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Unless you can find a 8/10+ hot individual that fucks like a porn star, there is a good chance that at this point sex toys are actually more preferable than fucking real people. This isn't the first time I've made a thread about this, but I want to explain this in a but more detail.
For starters, there are some people who already admit this. Only women mind you. Men of course would never admit to using a toy because of the social embarassment. But there are fair few women who already basically admit that real dicks are having a hard time competing against machines:
www.womenshealthmag.com
The question: I can never get the same orgasm with my boyfriend as I get with my vibrator. Is it possible? I feel like I've spoiled myself too much... sex with my S.O. is great, and I do orgasm, but not nearly as strongly as when I masturbate. I also don't want to have to pull out the vibrator every time we have sex just so I can get knocked on my ass the way I do when I'm alone. Are vibrator-induced orgasms natural, or is it like an unfair advantage?
The answer: The short answer: Yes, vibrators totally have an unfair advantage in the bedroom, because they're man-made sex toys specifically designed to get you off, says Napolitano. "Sex with a vibrator is intense and powerful because you have control over your orgasm." Also, well, it has batteries and sensations and gadgets that your guy just doesn't come equipped with. "Your guy's tongue, finger or penis cannot mimic the precision of a machine," says Napolitano.
This just confirms what I've suspected for a long time. The meme that toys cannot compare/compete with real sex is a myth born largely out of male egoism as well as the overhyping of real sex.
Just for the record, while I'm a semi-incel (I've gotten laid with two whales, but otherwise haven't gotten anything) I've experienced both a vagina (albeit from girls I didn't find very attractive) as well as toys. And I'm telling you that that fetishization and over-hyping of vaginal sex is laughable. You are not missing as much as you think you are. And neither are women in regards to penises.
The male and female genetalia have certain regions on them that respond positively to stimulation, thus resulting in sexual pleasure. When you are sexually aroused this pleasure is heightened. In order to understand why the sensation of real sex is overrated, let's start by exploring the different ways in which sexual stimulation can actually be obtained and how good they feel compared to the alternatives:
Rubbing: The penis or vagina is exposed to rubbing by another object. This can be your (or someone else's) hands, fingers, a penis or toy etc. By rubbing the area over and over with various degree of force you can stimulate the area. The experience can be made more pleasurable by applying lube or some other web substance in order to keep things lubricated. This is easily the most mediocre way to cum, and arguably only exists as the most common method because evolution found no other convenient way to let animals get off other than just simple rubbing.
Examples: Masturbation, vaginal sex, flesh-slight/pocket vagina etc
Pleasure level: Low to Medium
Suction: Sensitive areas are stimulated via suction force of some kind. This is in many ways superior to rubbing since suction forces can be applied to a larger area at a time compared to rubbing. It also feels nicer as well compared to crudely rubbing your penis/vagina to something.
Example: Blowjob, any toy where suction is utilized
Pleasure level: Medium to High
Vibration: The only stimulation type that humans cannot apply without the use of toys/devices. A constant vibrating force is applied to an area (typically the most sensitive ones) in order to stimulate that area. This typically stimulates a smaller area than suction does but the area being stimulated gets stimulated much more intensively. Even then a large area may be stimulated depending on the design of the toy being used.
Examples: Any toy that applies vibration
Pleasure level: High
Conclusion: When one disregards all the social taboos against toys and just looks at this matter scientifically it becomes very clear that conventional sex is just an oudated method of getting off and that toys designed specifically for the purpose are objectively better at applying stimulation than real sex is. In some cases toys may even be able to do things that wouldn't even be physically possible during normal sex.
So why then is real sex so glorified? It's because of three groups mostly:
1. Males who think mocking toys while praising real sex makes them look alpha, while thinking toys are gay/Low T.
2. Incels who have no actual real world experience with sex and think real sex is like porn where everybody is constantly screaming in pleasure.
3. Salty women who fear the possibility that toys might grant sexual independence to women.
Stop being a cuck and realize that real sex is overhyped.
For starters, there are some people who already admit this. Only women mind you. Men of course would never admit to using a toy because of the social embarassment. But there are fair few women who already basically admit that real dicks are having a hard time competing against machines:
Reddit Asked: Why Are My Orgasms SO MUCH Stronger with Sex Toys?
The final answer on one of the web's burning sex questions.
The question: I can never get the same orgasm with my boyfriend as I get with my vibrator. Is it possible? I feel like I've spoiled myself too much... sex with my S.O. is great, and I do orgasm, but not nearly as strongly as when I masturbate. I also don't want to have to pull out the vibrator every time we have sex just so I can get knocked on my ass the way I do when I'm alone. Are vibrator-induced orgasms natural, or is it like an unfair advantage?
The answer: The short answer: Yes, vibrators totally have an unfair advantage in the bedroom, because they're man-made sex toys specifically designed to get you off, says Napolitano. "Sex with a vibrator is intense and powerful because you have control over your orgasm." Also, well, it has batteries and sensations and gadgets that your guy just doesn't come equipped with. "Your guy's tongue, finger or penis cannot mimic the precision of a machine," says Napolitano.
This just confirms what I've suspected for a long time. The meme that toys cannot compare/compete with real sex is a myth born largely out of male egoism as well as the overhyping of real sex.
Just for the record, while I'm a semi-incel (I've gotten laid with two whales, but otherwise haven't gotten anything) I've experienced both a vagina (albeit from girls I didn't find very attractive) as well as toys. And I'm telling you that that fetishization and over-hyping of vaginal sex is laughable. You are not missing as much as you think you are. And neither are women in regards to penises.
The male and female genetalia have certain regions on them that respond positively to stimulation, thus resulting in sexual pleasure. When you are sexually aroused this pleasure is heightened. In order to understand why the sensation of real sex is overrated, let's start by exploring the different ways in which sexual stimulation can actually be obtained and how good they feel compared to the alternatives:
Rubbing: The penis or vagina is exposed to rubbing by another object. This can be your (or someone else's) hands, fingers, a penis or toy etc. By rubbing the area over and over with various degree of force you can stimulate the area. The experience can be made more pleasurable by applying lube or some other web substance in order to keep things lubricated. This is easily the most mediocre way to cum, and arguably only exists as the most common method because evolution found no other convenient way to let animals get off other than just simple rubbing.
Examples: Masturbation, vaginal sex, flesh-slight/pocket vagina etc
Pleasure level: Low to Medium
Suction: Sensitive areas are stimulated via suction force of some kind. This is in many ways superior to rubbing since suction forces can be applied to a larger area at a time compared to rubbing. It also feels nicer as well compared to crudely rubbing your penis/vagina to something.
Example: Blowjob, any toy where suction is utilized
Pleasure level: Medium to High
Vibration: The only stimulation type that humans cannot apply without the use of toys/devices. A constant vibrating force is applied to an area (typically the most sensitive ones) in order to stimulate that area. This typically stimulates a smaller area than suction does but the area being stimulated gets stimulated much more intensively. Even then a large area may be stimulated depending on the design of the toy being used.
Examples: Any toy that applies vibration
Pleasure level: High
Conclusion: When one disregards all the social taboos against toys and just looks at this matter scientifically it becomes very clear that conventional sex is just an oudated method of getting off and that toys designed specifically for the purpose are objectively better at applying stimulation than real sex is. In some cases toys may even be able to do things that wouldn't even be physically possible during normal sex.
So why then is real sex so glorified? It's because of three groups mostly:
1. Males who think mocking toys while praising real sex makes them look alpha, while thinking toys are gay/Low T.
2. Incels who have no actual real world experience with sex and think real sex is like porn where everybody is constantly screaming in pleasure.
3. Salty women who fear the possibility that toys might grant sexual independence to women.
Stop being a cuck and realize that real sex is overhyped.
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