Said I give off gay best friend vibes

[soygoat]

Is it bad if a range of girls say that i give off gay bestfriend vibes and act feminine. They say this yet im still able to pursue romantic relationships with them so clearly its working but im just wondering is this a sort of halo, does it aid in pursuing a romantic relationship or do i stop this.

 

[avgsub5human]

hell nah brah thats not a good sign, you for one dont wanna be the "gay bestfriend" and u for two dont rly wanna be that "bestfriend" either, you want her attracted to you, idk how you make it work but if it does work like you say then whatever bro keep it going

 

[soygoat]

hell nah brah thats not a good sign, you for one dont wanna be the "gay bestfriend" and u for two dont rly wanna be that "bestfriend" either, you want her attracted to you, idk how you make it work but if it does work like you say then whatever bro keep it going

yeah obviously they dont mean it literally i dont think cuz im still like able to do shit with them romantically and it works but idk if i should clean up my act and stop acting like that even though its getting me bitches lol

 

[76.1]

most likely means you'd get friendzoned or seen as the 'safe guy' she'd settle down with after hoeing around.

but if they see you as a gay best friend, you can spend time with them and use that time to see how women react to other men/what they're attracted to and try to incorporate more of that into yourself

or you can stick with whatever you're doing, if it's still getting you slays. if it ain't broke don't fix it method (up to you which you wanna do).

 

[avgsub5human]

yeah obviously they dont mean it literally i dont think cuz im still like able to do shit with them romantically and it works but idk if i should clean up my act and stop acting like that even though its getting me bitches lol

I don't see why you would stop if you still slay them

 

[soygoat]

most likely means you'd get friendzoned or seen as the 'safe guy' she'd settle down with after hoeing around.

but if they see you as a gay best friend, you can spend time with them and use that time to see how women react to other men/what they're attracted to and try to incorporate more of that into yourself

or you can stick with whatever you're doing, if it's still getting you slays. if it ain't broke don't fix it method (up to you which you wanna do).

im way out of the friendzone with most of these girls but yeah id say its working just wondering if it makes me seem like a low test soy boy by acting this way yet still slaying

 

[76.1]

im way out of the friendzone with most of these girls but yeah id say its working just wondering if it makes me seem like a low test soy boy by acting this way yet still slaying

so you're jestering or something similar? because usually for slays women prefer slightly more masculine traits in men.

it could be that you just fit into a certain prettyboy pheno and they happen to be into that, and the way you act harmonizes with that.

if it's true, then it'd give you strong niche appeal rather than broad appeal that someone like a conventionally hot actor would have.

 

[h0r1zonAscendz]

Is it bad if a range of girls say that i give off gay bestfriend vibes and act feminine. They say this yet im still able to pursue romantic relationships with them so clearly its working but im just wondering is this a sort of halo, does it aid in pursuing a romantic relationship or do i stop this.

Its terrible, they see u as a safe best friend. It's not a halo. What do u mean by "im still able to pursue romantic relationships with them" cuz if u could they wouldnt say that

 

[soygoat]

so you're jestering or something similar? because usually for slays women prefer slightly more masculine traits in men.

it could be that you just fit into a certain prettyboy pheno and they happen to be into that, and the way you act harmonizes with that.

if it's true, then it'd give you strong niche appeal rather than broad appeal that someone like a conventionally hot actor would have.

no im 100% jestering lol obviously i still have masculine traits but the way i text especially to girls they say gives off that gay best friend vibe yet i still slay so it probably means theyre comfortable with messaging me but at the same time dont wanna be seen as a low test feminine soy boy

 

[soygoat]

Its terrible, they see u as a safe best friend. It's not a halo. What do u mean by "im still able to pursue romantic relationships with them" cuz if u could they wouldnt say that

But i can as even though they say i give off gay best friend i still slay them lol

 

[76.1]

no im 100% jestering lol obviously i still have masculine traits but the way i text especially to girls they say gives off that gay best friend vibe yet i still slay so it probably means theyre comfortable with messaging me but at the same time dont wanna be seen as a low test feminine soy boy

oh shit im lost then. maybe they're easy? no offense intended obv.

maybe ask them what they mean by that

 

[resilient_otter57]

Is it bad if a range of girls say that i give off gay bestfriend vibes and act feminine. They say this yet im still able to pursue romantic relationships with them so clearly its working but im just wondering is this a sort of halo, does it aid in pursuing a romantic relationship or do i stop this.

If it works it works