5'9+
- High MTN face
- Well groomed & look NT

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women frequently:
- 5'11+
- Low HTN face
- Above average frame

Requirements to be approached by SOBER women frequently:
- 6'0+
- High HTN, bordering on Low Chadlite face
- Above average frame

As an anecdote, I fraud 6'5" in shoes and lifts, modestly gymmaxxed with a lean, male model/swimmer physique and 22" bidelt with low-mid Changlite face and I get approached probably once or twice a week in daylight by sober, mainly white/slav/hapa/NEA foids and multiple times (sometimes she'll bring her friend or friends to approach me too) a night by foids of all ethnicities if they're intoxicated.

Ty for this bro

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

be horse

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What the fuck

 

[Debetro]

What the fuck

and you faggots think it's a meme looool

there's a reason why niggers do so good with bitches

niggerpill = dolphinpill = animalpill

 

[AspiringChanglite]

Ty for this bro

Also goes without saying but that guide is only for quantity, quality of foids approaching you is directly correlated to your own looks level

 

[Deleted member 32423]

How rare is it for a girl to approach a guy and what is the looks threshold for it

I need my future gf to be skinny at least 5'11

 

[rubberduck]

I was rated as MTN by people here but have been approached by every girl I've ever had a relationship/fling with and was usually the more attractive girls from our school etc (posted with receipts on discord and they got rated MTB-Stacylites). I've never had to ask out or initiate with a girl in my life and lost my virginity on my 14th birthday. There are many variables, I had the halo of being popular & an athlete. I think high trust features and being more on the prettyboy side of the spectrum will get you more females initiating than if you look less approachable even if more attractive. I look cute & innocent. Girls also approach me when with friends at malls, happened more as a teenager but I also hang out at malls far less often now. Also whenever I had to hang out with my moms friends daughters their friends would always have crush on me, follow me on social media after and express interest. Being fashion maxed also plays a major factor.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

and you faggots think it's a meme looool

there's a reason why niggers do so good with bitches

niggerpill = dolphinpill = animalpill

I'm the most dogpilled nigga on the site

I mean physically I will look like a husky very soon

Great news for me

 

[NumbThePain]

You need to clear the threshold of just "I'd fuck him" to "I NEED to fuck him". However, I know several above-average height HTN friends (some of whom aren't even pureblooded WASP or Northern Han Chinese JFL) who gets approached multiple times on a night out without fail.

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women once in a while:
- 5'9+
- High MTN face
- Well groomed & look NT

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women frequently:
- 5'11+
- Low HTN face
- Above average frame

Requirements to be approached by SOBER women frequently:
- 6'0+
- High HTN, bordering on Low Chadlite face
- Above average frame

As an anecdote, I fraud 6'5" in shoes and lifts, modestly gymmaxxed with a lean, male model/swimmer physique and 22" bidelt with low-mid Changlite face and I get approached probably once or twice a week in daylight by sober, mainly white/slav/hapa/NEA foids and multiple times (sometimes she'll bring her friend or friends to approach me too) a night by foids of all ethnicities if they're intoxicated.

Does clear signs of ioi counts too? Like when she makes it kinda obvious she likes you BUT you must take the first step

And do girls follow your ig first when they like you? This never happens to me I always have to follow them first. Except for a few exceptions of friendly ones

 

[Debetro]

I'm the most dogpilled nigga on the site

I mean physically I will look like a husky very soon
View attachment 2363383

Great news for me

whats your fwhr

 

[WhollySharp]

So many different factors.

When I was 16 I was approached in the park by a blonde girl and she was around 13-14 (I think) and was smiling at me. She complimented my hair. Maybe would've tried to get her number if her dad and sister weren't standing with her also. Her dad was a gymaxxed manlet too jfl.

Idk what I'd rate myself but life is all about being in the right place at the right time tbh. Genetics copers will say it's all predetermined without realizing if that's true than so is environment (which plays a much bigger role in reality).

Does she know you? Is it completely random? How do you look on that given day? What mood was she in? It's a spin of the wheel really. Except if you reacted in an NT way or not. That's less random and more on you then.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

whats your fwhr

I'll dm my full face if you want

Don't know what that is tbh

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

So many different factors.

When I was 16 I was approached in the park by a blonde girl and she was around 13-14 (I think) and was smiling at me. She complimented my hair. Maybe would've tried to get her number if her dad and sister weren't standing with her also. Her dad was a gymaxxed manlet too jfl.

Idk what I'd rate myself but life is all about being in the right place at the right time tbh. Genetics copers will say it's all predetermined without realizing if that's true than so is environment (which plays a much bigger role in reality).

Does she know you? Is it completely random? How do you look on that given day? What mood was she in? It's a spin of the wheel really. Except if you reacted in an NT way or not. That's less random and more on you then.

Being approached in a borderline stagitorily illegal manner by a 13 year old girl is not some kind of case study you should be using as an example my friend.

 

[Debetro]

I'll dm my full face if you want

Don't know what that is tbh

20k fucking posts and you dont know what is...






Facial width to height ratio

 

[rubberduck]

When this occurs I'll know I made it

But just being strikingly attractive, unusually hot, to the point they would regret not asking you. Can't just be above average.

For most users this will never happen without good NT

I don't think it's pure attraction, there are men significantly more attractive than me that have never been approached by a girl when I have many times. Extremely attractive men are often more striking & intimidating looking, less approachable. Same way a lot of guys would be too intimidated to hit on a stacylite but might hit on a MTB/HTB. I think prettyboys who are stylemaxxed get approached the most, even if less attractive.

 

[WhollySharp]

Being approached in a borderline stagitorily illegal manner by a 13 year old girl is not some kind of case study you should be using as an example my friend.

Are you kidding? I can't tell if you are. I was 16. She was 13-14. That's 3 years max. Illegal would be 4 or more in most places in USA and even then it's not a big deal. Are you moralfaggin' or sayin' it's not relevant?

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

20k fucking posts and you dont know what is...






Facial width to height ratio

So what if I just rot! What's wrong with that you scumbag!

Nah but I don't pay attention to any posts about ratios and shit tbh mine aren't bad enough to require surgey so I don't bother calculating that shit

Only Hardmax I'd consider is rhino

 

[TheAnomaly]

Getting approached is uncommon, but not rare (for me anyway). . But it does happen. Depending on how often I’m out. Maybe once every couple of months. It happened Wednesday. Girls approach when they’re horny.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

Are you kidding? I can't tell if you are. I was 16. She was 13-14. That's 3 years max. Illegal would be 4 or more in most places in USA and even then it's not a big deal. Are you moralfaggin' or sayin' it's not relevant?

13 is too young but I don't really give a shit and that wasn't my point

The age difference doesn't matter, I'm saying you're using a 13 year old girl as an example

 

[AspiringChanglite]

Does clear signs of ioi counts too? Like when she makes it kinda obvious she likes you BUT you must take the first step

And do girls follow your ig first when they like you? This never happens to me I always have to follow them first. Except for a few exceptions of friendly one

i just assume all girls are at least a bit into me (except obvious country girls/MAGA girls that are likely to be BWC only) which isnt an unrealistic assumption given my looks level

i dont differentiate between no IOI and IOIs just approaches and no approaches

 

[JosefMengelecel]

13 is too young but I don't really give a shit and that wasn't my point

The age difference doesn't matter, I'm saying you're using a 13 year old girl as an example

well yeah a 13 year old wont have the same standards as some 23 year old roastie. but saying 13 is too young is clown tier

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

well yeah a 13 year old wont have the same standards as some 23 year old roastie. but saying 13 is too young is clown tier

?

You are immensely more mentally developed than a 13 year old at 16 dude. It really is weird asf

14 is fine but you have to acknowledge the younger an individual is the more a single year of development impacts their brain.

You develop a lot more from 13-16 than from 16-18 dawg

That's a whole ass kid bruh

 

[ConfusedBolivian]

and you faggots think it's a meme looool

there's a reason why niggers do so good with bitches

niggerpill = dolphinpill = animalpill

Niggers are animals

 

[Debetro]

Niggers are animals

Exactly

 

[JosefMengelecel]

?

You are immensely more mentally developed than a 13 year old at 16 dude. It really is weird asf

14 is fine but you have to acknowledge the younger an individual is the more a single year of development impacts their brain.

You develop a lot more from 13-16 than from 16-18 dawg

That's a whole ass kid bruh

im not 16 im 23. but i would prefer a 13 year old to a roastie who is my age

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

im not 16 im 23. but i would prefer a 13 year old to a roastie who is my age

Nigga

 

[TheAnomaly]

You need to clear the threshold of just "I'd fuck him" to "I NEED to fuck him". However, I know several above-average height HTN friends (some of whom aren't even pureblooded WASP or Northern Han Chinese JFL) who gets approached multiple times on a night out without fail.

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women once in a while:
- 5'9+
- High MTN face
- Well groomed & look NT

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women frequently:
- 5'11+
- Low HTN face
- Above average frame

Requirements to be approached by SOBER women frequently:
- 6'0+
- High HTN, bordering on Low Chadlite face
- Above average frame

As an anecdote, I fraud 6'5" in shoes and lifts, modestly gymmaxxed with a lean, male model/swimmer physique and 22" bidelt with low-mid Changlite face and I get approached probably once or twice a week in daylight by sober, mainly white/slav/hapa/NEA foids and multiple times (sometimes she'll bring her friend or friends to approach me too) a night by foids of all ethnicities if they're intoxicated. It's honestly a lower number compared to my paler NEA or white looksmatched/heightmatched/framematched friends.

 

[zoomerstein]

You need to clear the threshold of just "I'd fuck him" to "I NEED to fuck him". However, I know several above-average height HTN friends (some of whom aren't even pureblooded WASP or Northern Han Chinese JFL) who gets approached multiple times on a night out without fail.

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women once in a while:
- 5'9+
- High MTN face
- Well groomed & look NT

Requirements to be approached by intoxicated women frequently:
- 5'11+
- Low HTN face
- Above average frame

Requirements to be approached by SOBER women frequently:
- 6'0+
- High HTN, bordering on Low Chadlite face
- Above average frame

As an anecdote, I fraud 6'5" in shoes and lifts, modestly gymmaxxed with a lean, male model/swimmer physique and 22" bidelt with low-mid Changlite face and I get approached probably once or twice a week in daylight by sober, mainly white/slav/hapa/NEA foids and multiple times (sometimes she'll bring her friend or friends to approach me too) a night by foids of all ethnicities if they're intoxicated. It's honestly a lower number compared to my paler NEA or white looksmatched/heightmatched/framematched friends.

Great post and very accurate in my experience. I will add that niche and NTmaxxing can lower the thresholds too.

I’m mid-HTN 6’1 ~15% bf, not a looks standout by any means but I have a lot of piercings and am extremely fashionmaxxed and I get approached by and get IOIs from sober girls extremely regularly if they’re alt or otherwise fit my niche, even if my higher SMV friends are around. Also I get proportionately more IOIs in dorm parties, classes and social events than clubs/bars and walking around because my personality and NTness can shine through in those situations.

Don’t forget the NT and nichemaxx pill

 

[Bitchwhipper2]

Ive been approached a few times while being a 5'8 autistic low-HTN at most

So not much

 

[WhollySharp]

13 is too young but I don't really give a shit and that wasn't my point

The age difference doesn't matter, I'm saying you're using a 13 year old girl as an example

Yeah but I'm 18 and I haven't been approached by girls many times at all.

 

[zoomerstein]

I was rated as MTN by people here but have been approached by every girl I've ever had a relationship/fling with and was usually the more attractive girls from our school etc (posted with receipts on discord and they got rated MTB-Stacylites). I've never had to ask out or initiate with a girl in my life and lost my virginity on my 14th birthday. There are many variables, I had the halo of being popular & an athlete. I think high trust features and being more on the prettyboy side of the spectrum will get you more females initiating than if you look less approachable even if more attractive. I look cute & innocent. Girls also approach me when with friends at malls, happened more as a teenager but I also hang out at malls far less often now. Also whenever I had to hang out with my moms friends daughters their friends would always have crush on me, follow me on social media after and express interest. Being fashion maxed also plays a major factor.

I don't think it's pure attraction, there are men significantly more attractive than me that have never been approached by a girl when I have many times. Extremely attractive men are often more striking & intimidating looking, less approachable. Same way a lot of guys would be too intimidated to hit on a stacylite but might hit on a MTB/HTB. I think prettyboys who are stylemaxxed get approached the most, even if less attractive.

Very true. Fashionmaxx, prettyboypill and social halos are so underrated on this forum. You need the looks and SMV to pass the thresholds, but once a girl thinks you’re fuckable you need the external factors to actually make them approach.

Does clear signs of ioi counts too? Like when she makes it kinda obvious she likes you BUT you must take the first step

And do girls follow your ig first when they like you? This never happens to me I always have to follow them first. Except for a few exceptions of friendly ones

A 5’11 skinny stacylite I’ve never spoken to but had classes with followed me first on insta recently, she also doesn’t even follow that many people. Have already thought about our future and how tall my sons would be more than I’d like to admit

 

[AspiringChanglite]

Great post and very accurate in my experience. I will add that niche and NTmaxxing can lower the thresholds too.

I’m mid-HTN 6’1 ~15% bf, not a looks standout by any means but I have a lot of piercings and am extremely fashionmaxxed and I get approached by and get IOIs from sober girls extremely regularly if they’re alt or otherwise fit my niche, even if my higher SMV friends are around. Also I get proportionately more IOIs in dorm parties, classes and social events than clubs/bars and walking around because my personality and NTness can shine through in those situations.

Don’t forget the NT and nichemaxx pill

this is why i try to make my niche the ones the highest PSL girls are in too so i can nichemaxx and pull top 0.0001% stacies just by being in the same niche as them (runwaymodelmaxxing, trustfundmaxxing and greeklifemaxxing)

 

[Deleted member 28541]

I was rated as MTN by people here but have been approached by every girl I've ever had a relationship/fling with and was usually the more attractive girls from our school etc (posted with receipts on discord and they got rated MTB-Stacylites). I've never had to ask out or initiate with a girl in my life and lost my virginity on my 14th birthday. There are many variables, I had the halo of being popular & an athlete. I think high trust features and being more on the prettyboy side of the spectrum will get you more females initiating than if you look less approachable even if more attractive. I look cute & innocent. Girls also approach me when with friends at malls, happened more as a teenager but I also hang out at malls far less often now. Also whenever I had to hang out with my moms friends daughters their friends would always have crush on me, follow me on social media after and express interest. Being fashion maxed also plays a major factor.

Can I see you

 

[zainab]

How rare is it for a girl to approach a guy and what is the looks threshold for it

If you are htn + height halo then every time you go out someone would approach you (or give big iois that basically count as approach)

Edit: need to look friendly for this, if you have rbf they won’t do it

 

[SunShine Senpai]

I was rated as MTN by people here but have been approached by every girl I've ever had a relationship/fling with and was usually the more attractive girls from our school etc (posted with receipts on discord and they got rated MTB-Stacylites). I've never had to ask out or initiate with a girl in my life and lost my virginity on my 14th birthday. There are many variables, I had the halo of being popular & an athlete. I think high trust features and being more on the prettyboy side of the spectrum will get you more females initiating than if you look less approachable even if more attractive. I look cute & innocent. Girls also approach me when with friends at malls, happened more as a teenager but I also hang out at malls far less often now. Also whenever I had to hang out with my moms friends daughters their friends would always have crush on me, follow me on social media after and express interest. Being fashion maxed also plays a major factor.

did u fuck any of mom friend's daughters

 

[Kasanova]

A 5’11 skinny stacylite I’ve never spoken to but had classes with followed me first on insta recently, she also doesn’t even follow that many people. Have already thought about our future and how tall my sons would be more than I’d like to admit

What's your height?

 

[5.5psl]

I'm the most dogpilled nigga on the site

I mean physically I will look like a husky very soon
View attachment 2363383

Great news for me

Black dog with blue eyes
Mmmmmmm

 

[0hMan]

When this occurs I'll know I made it

But just being strikingly attractive, unusually hot, to the point they would regret not asking you. Can't just be above average.

For most users this will never happen without good NT

I'm fucking subhuman and girls have approached me.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

I'm fucking subhuman and girls have approached me.

They thought it was funny

You know this isn't true

 

[0hMan]

They thought it was funny

You know this isn't true

No I'm serious. I am ugly as shit and 2 girls have approached me.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

No I'm serious. I am ugly as shit and 2 girls have approached me.

You're not ugly or they were making fun of you

Or this was when you were a fetus

 

[0hMan]

You're not ugly or they were making fun of you

Or this was when you were a fetus

This was ~6 months ago. And one of the girls still hits me up so I doubt it was a joke.

 

[Gaygymmaxx]

This was ~6 months ago. And one of the girls still hits me up so I doubt it was a joke.

This isn't true or you aren't subhuman stop baiting