[SCREENS] I need advices on WHY I FAILED HERE

[Mrinfinityx]

WTF happend JFL at this

 

[gymislife]

u failed the 1st step

Spoiler

not being a chad

 

[Mrinfinityx]

u failed the 1st step

Spoiler

not being a chad

She speaked to me first with this emoji JFL
The end makes no sense at all

 

[far336]

You're texting too much. I would suggest setting up a date with her as soon as you can. So, in your case, in the first message, after she said "You're very gifted", you should have said "Thanks haha. I've been enjoying talking to you, would you like to meet up for a date sometime?". The longer you wait, the more likely she will flake

Example:

 

[Mrinfinityx]

You're texting too much. I would suggesting setting up a date with her as soon as you can. So, in your case, in the first message, after she said "You're very gifted", you should have said "Thanks. I've been enjoying talking to you, would you like to meet up for a date sometime?". The longer you wait, the more likely she will flake

That was be planned after Quarantine, we speaked about it more early, but she lives at 100 km JFL, then end makes no sense, I don't say anything offensive

 

[far336]

That was be planned after Quarantine, we speaked about it more early, but she lives at 100 km JFL, then end makes no sense, I don't say anything offensive

I see. In that case, I would have not continued texting her until you two are ready to meet. Because if you continue texting, she'll get bored and not want to meet anymore.

So, after quarantine is over, I would have messaged her saying "Hey, how's your quarantine been?", she responds, then you say "Nice! Seems like it's more safer now. Would you like to meet up this week?"

You are right that you didn't say anything offensive, which is good.

Also, I edited my previous post to provide an example screenshot.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

I see. In that case, I would have not continued texting her until you two are ready to meet. Because if you continue texting, she'll get bored and not want to meet anymore.

So, after quarantine is over, I would have messaged her saying "Hey, how's your quarantine been?", she responds, then you say "Nice! Seems like it's more safer now. Would you like to meet up this week?"

You are right that you didn't say anything offensive, which is good.

Also, I edited my previous post to provide an example screenshot.

She was joking at the end or offensive? I can't tell

 

[tyronelite]

stop texting back n forth so much jesus christ get to the point & tell her you wanna hang out

 

[Mrinfinityx]

stop texting back n forth so much jesus christ get to the point & tell her you wanna hang out

I did but after Quarantine I said, but explain me the end btw

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

She speaked to me first with this emoji JFL
The end makes no sense at all

women don't make sense, with experience you will just stop caring as I stopped

 

[tyronelite]

I did but after Quarantine I said, but explain me the end btw

Well first you asked if you did something wrong so she probably thinks you're insecure & you kept badgering about why she does this and that.

You're being too logical & uninteresting in your convos so she probably ghosted u & thought u were a weirdo

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

I did but after Quarantine I said, but explain me the end btw

you can't go for a walk in lockdown?

 

[far336]

She was joking at the end or offensive? I can't tell

I'm not sure, it's hard to say. But, either way, it doesn't matter, as that's not the main problem. The main problem is you texted for too long. When you text too long, you end up running the risk where she may be offended or she sees a red flag, even if you didn't mean to be offensive.

For example,

"I like carrots" vs "I like carrots and but I don't like working out"

When you mentioned the detail about working out, she may interpret it as "This guy must be lazy and have no goals in life if he doesn't workout", which is ridiculous, but that's how irrational women are. Had you only said the first phrase, she may not have rejected you

The above is a simple example, but it shows that the more words you send, the more likely you risk saying something that she considers a red flag or offensive.

Of course, it's more okay to say this stuff in person, because she has put emotional and time investment to seeing you, so cancelling the date because you mentioned that you don't work out would be a waste of her time, so she will be more tolerant of such things. But over text, she is less tolerant, she is more judgmental of texts.

TLDR: Only text to setup dates and minimize small talk

 

[Mrinfinityx]

you can't go for a walk in lockdown?

100 km

 

[Deleted member 4797]

You sounded creepy ngl, stop self-describing bro its the weirdest thing for people to do.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

You sounded creepy ngl, stop self-describing bro its the weirdest thing for people to do.

I don't know why I have this need to express my philosophy JFL

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

You sounded creepy ngl, stop self-describing bro its the weirdest thing for people to do.

yeah, like why open up about yourself so quickly and especially through texting, doesn't make sense

 

[Mrinfinityx]

I'm not sure, it's hard to say. But, either way, it doesn't matter, as that's not the main problem. The main problem is you texted for too long. When you text too long, you end up running the risk where she may be offended or she sees a red flag, even if you didn't mean to be offensive.

For example,

"I like carrots" vs "I like carrots and but I don't like working out"

When you mentioned the detail about working out, she may interpret it as "This guy must be lazy and have no goals in life if he doesn't workout", which is ridiculous, but that's how irrational women are. Had you only said the first phrase, she may not have rejected you

The above is a simple example, but it shows that the more words you send, the more likely you risk saying something that she considers a red flag or offensive.

Of course, it's more okay to say this stuff in person, because she has put emotional and time investment to seeing you, so cancelling the date because you mentioned that you don't work out would be a waste of her time, so she will be more tolerant of such things. But over text, she is less tolerant, she is more judgmental of texts.

TLDR: Only text to setup dates and minimize small talk

I think saying the minimum and don't invest yourself is high level confidence, maybe I don't have it, there is some needs unresolved in myself

But I know that u speak the truth

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

I think saying the minimum and don't invest yourself is high level confidence, maybe I don't have it, there is some needs unresolved in myself

But I know that u speak the truth

unironically look into redpill stuff

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

WTF happend JFL at this

What you were saying made you sound like a delusional “”””man”””” I aM nOt AfRaId oF ExPrEsSinG mY fEeLinGs you actual woman

 

[Deleted member 10516]

Your text game is dogshit. Holy shit. I’ll try and find examples and make a thread and tag you

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

unironically look into redpill stuff

The only time I would say this, he makes himself seem pathetic If I was a woman I would be drier than the Sahara

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Your text game is dogshit. Holy shit. I’ll try and find examples and make a thread and tag you

He needs more than a thread he needs a new brain

 

[Deleted member 10516]

u failed the 1st step

Spoiler

not being a chad

True chad can say anything literally

 

[randomuser2407]

You're too honest, you're talking to her like she is your therapist, you don't hold back at all, that's your problem.

Women like confident men, not insecure pussies who show vulnerability and femininity by being so emotional, those who say the opposite are lying to you. Showing some vulnerability may be okay within a relationship, but until that happens, you're better off not showing any at all.

 

[Deleted member 4054]

If you're not trolling this is the worst shit I've ever seen in my life

 

[sensen]

I've learned the hard way, women nowadays want at MOST, a day of texting and then meetup. It's not like it was at 16 when you'd have to text for weeks just to meet.

The less, the better.

Hoes suck nowadays, no personality.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

The only time I would say this, he makes himself seem pathetic If I was a woman I would be drier than the Sahara

Why I am pathetic? I expressed my difference maybe

 

[sensen]

Watch Drive, be Driver.

 

[randomuser2407]

True chad can say anything literally

It depends on what you mean by "Chad". Good looks won't be enough to make up for a lack of self confidence, but maybe being famous could, depending on how much they worship you.

 

[Mrinfinityx]

If you're not trolling this is the worst shit I've ever seen in my life

Explain why, that s the point

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

The only time I would say this, he makes himself seem pathetic If I was a woman I would be drier than the Sahara

man, I was the same and still I'm bad at texting, but he can definitely change

 

[Deleted member 10516]

It depends on what you mean by "Chad". Good looks won't be enough to make up for a lack of self confidence, but maybe being famous could, depending on how much they worship you.

True I’ll say you can GET Away with a lot more. At a certain point you’ll need status/fame and money to say wtv

 

[Deleted member 6128]

Why tf would u tell her u were virgin till 23

 

[Deleted member 4797]

I don't know why I have this need to express my philosophy JFL

'im real man to express my feelings'
'im charming to express my feelings'

This is just weird communication it has nothing to d with ur philosophy bro

 

[Deleted member 10516]

Bro you really were simping!

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Why I am pathetic? I expressed my difference maybe

Because you were being incredibly soppy, you weren’t talking in a way that is attractive you spoke to her like you were trying to explain how much of an enlightened soul you are for not getting anyone on your cock.

I’ve spoken to women about the nazis and they were less weirded out than this girl.

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

Bro you really were simping!

Wasn’t even simping just... never thought I would say I am not the most autistic person in the room

 

[far336]

I think saying the minimum and don't invest yourself is high level confidence, maybe I don't have it, there is some needs unresolved in myself

You're going to get laughed at by many people here for the way you text, don't take it too personally, we've all been there. It seems like you don't talk to many women, which would make sense why you text the way you do. You'll get better at this with practice. Good luck!

 

[Deleted member 10516]

Wasn’t even simping just... never thought I would say I am not the most autistic person in the room

Nigga thought him saying he was Virgin to 23 is gonna help him lmao ...

 

[Deleted member 4054]

Explain why, that s the point

Bro, I'm not saying this to be mean, but you have a complete misunderstanding of what girls respond to. The last thing they want is a soft guy who talks about his feelings and virginity.

 

[Htobrother]

You're too honest, you're talking to her like she is your therapist, you don't hold back at all, that's your problem.

Women like confident men, not insecure pussies who show vulnerability and femininity by being so emotional, those who say the opposite are lying to you. Showing some vulnerability may be okay within a relationship, but until that happens, you're better off not showing any at all.

Ok dating coach

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

man, I was the same and still I'm bad at texting, but he can definitely change

Literally I am the boring fuck who speaks about classical and history to women, but this is just another level of what the fuck. At least they thinj I am intelligent... not emotionally broken.

Nigga thought him saying he was Virgin to 23 is gonna help him lmao ...

We have out differences you and I but... I am not that stupid how the fuck does bringing up being a virgin help unless you are a literal woman or a gay man

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Bro, I'm not saying this to be mean, but you have a complete misunderstanding of what girls respond to. The last thing they want is a soft guy who talks about his feelings and virginity.

I just wanted to express to her than my looks don't reflect my personality so she can be more trustworthy and comfortable with me, maybe this strategy of <I am different> is bad even if it is my real case

 

[Mrinfinityx]

Literally I am the boring fuck who speaks about classical and history to women, but this is just another level of what the fuck. At least they thinj I am intelligent... not emotionally broken.

We have out differences you and I but... I am not that stupid how the fuck does bringing up being a virgin help unless you are a literal woman or a gay man

This strategy of the nice guy goodlooking don't work it seems so

 

[randomuser2407]

Why I am pathetic? I expressed my difference maybe

"I am honest and not scared to express my feelings"

"Some men find that feminine but it is no more charming than weak"

"I was a virgin until 23 years old"

"I don't speak to u but generally guys fake themselves and their intentions for desperate needs and I am far from them"


Those are some of the worst things you could have said, you made the worst first impression.

Each comment shows insecurity and too much vulnerability. Nobody expects you to be a dominant alpha 100% of the time, but you should at least be as confident as the average man otherwise, it's never going to work for you no matter how much you looksmax.

It is very possible that you have autism if you don't understand the basics of social interactions. However, just like with any other skill, you can learn to be better at it. For most people, it comes naturally and that's why even ugly guys can get laid.

Social intelligence is just as important as your looks when trying to succeed with women.

 

[EasternRightWinger15]

Literally I am the boring fuck who speaks about classical and history to women, but this is just another level of what the fuck. At least they thinj I am intelligent... not emotionally broken.

We have out differences you and I but... I am not that stupid how the fuck does bringing up being a virgin help unless you are a literal woman or a gay man

yeah, I'm boring as fuck, but it's miles better than this atleast jfl

also experience taught me to not give a damn if girl ghosts me or not, just move on

 

[Htobrother]

"I am honest and not scared to express my feelings"

"Some men find that feminine but it is no more charming than weak"

"I was a virgin until 23 years old"

"I don't speak to u but generally guys fake themselves and their intentions for desperate needs and I am far from them"


Those are some of the worst things you could have said, you made the worst first impression.

Each comment shows insecurity and too much vulnerability. Nobody expects you to be a dominant alpha 100% of the time, but you should at least be as confident as the average man otherwise, it's never going to work for you no matter how much you looksmax.

It is very possible that you have autism if you don't understand the basics of social interactions. However, just like with any other skill, you can learn to be better at it. For most people, it comes naturally and that's why even ugly guys can get laid.

Social intelligence is just as important as your looks when trying to succeed with women.

Social intelligence is just as important as I your looks when trying to succeed with women.

I read everything twice

 

[Deleted member 4054]

I just wanted to express to her than my looks don't reflect my personality so she can be more trustworthy and comfortable with me, maybe this strategy of <I am different> is bad even if it is my real case

Bro, like I said, you just misunderstand what girls actually like vs what they SAY they like to hear. I wish I could zap my oldcel knowledge into ur brain but I can't, you're gonna have to figure it out with time and effort. Eventually you'll look back on ur post and cringe

 

[SendMePicsToRate]

This strategy of the nice guy goodlooking don't work it seems so

No, being nice is fine... being pathetic is not, you were beyond soppy I was gagging. Just speak to her like a normal person not like you are blessing her with your enlightened self.

yeah, I'm boring as fuck, but it's miles better than this atleast jfl

also experience taught me to not give a damn if girl ghosts me or not, just move on

Lmao this did have me caging though bro, literally if you aren’t going straight for a lay talk about things you find interesting don’t talk about whatever the fuck that was.

Don’t take it personally true, most men ghost women too so lol.