CelestialEmpire
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so i wont go cover everuthing cuz if you need that youre fucked bud.
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most tarts come with their girl friends in groups, or mixed gender friend groups. typically a group of 3-5 tarts is the most common.
female duos are less common (unless travelling), mixed genders less common (more common in college). birds with their boyfriends are also uncommon.
birds are practically NEVER solo.
approaching a group of tarts solo is definitely gonna fail.
approach a group of tarts with your friend group IF and ONLY IF your friend group are all good looking (white tall HTN+) AND theres roughly even numbers between two groups (awkward if 8 guys approach 2 girls, etc)
you want to either find a moment where shes alone or with just one friend AND where its quieter and theyre not moving around the venue too much, which is the following moments:
typically this works better than just starting to dance with her on the dance floor IF your face mogs your frame/height OR youre ethnic.
this is because here your advantages are she can hear your voice (if you have no accent as an ethnic she knows ur not fresh off the boat from mumbai/beijing/cairo) and she can see your face better than on the dancefloor (where height and frame dominates).
good openers are:
once talking just gauge interest based on her body language and how much shes talking, then go from there. next play.
-------------------approaching-----------------
most tarts come with their girl friends in groups, or mixed gender friend groups. typically a group of 3-5 tarts is the most common.
female duos are less common (unless travelling), mixed genders less common (more common in college). birds with their boyfriends are also uncommon.
birds are practically NEVER solo.
approaching a group of tarts solo is definitely gonna fail.
approach a group of tarts with your friend group IF and ONLY IF your friend group are all good looking (white tall HTN+) AND theres roughly even numbers between two groups (awkward if 8 guys approach 2 girls, etc)
you want to either find a moment where shes alone or with just one friend AND where its quieter and theyre not moving around the venue too much, which is the following moments:
- getting a drink for herself and/or her friends at the bar
- getting fresh air at the smoke pit
- waiting for their uber (not a good opportunity)
- waiting in line
- waiting in line for the washroom (do not approach here JFL)
typically this works better than just starting to dance with her on the dance floor IF your face mogs your frame/height OR youre ethnic.
this is because here your advantages are she can hear your voice (if you have no accent as an ethnic she knows ur not fresh off the boat from mumbai/beijing/cairo) and she can see your face better than on the dancefloor (where height and frame dominates).
good openers are:
- where are you from (if travelling in a touristy city)
- whats your major (college bars)
- what are you getting (at the bar)
- who do you thinks gonna win (if a game is playing on the screen)
- how are you / how are you doing (universal)
once talking just gauge interest based on her body language and how much shes talking, then go from there. next play.
