Self-esteemmaxxing is the most important aspect of ascension.

[Ichigoat1998]

Im a Puerto Rican late 20s no GF zoomer and the biggest reason why I can ascend is not I’m ND which huge self esteem issues. I live in NYC in a shitty nigger and epic community and even though I’m tall and recently lost a lot of weight I still can’t get a gf because they smell my awkwardness. We all know women have a sixth sense when I comes to sniffing out any form of weakness or uncertainty in men but black and latina foids are even more primal and have an even stronger radar. The issue is that my mom is essentially a ghetto as fuck Shaniqua that was verbally abusive. Called me a faggot and wished I was aborted when I was 8. That and other soul crushing experiences that occurred in my formative years really destroyed my self esteem. I know that being in a loving relationship will help me heal my psyche but women won’t give me that opportunity in the first place because I’m not a low inhibition low IQ groin. And before any of you faggots tell me that you have to be able to be happy while alone, deep throat a shotgun. That’s the ultimate form of cope. Man’s desire for women is literally the driving force for our very existence. Saying that is the equivalent of saying you have to learn to breathe without oxygen.

 

[StellaFanboy]

Your self-esteem is basically what your nervous system learned by how people treated you in childhood. If they treated you badly, your nervous system will make you shy around people as a defense mechanism.

 

[Ichigoat1998]

Plantains are fucking garbage.

Those are Dominicans but yeah your right.

 

[Ichigoat1998]

Your self-esteem is basically what your nervous system learned by how people treated you in childhood. If they treated you badly, your nervous system will make you shy around people as a defense mechanism.

Never thought of that. Also isn’t there also an IQ aspect to Self-esteem. Like the dubbing Krueger effect where dumb people think they are more competent than they actually are.

 

[StellaFanboy]

Never thought of that. Also isn’t there also an IQ aspect to Self-esteem. Like the dubbing Krueger effect where dumb people think they are more competent than they actually are.

It could be with some delusional people, but i think that the experiences in childhood basically stay in your brain and nervous system like they were set in stone, and shape your personality etc.

 

[Ichigoat1998]

It could be with some delusional people, but i think that the experiences in childhood basically stay in your brain and nervous system like they were set in stone, and shape your personality etc.

What are some ways that I can overcome this if it’s something so physiologically ingrained into me?

 

[StellaFanboy]

What are some ways that I can overcome this if it’s something so physiologically ingrained into me?

Maybe try to get some better experiences to overwrite those old experiences with new ones as proof to your brain, maybe that works?

 

[Ichigoat1998]

Maybe try to get some better experiences to overwrite those old experiences with new ones as proof to your brain, maybe that works?

Shit. So I need some girl to love bomb me into being confident?

 

[Deleted member 330523]

my mom is essentially a ghetto as fuck Shaniqua

im fucking crying bro

 

[fkxever]

smell your awkwardness hahaha, its not that deep bhai