Shit reputation in high school - what can I do?

horsefacin

horsefacin

Gold
Joined
Jan 23, 2023
Posts
761
Reputation
780
I have a really shit reputation with the popular kids in my HS. I'm 15 and in 10th grade, but its nearing the end of this year so im pretty much in 11th. I only really have 2yrs left to ascend before uni. It all started in 9th grade with an ex friend who I knew since elementary school talking shit about me cause he ascended (he used to be a loser incel like me). Then people just started to jump on the train of hating me.

I'm not known as a rapist murderer or wtv but if my name is brought up its definitely not gonna be in a positive light. Its like a word with a negative connotation basically.

What can I do at this point? Every time im looking for a foid to hit up and I check her mutuals and get pissed off when I see that the dickheads who look down on me are mutuals with her cause if I even do succeed a little bit she'll ask around and get told dumb shit about me. Its not just paranoia either man, people have hidden me from their stories and won't accept my follow request if I decide to refollow them (I purged my list about a year ago). People really aren't willing to let this shit go.
 
  • So Sad
  • +1
Reactions: ascension, looksseg and Deleted member 6128
Start a fight and win
 
  • +1
Reactions: Lucid
The only female attention ive gotten which didnt warrant me contacting them first is from some friendly foid in one of my classes who helps me cheat on exams. Whenever the incel next to her asks the same she airdrops it, but she asked for my number and texts me that way. She also smiles and waves at me in the halls but I suspect shes just being nice
 
  • +1
Reactions: ErbCel and Deleted member 6128
Start a fight and win
im down but these sneaky fuckers dont say anything to my face. i used an alt and pretended to be someone and they talk about me in their private gcs. so I cant really just start a fight cause they have the plausible deniability
 
  • +1
Reactions: Repentsinner, 5'7 zoomer and Deleted member 6128
people are like npc, you have to make you give a fuck, my recommendation is full looksmaxxing, improve your face, height, muscles, focus on you, after mogging all the stupid ones if they are stupid it doesn't matter their opinion xdd
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 21716, Patient A, blite and 5 others
Honestly, it’s easier to go to a new school than repair your reputation
 
  • +1
  • JFL
Reactions: hattrick, lilhorizontal32, looksseg and 12 others
at least you have 60 reputation here, means 60 people are aware of your life on here
 
  • JFL
Reactions: VladimirtheGreat, Fgsfds, Tabula Rasa and 7 others
at least you have 60 reputation here, means 60 people are aware of your life on here
really tho do u think it would be better to have a shit reputation or not be known for anything at all
 
over the summer get good at a sport and try to join some sports team in your school
 
  • +1
Reactions: ErbCel
drop out. seriously. At least then you got badboy halo, staying in school like a cuck with poor rep/looks is the biggest cuckmax.
 
  • +1
  • Ugh..
  • JFL
Reactions: Deleted member 22829, Deleted member 20399 and 5.5psl
really tho do u think it would be better to have a shit reputation or not be known for anything at all
shit rep mogs

theres nothing like bad marketing
 
  • JFL
  • +1
Reactions: Repentsinner and horsefacin
I have a really shit reputation with the popular kids in my HS. I'm 15 and in 10th grade, but its nearing the end of this year so im pretty much in 11th. I only really have 2yrs left to ascend before uni. It all started in 9th grade with an ex friend who I knew since elementary school talking shit about me cause he ascended (he used to be a loser incel like me). Then people just started to jump on the train of hating me.

I'm not known as a rapist murderer or wtv but if my name is brought up its definitely not gonna be in a positive light. Its like a word with a negative connotation basically.

What can I do at this point? Every time im looking for a foid to hit up and I check her mutuals and get pissed off when I see that the dickheads who look down on me are mutuals with her cause if I even do succeed a little bit she'll ask around and get told dumb shit about me. Its not just paranoia either man, people have hidden me from their stories and won't accept my follow request if I decide to refollow them (I purged my list about a year ago). People really aren't willing to let this shit go.
Ever thought of selling drugs? Everyone loves a drug dealer no matter what.
 
Ever thought of selling drugs? Everyone loves a drug dealer no matter what.
Well yk what they say, dealers will always try to be ur friend. Im followed by quite a few but im pretty oblivious on how to get into the game an shouldnt expect advice from my competition. Though I could probably start off selling dxm or something.
 
do u live in the uk
 
heightmaxx, people won't talk shit about you if you're a 6'8 ogre
 
First I'd try confronting the females in the group (maybe through text or any other digital medium) and asking them why they harass and bully you even though you did nothing to them. Tell them specifically what they did and tell them they are making your life bad and hurting you for no reason and they may have empathy, especially the foids of the group. I know it sounds insane but females legit have empathy for victims, it's why they care for abused animals and retarded people/cripples so much while men dgaf. They have empathy for the weak and vulnerable since it's in their DNA to be nurturing. Men don't really give af and will bully you to raise their own status.

If this doesn't work then move schools. These are your only two options.
 
  • JFL
  • Ugh..
Reactions: looksseg, PURE ARYAN GENETICS and Johanjohan
First I'd try confronting the females in the group (maybe through text or any other digital medium) and asking them why they harass and bully you even though you did nothing to them. Tell them specifically what they did and tell them they are making your life bad and hurting you for no reason and they may have empathy, especially the foids of the group. I know it sounds insane but females legit have empathy for victims, it's why they care for abused animals and retarded people/cripples so much while men dgaf. They have empathy for the weak and vulnerable since it's in their DNA to be nurturing. Men don't really give af and will bully you to raise their own status.

If this doesn't work then move schools. These are your only two options.
Yeah don't do this op, This is a surefire way to make you look even more like an incel loser.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 21716, lilhorizontal32, looksseg and 3 others
Best advice is probably get big and get good at a sport.

Maybe beat up one of the guys in that group.
 
Yeah don't do this op, This is a surefire way to make you look even more like an incel loser.

Normies are liberal and anti-bullying, my idea would probably work. Everyone else just gives useless advice. OP needs to appeal to the foids nurturing of abused animals and retards side, and if that doesn't work then move schools.

"Just go the the gym bro" doesn't fix your bad status with the popular kids. That shit is fucked unless you address it directly at the source.
 
  • JFL
Reactions: lilhorizontal32, looksseg and johncruz12345
Normies are liberal and anti-bullying, my idea would probably work. Everyone else just gives useless advice. OP needs to appeal to the foids nurturing of abused animals and retards side, and if that doesn't work then move schools.

"Just go the the gym bro" doesn't fix your bad status with the popular kids.
It probably won't fix his bad status, but jfl imagining, trying to get pity from some girls will work.

It will just make his reputation worse than it is already.

If your jacked at least you can have a reputation as a guy not to be fucked with.

Lol, you really think going "wah, these kids are bullying me pls help me!" will work? The girls will probably just tell the popular kids what he was saying to them, and that will just embarrass him more.
 
  • +1
Reactions: lilhorizontal32 and horsefacin
its really hard after your being known for being a loser even if ascend people will still remain you what loser you were
 
  • +1
Reactions: horsefacin and blite
Don’t take advice from anyone here remember that 99% of users here are autistic and don’t even have large friend groups.

I used to be in a similar position https://looksmax.org/threads/roasted-in-the-groupchat.337642/

And like someone said it’s easier to move schools than rebuild ur reputation. Only way you can recover is by gaining social currencies like money, looks and status literally the only way essentially either hardcore self improve or move schools
 
  • +1
Reactions: horsefacin and Hmmf
Don’t take advice from anyone here remember that 99% of users here are autistic and don’t even have large friend groups.

I used to be in a similar position https://looksmax.org/threads/roasted-in-the-groupchat.337642/

And like someone said it’s easier to move schools than rebuild ur reputation. Only way you can recover is by gaining social currencies like money, looks and status literally the only way essentially either hardcore self improve or move schools
Moving wont help. There will always be some nigga who will have mutuals from his old school and pass the rumors around, which is the worst experience any kid could receive and will rot in OP's brain emasculating him in the long run.

Considering OP is a social guy, he can either find the right opportunity to regain his status (I don't like this but this is usually how NPC's behave as they view life as some cringe soap drama) or OP has to get big and/or beat the shit out of nigga talking shit about him. I had a similar situation to you muppets and being a tolerant faggot to that shit didnt help and only made me unnecessarily angry through my school years.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Solar and horsefacin
Moving wont help. There will always be some nigga who will have mutuals from his old school and pass the rumors around, which is the worst experience any kid could receive and will rot in OP's brain emasculating him in the long run.

Considering OP is a social guy, he can either find the right opportunity to regain his status (I don't like this but this is usually how NPC's behave as they view life as some cringe soap drama) or OP has to get big and/or beat the shit out of nigga talking shit about him. I had a similar situation to you muppets and being a tolerant faggot to that shit didnt help and only made me unnecessarily angry through my school years.
You’re retarded if you think beating them up will resolve the situation OP said he’s against the whole school does he have to beat up the whole fucking school too?

It doesn’t matter if the kids have mutuals at the other school, as long as he makes a good first impression the rumours will just stay as rumours. Preferably he should move to a school that’s at least half an hour away from his current one.

If you can’t fucking tolerate it Mog them to death
 
  • +1
Reactions: lilhorizontal32 and horsefacin
I want you to actually listen to what I'm going to tell you as I'm a junior in hs going to senior year who was/sort of still is in your shoes. If you read my only post on this forum, you will see that when I was a freshman/sophmore, I was an overweight class clown who was never accepted and used for comedy purposes. The first half of high school, I was known as the goofy loser who had 2 friends or so and girls laughed at me. I even tried making alt snapchat accts to add girls who blocked me on my main. Actual loser shit. I always wanted to be the chad of my school but I didn't even play a sport or any actvity. So me at the time being 15 like you, said by 16/junior year, I'm going to try to ascend as hard as possible over the summer so the girls who rejected me regret not giving me a chance. I did a bit of it(not to the fullest extent though) by getting to a lower body fat, growing my hair out and finding the style and there are huge pros & cons to ascending later down in hs when your early years sucked. Starting off with the pros, everyone tells you that you seem different, "so much better", good looking, cute, hot , etc. There will be girls who will give you interest and be open to talk to you now and flirt. I hadn't had my real close love with a girl til 16, the age I started looksmaxxing. But, there is where a con may fall in as well. There are going to be girls who will still see you as the same loser you previously looked like and not willing to give you a chance. It will be harder for you but you can find a girl who likes you and ignores the hate and shitty reputatuion you have/had if you do a true 180 and ascend. You do have to pick yourself up significantly though. It is truly harder for you if you came off as a coward or the loser earlier on in school but I advise you looksmax to the fullest extent and sportmaxx and people will notice the change. Start now, still isn't too late.
 
  • +1
Reactions: lilhorizontal32 and horsefacin
First I'd try confronting the females in the group (maybe through text or any other digital medium) and asking them why they harass and bully you even though you did nothing to them. Tell them specifically what they did and tell them they are making your life bad and hurting you for no reason and they may have empathy, especially the foids of the group. I know it sounds insane but females legit have empathy for victims, it's why they care for abused animals and retarded people/cripples so much while men dgaf. They have empathy for the weak and vulnerable since it's in their DNA to be nurturing. Men don't really give af and will bully you to raise their own status.

If this doesn't work then move schools. These are your only two options.
Don't do that. Ever. It's gonna make you look weak.

Ignore them, Get good grades, lookamax, join a club... you're gonna ascend this year and the last year you'll slay. + college will be a new beginning.
 
  • +1
Reactions: lilhorizontal32
I have a really shit reputation with the popular kids in my HS. I'm 15 and in 10th grade, but its nearing the end of this year so im pretty much in 11th. I only really have 2yrs left to ascend before uni. It all started in 9th grade with an ex friend who I knew since elementary school talking shit about me cause he ascended (he used to be a loser incel like me). Then people just started to jump on the train of hating me.

I'm not known as a rapist murderer or wtv but if my name is brought up its definitely not gonna be in a positive light. Its like a word with a negative connotation basically.

What can I do at this point? Every time im looking for a foid to hit up and I check her mutuals and get pissed off when I see that the dickheads who look down on me are mutuals with her cause if I even do succeed a little bit she'll ask around and get told dumb shit about me. Its not just paranoia either man, people have hidden me from their stories and won't accept my follow request if I decide to refollow them (I purged my list about a year ago). People really aren't willing to let this shit go.
Nothing. It’s over
 
Just looksmax as much as you can and get a good physique so nobody can fuck with you.
It doesn’t matter what they about you if you mog them.

How tall are you btw?
 
change schools
 
You’re retarded if you think beating them up will resolve the situation OP said he’s against the whole school does he have to beat up the whole fucking school too?

It doesn’t matter if the kids have mutuals at the other school, as long as he makes a good first impression the rumours will just stay as rumours. Preferably he should move to a school that’s at least half an hour away from his current one.

If you can’t fucking tolerate it Mog them to death
I was talking to a femcel friend whose nice to me and she told me something similar. Though I dont think im charismatic or NT enough to overcome these to new ppl I meet jfl
 
5'10

cali
Hit the gym and focus on looksmaxxing, they’ll have no choice but to respect you if you mog them.

And unless you’re an early pubertycel your projected height is 6’0 to 6’2 so just ignore those faggots and focus on improving yourself
 
really tho do u think it would be better to have a shit reputation or not be known for anything at all
better to not be known, therefore your able to reform a new reputation. aside from whjat bluepillers say, being hated and being at the bottom IS the worst.
 
I want you to actually listen to what I'm going to tell you as I'm a junior in hs going to senior year who was/sort of still is in your shoes. If you read my only post on this forum, you will see that when I was a freshman/sophmore, I was an overweight class clown who was never accepted and used for comedy purposes. The first half of high school, I was known as the goofy loser who had 2 friends or so and girls laughed at me. I even tried making alt snapchat accts to add girls who blocked me on my main. Actual loser shit. I always wanted to be the chad of my school but I didn't even play a sport or any actvity. So me at the time being 15 like you, said by 16/junior year, I'm going to try to ascend as hard as possible over the summer so the girls who rejected me regret not giving me a chance. I did a bit of it(not to the fullest extent though) by getting to a lower body fat, growing my hair out and finding the style and there are huge pros & cons to ascending later down in hs when your early years sucked. Starting off with the pros, everyone tells you that you seem different, "so much better", good looking, cute, hot , etc. There will be girls who will give you interest and be open to talk to you now and flirt. I hadn't had my real close love with a girl til 16, the age I started looksmaxxing. But, there is where a con may fall in as well. There are going to be girls who will still see you as the same loser you previously looked like and not willing to give you a chance. It will be harder for you but you can find a girl who likes you and ignores the hate and shitty reputatuion you have/had if you do a true 180 and ascend. You do have to pick yourself up significantly though. It is truly harder for you if you came off as a coward or the loser earlier on in school but I advise you looksmax to the fullest extent and sportmaxx and people will notice the change. Start now, still isn't too late.
this is probably the best advice you can take here.
Hit the gym and focus on looksmaxxing, they’ll have no choice but to respect you if you mog them.

And unless you’re an early pubertycel your projected height is 6’0 to 6’2 so just ignore those faggots and focus on improving yourself
^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
 
  • +1
Reactions: horsefacin and Deleted member 20631
Normies are liberal and anti-bullying, my idea would probably work. Everyone else just gives useless advice. OP needs to appeal to the foids nurturing of abused animals and retards side, and if that doesn't work then move schools.

"Just go the the gym bro" doesn't fix your bad status with the popular kids. That shit is fucked unless you address it directly at the source.
Normies are not anti bullying.
 
this is probably the best advice you can take here.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
fwiw i get a lot of compliments about my physique from guys only tho. Like i said I have a decent amount of friends but all the popular asian kids ducking hate me for no reason. I’m grateful for my friends and associates but I would kill niggas to be liked by the popular kids
 
Try to get a better reputation in college.
 
  • +1
Reactions: Deleted member 22354
Get into a fight with one of your enemies and win.
 

Similar threads

4knorking
Replies
3
Views
108
jallrd
J
Filipinocel
Replies
4
Views
95
Filipinocel
Filipinocel
whitewashedspic
Replies
18
Views
214
iblame__chico
iblame__chico
S
Replies
8
Views
116
canthus
canthus

Users who are viewing this thread

Back
Top