(Serious) Is it worth getting a girl if you don't have a high income?

[wannaBProud]

Short answer no long answer fuck no

haahhahaha

 

[tuberculosisinmybal]

Yea real, im 19 and im not broke but not rich so would it just be best to wait you think? Maybe like until you have at least +$6 000 a month

Nigga you don't need 6k a month to date

 

[wannaBProud]

Nigga you don't need 6k a month to date

IF not you are a jester

 

[decadouche57]

Short answer no long answer fuck no

Even if rich its not worth it

 

[dawooddX]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

no tbh
its understandable until 19 id say for the experience
beyond that u need ur life together
if a rs is gonna hinder ur progress
ur gonna fuck it up
also its not like itl last

 

[smartstyle]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

I used to sell some things. And when I didn't want to deal with customer - when I can feel bad vibes from them, knowing It would be very unpleasant for me to even communicate, I usually lifted prices up to 500%. Most of time, they backed up - but if they agreed, I am kinda okay to work with some retard for 500% price.

I hope you get the reference, the woman won't require you to spend money on her if she really likes you. And having loving gf actually helps get richer by moral support.

Hope that helps.

 

[Tool]

It depends on your age. If you’re bellow 18 there should be a lot less financial stress from a relationship as the girls probably in the same boat as you (don’t go for rich foids tho as they will expect you to treat them as their father does)

18+ it’s kinda over if you’re broke because they’ll see you as a bum if you can’t take them places or buy them stuff

If you do this and none of your side hustles work (very plausible) then you will end up dying a virgin as no girl will date you past your mid 20s unless you earn six figures plus.

a sad reality for most who live in metropolitan environments, good looks aren't novel anymore (unless exceptional) for women past a certain age and not having your life together is a strong failo often. Its a common occurrence for a looksmaxxed incel to get IOIs, approach in desperation, the girl is likely receptive to conform socially and then she never texts him back and pretends he doesn't exist when she sees him again, probably because it shatters her fantasy of the man she was looking at, though thats just a speculation.

While I agree that you shouldn't throw away too much time in your early 20s on random girls, having a supportive relationship or even hooking up with random girls gives you a massive massive confidence boost that applies to every other area in life

yes, also, romantic experiences are necessary for neurodevelopment and fitting in socially. people who miss out on that experience and are low IQ can't comprehend what is happening or has happened and adapt suboptimally or even maladaptively to life. sad.

 

[jawalrus]

currently dating a hmtb, virgin until me, no boyfriends, no kisses, incredibly naive, pays for my shit sometimes, we're 50/50
19 in uni

idk if it's gonna end tbh, hope it doesn't ofc but she's made everything really easy

for me, i work more efficiently when i have a goal in a way, sex/women is always the biggest motivator for men, without it we are nothing

you can't expect to work 24/7, if ur on here ur already wasting time

i do my work as efficiently as possible so i can spend time with her which i enjoy to the fullest

if a relationship is good, it's good, if not then no, simple


also consider if u wait too long ur gonna end with some mtb roastie with 20+ bodies, work as hard as you want, iq and work effort are largely predetermined, u can only do so much

 

[PRAG]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

This is actually very real. if women weren't hypergamous foid i would have disagreed. But sadly here we are, the real question is getting a girl at any point worth it. They all got ran through why are you acting like a hood hero?

 

[PRAG]

Get a cute femboy instead

Women are friends men are sex partner

 

[PRAG]

currently dating a hmtb, virgin until me, no boyfriends, no kisses, incredibly naive, pays for my shit sometimes, we're 50/50
19 in uni

idk if it's gonna end tbh, hope it doesn't ofc but she's made everything really easy

for me, i work more efficiently when i have a goal in a way, sex/women is always the biggest motivator for men, without it we are nothing

you can't expect to work 24/7, if ur on here ur already wasting time

i do my work as efficiently as possible so i can spend time with her which i enjoy to the fullest

if a relationship is good, it's good, if not then no, simple


also consider if u wait too long ur gonna end with some mtb roastie with 20+ bodies, work as hard as you want, iq and work effort are largely predetermined, u can only do so much

Thats the thing if u wait shes ran through if u dont you invest in her for someone else go get her down the line

 

[Adee]

Yes, but don’t treat her as more than just a sex partner.

 

[abuse]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately and honestly are relationships even worth it? They cost money and time and what do you really get back? Especially if you don't have a great income yet should you really be spending your time on a girl who's most likely gonna break up with you anyway? The stats are brutal only 1-3% of relationships in your teens/early 20s actually last forever. So you're basically investing in something that's almost guaranteed to fail. Also my friends who have girlfriends are always complaining about them. Like constantly. Which tells me that this may not be the way to go. Here is what gets me: say you spend 10 hours a week on a girl. That's 40 hours a month literally a full work week. Imagine if you used those 40 hours to build a side hsutle, grow a TikTok page, learn a valuable skill or smth else. That would pay off way more in the long run than some relationship that's gonna end in a year or two. Am I crazy for thinking this way? You're putting in all this effort and money for something temporary when you could be building actual wealth and skills that last.

What do you guys think? Someone tell me if I'm missing something here.

you need it for experience in talking to women, sex, etc.

 

[PRAG]

you need it for experience in talking to women, sex, etc.

Experience in sex is being a whore fuck hook up culture

 

[jawalrus]

if ur in a situation whehre you truly can't go without money (e.g. you grew up really poor or you have to support yourself and can't) the answer is obviously no, but imo if you're not in that kind of scenario you should just let things happen (e.g. if it happens it happens)

better to experience it that not lmao