iblamegenetics_0
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normies especially foids usually advice you to have confidence in yourself in order to have friends, get females and build a decent social life overall, they think you can magically start loving your own existence and believe in yourself out of nowhere, "just be confident bro" is a cheap elusive solution for such inconvenience, your confidence cannot be boosted without external validation, it's a crucial factor in your life, a simple compliment can literally make someones week especially if it was uttered by the opposite gender, sure you can force yourself in but rejection and neglect are the only outcomes therefore you won't be truly changed for the person you are and once you become self-aware enough you'll realize that all of your efforts were meaningless and your self-confidence will be in shambles, seeking basic human decency and affection does not make you selfish or egoist, we need attetion and love in order to have the adequate amount of self confidence required to have enough courage to approach people and put ourselves out there to finally be seen, all these years of isolation and solitude completely destroyed my self-esteem, ive always wondered why am i like this, shy, timid, unapproachable and unlovable until i stumbled upon bp and eventually connected the dots, even tho it changed my perception of life permanentaly but at least now i know what i need to fix so i can have the life ive always dreamt of, but even then when you do achieve it and get noticed for once in your life it'll never be the same, you'll always feel hollow inside at the end of the day, the agonizing path you have to go through for what most people get easily is truly brutal, im not allowed interactions that most of my peers indulge in due to my genetic inferiority which really saddens me because im a kind human being whom just wanted to be loved, and no matter how much you try cope and act confident you'll always remain the last option, while a chad is getting praised and loved just for existing you're rotting in your room with no one to talk to and connect with thanks to your looks and being an nd makes it even worse, if you’ve reached the end of this post, I really appreciate it, im blessed to have a community with whom i can express the emotions and thoughts i used to suppress until they started consuming me from the inside, don’t forget to share your opinions with me, thanks once again and always remember that it was never over thus it never even began in the first place <33