Ruined a 7-year friendship because I let the intrusive thoughts win

[zerotohero]

I think I just destroyed a 7-year friendship. We haven't seen each other in a long time and we were finally supposed to hang out tomorrow.

The problem? I got way too enthusiastic and told her I wanted to kiss her. Total disaster.

She’s going through a rough patch with anxiety right now and told me she’s "not in a good place". I realized I messed up and sent a text apologizing for the tone and being too intense, telling her I respect her and giving her space to decide if she still wants to meet.


It’s been radio silence for a while now. I feel like an absolute idiot for risking a 7-year bond just because I got caught up in the moment.

Is there any way to come back from this?

Should I just stop texting entirely and wait for her move?

How do I handle the fact that I might have just lost my best friend over a moment of horniness?

 

[Deleted member 296713]

some dude who was my friend from HS for like 3 years just blocked me one random day bcuz i denied him a favor, just fuck these type of peopel

 

[TiktokUser]

I think I just destroyed a 7-year friendship. We haven't seen each other in a long time and we were finally supposed to hang out tomorrow.

The problem? I got way too enthusiastic and told her I wanted to kiss her. Total disaster.

She’s going through a rough patch with anxiety right now and told me she’s "not in a good place". I realized I messed up and sent a text apologizing for the tone and being too intense, telling her I respect her and giving her space to decide if she still wants to meet.


It’s been radio silence for a while now. I feel like an absolute idiot for risking a 7-year bond just because I got caught up in the moment.

Is there any way to come back from this?

Should I just stop texting entirely and wait for her move?

How do I handle the fact that I might have just lost my best friend over a moment of horniness?

ask to see her boobies next

 

[TheBWCKing]

Lol I saw this on reddit but OP is a cuck for being friends with a woman for 7 years. Even more cuck when she got absolutely repulsed and cancelled seeing him just because of the idea of him kissing her

 

[chang cypionate]

"Do you send?".

 

[asdvek]

She would've started jumping up and down in joy if you were chad btw and would've kissed you instantly

Subhuman life

 

[Eric_mxcl]

You didnt mess up, shes just not into you

 

[Eric_mxcl]

She would've started jumping up and down in joy if you were chad btw and would've kissed you instantly

Subhuman life

It wouldnt even take 7 years for it to happen

 

[zerotohero]

some dude who was my friend from HS for like 3 years just blocked me one random day bcuz i denied him a favor, just fuck these type of peopel

Damn.

 

[zerotohero]

She blocked me.

 

[zerotohero]

Bump.

 

[Outsidecel]

holy FUCK dude 7 years???? no wonder she thought that was weird she wasnt into u anyway dont stress

 

[zerotohero]

holy FUCK dude 7 years???? no wonder she thought that was weird she wasnt into u anyway dont stress

I caught feelings lately, tbh.