She Told Me I’ve Been Acting Distant and It Hit Me Hard

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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
 
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:(
 
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I hate this shit.
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
gl bhai :Comfy:
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
Give it a few days till she wants a break :lul:
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
Bluepilled as fuck :feelshaha:
 
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Low T bluecuck ramblings
 
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You gotta be like that and then act sweet for some days . Like change every day . Thats gonna make her more obsessed with you
 
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You gotta be like that and then act sweet for some days . Like change every day . Thats gonna make her more obsessed with you
Damn. I already fucked up. I told her that I was sorry for acting like that.
 
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Well,you shouldn't have said that
It's probably over
Damn. I already fucked up. I told her that I was sorry for acting like that.
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
tldr?
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
Women like men who take action

U should be tacit meaning u should Subtly agree

But still exert your masculinity just don't get pushed around

You wouldn't wanna be the guy that says 'I'm gonna do 100%' but then u end up doing 40%. :)
 
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This is horrible bluepill cuck energy. All she’s trying to do is domesticate you into somone she can control. She literally said she should be more important than your achievements in life. Once she gets bored of that you’ll be thrown out.
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
FqU E1GWYAIyF4p
 
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don't listen to her this Gus guy is right
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
 
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She said do you love me I told her only partly I only love my bed and my mama I’m sorry
 
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Been thinking a lot about how I’ve been acting lately. She told me she noticed I’ve been a bit “distant” and colder since Monday, and that it sometimes feels like I put myself above her. That hit me because I really don’t want her to feel that way.

She also said that while she’s happy for my achievements, trips, and everything I’m doing, she wants to feel like she’s important too. That the moments we share are valuable for both of us, not just for me. The last time I brushed off something she wrote or wanted to share, it clearly hurt her. She felt it was something special and I missed it.

She added that sometimes I don’t notice things, but when she points them out it helps me improve. She wants open communication, that problems are talked about and solved together, and that the last thing anyone wants is bad vibes. She doesn’t compare herself to anyone else, she just wants us to feel like a team, sharing the path, supporting each other. She doesn’t want me to seem arrogant, just like someone by her side on equal footing.

I know I’m the one who needs to step up. I want to be better, communicate better, notice the things that matter, and make sure she feels valued. This is about learning, improving, and fixing the things I can control.
yeah, with this bp stuff that i cant tell anyone about and my gf specifically, it makes me feel lil antisocial. we shoud never forget about stuff that actually matters bcuz you can miss is and then? then it may bee too late.

its good that u realised that, now its not hard just to get a lil closer again. goodluck bhai
 

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