self-confidence is a pathetic cope

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normies especially foids usually advice you to have confidence in yourself in order to have friends, get females and build a decent social life overall, they think you can magically start loving your own existence and believe in yourself out of nowhere, "just be confident bro" is a cheap elusive solution for such inconvenience, your confidence cannot be boosted without external validation, it's a crucial factor in your life, a simple compliment can literally make someones week especially if it was uttered by the opposite gender, sure you can force yourself in but rejection and neglect are the only outcomes therefore you won't be truly changed for the person you are and once you become self-aware enough you'll realize that all of your efforts were meaningless and your self-confidence will be in shambles, seeking basic human decency and affection does not make you selfish or egoist, we need attetion and love in order to have the adequate amount of self confidence required to have enough courage to approach people and put ourselves out there to finally be seen, all these years of isolation and solitude completely destroyed my self-esteem, ive always wondered why am i like this, shy, timid, unapproachable and unlovable until i stumbled upon bp and eventually connected the dots, even tho it changed my perception of life permanentaly but at least now i know what i need to fix so i can have the life ive always dreamt of, but even then when you do achieve it and get noticed for once in your life it'll never be the same, you'll always feel hollow inside at the end of the day, the agonizing path you have to go through for what most people get easily is truly brutal, im not allowed interactions that most of my peers indulge in due to my genetic inferiority which really saddens me because im a kind human being whom just wanted to be loved, and no matter how much you try cope and act confident you'll always remain the last option, while a chad is getting praised and loved just for existing you're rotting in your room with no one to talk to and connect with thanks to your looks and being an nd makes it even worse, if you’ve reached the end of this post, I really appreciate it, im blessed to have a community with whom i can express the emotions and thoughts i used to suppress until they started consuming me from the inside, don’t forget to share your opinions with me, thanks once again and always remember that it was never over thus it never even began in the first place <33
 
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bro can u space more and do paragraphs moore its hard to read when its all together but you js need to be funny lit js joke around with ppl and girls this will surley get u friends but for some one who will love you like a gf its not too sure like it culd work but u also need to look good if u look bare ugle then its not gna work just be friendly and joke around with every one
 
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normies especially foids usually advice you to have confidence in yourself in order to have friends, get females and build a decent social life overall, they think you can magically start loving your own existence and believe in yourself out of nowhere, "just be confident bro" is a cheap elusive solution for such inconvenience, your confidence cannot be boosted without external validation, it's a crucial factor in your life, a simple compliment can literally make someones week especially if it was uttered by the opposite gender, sure you can force yourself in but rejection and neglect are the only outcomes therefore you won't be truly changed for the person you are and once you become self-aware enough you'll realize that all of your efforts were meaningless and your self-confidence will be in shambles, seeking basic human decency and affection does not make you selfish or egoist, we need attetion and love in order to have the adequate amount of self confidence required to have enough courage to approach people and put ourselves out there to finally be seen, all these years of isolation and solitude completely destroyed my self-esteem, ive always wondered why am i like this, shy, timid, unapproachable and unlovable until i stumbled upon bp and eventually connected the dots, even tho it changed my perception of life permanentaly but at least now i know what i need to fix so i can have the life ive always dreamt of, but even then when you do achieve it and get noticed for once in your life it'll never be the same, you'll always feel hollow inside at the end of the day, the agonizing path you have to go through for what most people get easily is truly brutal, im not allowed interactions that most of my peers indulge in due to my genetic inferiority which really saddens me because im a kind human being whom just wanted to be loved, and no matter how much you try cope and act confident you'll always remain the last option, while a chad is getting praised and loved just for existing you're rotting in your room with no one to talk to and connect with thanks to your looks and being an nd makes it even worse, if you’ve reached the end of this post, I really appreciate it, im blessed to have a community with whom i can express the emotions and thoughts i used to suppress until they started consuming me from the inside, don’t forget to share your opinions with me, thanks once again and always remember that it was never over thus it never even began in the first place <33
bro can u space more and do paragraphs
 
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Water but you said it well I relate to every molecule
 
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bro can u space more and do paragraphs moore its hard to read when its all together but you js need to be funny lit js joke around with ppl and girls this will surley get u friends but for some one who will love you like a gf its not too sure like it culd work but u also need to look good if u look bare ugle then its not gna work just be friendly and joke around with every one
i wrote this using my pc, it could be hard to read when using your phone but i'll try to improve the structure next time, and let me tell this, i despise every single thing about myself but only one trait remains cherished and it's my sense of humor, trust me im one of the funniest people you could meet irl yet i still find it hard, and if you're only being appreciated purely for your sense of humor then you're nothing but a jester who's only there to make people happy and kill their boredom but once they have something else to do, you won't be in picture no more sadly
 
Dnr but self confidence isn’t cope if your a low htn thsts extremely awkward and dosnt approach women you will have less girls then a confident lhtn
 
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normies especially foids usually advice you to have confidence in yourself in order to have friends, get females and build a decent social life overall, they think you can magically start loving your own existence and believe in yourself out of nowhere, "just be confident bro" is a cheap elusive solution for such inconvenience, your confidence cannot be boosted without external validation, it's a crucial factor in your life, a simple compliment can literally make someones week especially if it was uttered by the opposite gender, sure you can force yourself in but rejection and neglect are the only outcomes therefore you won't be truly changed for the person you are and once you become self-aware enough you'll realize that all of your efforts were meaningless and your self-confidence will be in shambles, seeking basic human decency and affection does not make you selfish or egoist, we need attetion and love in order to have the adequate amount of self confidence required to have enough courage to approach people and put ourselves out there to finally be seen, all these years of isolation and solitude completely destroyed my self-esteem, ive always wondered why am i like this, shy, timid, unapproachable and unlovable until i stumbled upon bp and eventually connected the dots, even tho it changed my perception of life permanentaly but at least now i know what i need to fix so i can have the life ive always dreamt of, but even then when you do achieve it and get noticed for once in your life it'll never be the same, you'll always feel hollow inside at the end of the day, the agonizing path you have to go through for what most people get easily is truly brutal, im not allowed interactions that most of my peers indulge in due to my genetic inferiority which really saddens me because im a kind human being whom just wanted to be loved, and no matter how much you try cope and act confident you'll always remain the last option, while a chad is getting praised and loved just for existing you're rotting in your room with no one to talk to and connect with thanks to your looks and being an nd makes it even worse, if you’ve reached the end of this post, I really appreciate it, im blessed to have a community with whom i can express the emotions and thoughts i used to suppress until they started consuming me from the inside, don’t forget to share your opinions with me, thanks once again and always remember that it was never over thus it never even began in the first place <33
can you summarize this
 
Dnr but self confidence isn’t cope if your a low htn thsts extremely awkward and dosnt approach women you will have less girls then a confident lhtn
agree, but an htn probably gets enough external validation to eventually develop self confidence anyways, and don't forget that life starts at htn+
 
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i wrote this using my pc, it could be hard to read when using your phone but i'll try to improve the structure next time, and let me tell this, i despise every single thing about myself but only one trait remains cherished and it's my sense of humor, trust me im one of the funniest people you could meet irl yet i still find it hard, and if you're only being appreciated purely for your sense of humor then you're nothing but a jester who's only there to make people happy and kill their boredom but once they have something else to do, you won't be in picture no more sadly
Self confidence isn’t cope it sounds like your delusional though calling your self one of the funniest people. If you really were you wouldn’t have the problems you do now.
 
Dnr but yeah I agree
 
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Self confidence isn’t cope it sounds like your delusional though calling your self one of the funniest people. If you really were you wouldn’t have the problems you do now.
i wouldnt be suprised, incels are geniunally some of the funniest people on the planet.
 
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Bro realy typed a full essay just for it to be water
 
Self confidence isn’t cope it sounds like your delusional though calling your self one of the funniest people. If you really were you wouldn’t have the problems you do now
you really think being funny can solve all your problems and set you for life, sounds like you're the one being delusional not me
 
you really think being funny can solve all your problems and set you for life, sounds like you're the one being delusional not me
No one has that many problems besides for losers so yes some good laughs would take you far.
 

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