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I’ve been hooking up with this girl for the last few months without a condom. The first time we hooked up, she mentioned we didn't need one, but she wasn’t overly pushy about it—she just said it was an option and that using one was fine too.
I trust her to an extent, but lately, she’s been acting super obsessed and is pushing to date, which I’m really not interested in. She’s a high school senior and has a lot of future plans. We live in California so access to reproductive healthcare is easy, she isn't religious, and she's a normal person, not some reckless party girl.
Even with all that, I'm feeling pretty anxious. Are my worries about this situation valid, or am I overthinking it?
I trust her to an extent, but lately, she’s been acting super obsessed and is pushing to date, which I’m really not interested in. She’s a high school senior and has a lot of future plans. We live in California so access to reproductive healthcare is easy, she isn't religious, and she's a normal person, not some reckless party girl.
Even with all that, I'm feeling pretty anxious. Are my worries about this situation valid, or am I overthinking it?