(sex havers only) have you ever gotten romantically attached to a friend with benefits?

[Deleted member 283995]

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[Deleted member 256938]

no, but opposite happened a few times

usually i just gradually started ghosting them

 

[Deleted member 283995]

no, but opposite happened a few times

usually i just gradually started ghosting them

yeah, happened to me opposite but i fear it might be happening to me this time around

 

[Deleted member 256938]

yeah, happened to me opposite but i fear it might be happening to me this time around

what do u feel right now bro?

 

[Deleted member 283995]

what u feel right now bro?

Hard to process tbh, but after the first time having sex i didnt feel anything, and i talked to her and we agreed to only be FWB
but after this second time at her house, the sex was more passionate, and we cuddled after and that made me feel good like in a way i haven't felt the first time (probably the oxytocin you get)
i dont want to be colder with her but i probably should be colder, so i dont get attached
and being colder means less cuddling and also less kissing

 

[Deleted member 256938]

Hard to process tbh, but after the first time having sex i didnt feel anything, and i talked to her and we agreed to only be FWB
but after this second time at her house, the sex was more passionate, and we cuddled after and that made me feel good like in a way i haven't felt the first time (probably the oxytocin you get)
i dont want to be colder with her but i probably should be colder, so i dont get attached
and being colder means less cuddling and also less kissing

damn that kind of closeness can trigger feelings
jus be real about emotions, you dont have to force yourself to be cold

tbh, bro, if you feel like you’re starting to get attached, it might be healthier to take a step back cuz things can get tricky fast

women who’s okay with having multiple “friends with benefits” guaranteed is not right women for relationship, it might be better to stop now

 

[Deleted member 283995]

damn that kind of closeness can trigger feelings
jus be real about emotions, you dont have to force yourself to be cold

tbh, bro, if you feel like you’re starting to get attached, it might be healthier to take a step back cuz things can get tricky fast

women who’s okay with having multiple “friends with benefits” guaranteed is not right women for relationship, it might be better to stop now

i dont know, im not really wealthy in girls so losing her would mean going back to inceldom jfl
but yeah, maybe i should be honest with my feeling just like how i was with my intentions at the start
i believe she is a good girl though, we talked a bit and she told me she has only had two partners in the past and both were her exes, and from stalking her in tiktok i learned through her reposts that she recently came out a relationship
thanks for the advice, it made me clear up my head a bit

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

Yes a few times while geomaxing. Normally I would say men and women can't be friends, but when you're in a foreign country it's useful so I make an exception.

 

[Deleted member 283995]

Yes a few times while geomaxing. Normally I would say men and women can't be friends, but when you're in a foreign country it's useful so I make an exception.

and how did that go for you?

 

[Deleted member 256938]

i dont know, im not really wealthy in girls so losing her would mean going back to inceldom jfl
but yeah, maybe i should be honest with my feeling just like how i was with my intentions at the start
i believe she is a good girl though, we talked a bit and she told me she has only had two partners in the past and both were her exes, and from stalking her in tiktok i learned through her reposts that she recently came out a relationship
thanks for the advice, it made me clear up my head a bit

If you don’t have many options with women right now, it’s pretty natural to feel more attached to the person you’re currently with.


she might actually be a good girl, I don’t know her, and I only read a few paragraphs, so I don’t see the full picture and only you really know what feels right


I just hope you figure things out in a way that’s best for you. Wishing you the best, bro

 

[JoeNutz]

Its difficult to when you realise it's a giga whore who'd stick anything with a pulse in her snatch

 

[sebchi]

yeah, happened to me opposite but i fear it might be happening to me this time around

Just communicate it, the more you do it without communication will lead to suffering trust

 

[flatcheck213]

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no if they were men