(Serious) (Discussion) When girls say they want a tall ugly guy, what do they mean?

[christian2710]

I saw a tiktok where it said “Tall and ugly guys >>>” but the ugly guy was ryan gosling jfl

 

[christian2710]

I completely fucked this thread up holy shit can mods take this down

 

[eyes]

6'4 HTN
take the medium ugly pill

 

[Acne Victim]

Brutal pollmaking skills

 

[GriffithMaxx]

Mean 6'9 Chadlite instead of Chad

 

[christian2710]

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Brutal pollmaking skills

dyslexia

 

[christian2710]

6'4 HTN
take the medium ugly pill

right, but I feel like they mean 6’4 MTN-HTN, a chadlite clearly isn’t ugly thars coping, I facetimed foids and it sees like she found Strong MTNs+ attractive, and esp guys with hair and decent jaw, she also called out ppl for cheek biting and said it was ugly so autists on this app need to wake up and face reality

 

[lelouch]

medium ugly typa dudes, attractive but some falio holding them back

 

[christian2710]

medium ugly typa dudes, attractive but some falio holding them back

no I think the term is ugly hot, once again I saw a tiktok on it and the girl jsut put a bunch of pics of dudes with good features and coloring, but prey eyes

 

[lelouch]

no I think the term is ugly hot, once again I saw a tiktok on it and the girl jsut put a bunch of pics of dudes with good features and coloring, but prey eyes

yeah good facial structure and bad eyes is medium ugly, idk if they have new names for it

 

[christian2710]

yeah good facial structure and bad eyes is medium ugly, idk if they have new names for it

nah, it’s just hot ugly and ugly hot

hot ugly are dudes with average to below avergae facial structures but good eye area

ugly hot are dudes with good facial structures, but average to below average eye area

and as usual good coloring is needed

 

[Deleted member 18582]

he needs to have a big nose too

 

[christian2710]

he needs to have a big nose too

funny you say that, my nose is my biggest flaw and and conpletley throws off harmony yet it’s the compliment I recieve most

 

[Deleted member 18582]

funny you say that, my nose is my biggest flaw and and conpletley throws off harmony yet it’s the compliment I recieve most

are you white and recessed by chance?

 

[christian2710]

are you white and recessed by chance?

uhhh not full white, ig I may be slightly white passing, my maxilla is recessed however lower jaw and chin appear to have solid forward growth

 

[Deleted member 18582]

uhhh not full white, ig I may be slightly white passing, my maxilla is recessed however lower jaw and chin appear to have solid forward growth

i knew it. "guys with big nose" just meant guys who are recessed and therefore uglier/accessible since recessed maxilla=nose appears more projected

 

[christian2710]

i knew it. "guys with big nose" just meant guys who are recessed and therefore uglier/accessible since recessed maxilla=nose appears more projected

what does this even mean

 

[Deleted member 18582]

what does this even mean

its a complicated psychological mechanism. ltbs/mtbs collectively hype up guys with objectively undesirable physical qualities that are actually attainable to them as a means of defending their own ego--they can pretend like the hottest guys they can actually get are the actual hot ones, instead of the real hot ones, and they have invented an entire lexicon to describe these guys. they collectively gaslight each other into making ugly the new hot so their ego doesn't take a hit when they can only lock down a mtn

its the source of
-big nose
-medium ugly
-hot ugly
-ugly hot
(anything involving "ugly" as a positive characteristic--they can't just get plain hot guys)
- dad bod (they can't get gl athletic surfer boys, so they pretend they like lazy mtns)


this isn't the best example: this guy is decently gl, so, many girls who dont cope with "i love big nose guys" will still be into him anyway, but just to demonstrate:

this is usually the kind of nose they have in mind when they think "big nose guys." in such men the nose appears big not because there's a lot of cartilage or the bridge is super projected per se, but because his infraorbital and/or paranasal areas are recessed. basically, its not that the nose is big, its that the face around it is not filled in. Developmentally, dorsal humps on the nose tend to accompany this upper maxillary recession. As such, a "big nose" is an index of maxillary recession, and therefore generally of an uglier phenotype. So big nose is just a socially sanctioned code word for a recessed guy, and since he's recessed, he's uglier and more accessible. They don't know all of this is happening of course, its all implicit knowledge

if these areas were more forward grown, his nose would appear more proportionate with his face

this guy is more likely to be what a ltb/mtb has in mind when she says "i love big nose guys"

she gets with him and then she successfuly gaslights herself and those around her that she totally bagged the kind of guy she really wanted. he's got a big nose!

as a counterexample, tom cruise has this kind of nose somewhat, but he is unlikely to be what girls mean when they say "i like big nose guys!"

tom cruise would just be what hot girls want without saying anything in particular about his facial features. they'll come up with whatever bullshit "i like your eyes" "i like your hands." their compliments on particular features don't mean anything with regard to that feature, if they're otherwise attracted to you they'll just pick whatever feature they happen to be looking at at that time and then say it just to signal their general attraction to you. if your eyes or nose or lips happen to stand out (read--they don't perfectly harmonize with the rest of the face, so therefore a kind of negative thing) they are more likely to pick that one, since they will more generally be spending more time looking at the part of the face that "stands out"