imjustabebeh
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My girlfriend has been struggling with not being able to cum her whole life (by herself and with a partner)
It’s so sad for me to think she can’t even enjoy sex because most of the time I’ve been going too fast on her and just making her be in pain
It took me a while to learn that her body functions nothing like in porn
It’s genuinely sad to think that men think a woman always enjoys sex do to porn, it honestly just rots your brain
My gf told me that most of the time it’s not very enjoyable and that it hurts
I just think porn should be banned bc women need to take it slowly with foreplay and not just to immediately stick it in
Honestly I’m still learning about how her body works bc I’ve tried so many things to make her cum yet it never worked
The reason for that is is because she only holds back, I try to relax and make her as comfortable as possible
I’ve learnt that sex isn’t just for my pleasure but it’s mostly to make the other person feel good
The other reason I think this is because her ex partner pretty much forced her to have sex and it might be the reason why she’s scared of doing it
I just wish that she told me how she feels but she won’t in any occasion, she just hints a few things to me but I’m too naive to notice
It’s so sad for me to think she can’t even enjoy sex because most of the time I’ve been going too fast on her and just making her be in pain
It took me a while to learn that her body functions nothing like in porn
It’s genuinely sad to think that men think a woman always enjoys sex do to porn, it honestly just rots your brain
My gf told me that most of the time it’s not very enjoyable and that it hurts
I just think porn should be banned bc women need to take it slowly with foreplay and not just to immediately stick it in
Honestly I’m still learning about how her body works bc I’ve tried so many things to make her cum yet it never worked
The reason for that is is because she only holds back, I try to relax and make her as comfortable as possible
I’ve learnt that sex isn’t just for my pleasure but it’s mostly to make the other person feel good
The other reason I think this is because her ex partner pretty much forced her to have sex and it might be the reason why she’s scared of doing it
I just wish that she told me how she feels but she won’t in any occasion, she just hints a few things to me but I’m too naive to notice
