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There are tons of guides on how to improve your appearance, how to approach girls, and how to fuck as many girls as possible. But for me, a man's long-term goal should be to find a girl who is LTR material. This guide is based on my experiences, trying to find a girl who is LTR material in an era where the culture of hookups, social validation, and feminism has led to the degeneration of values.
This guide isn't for subhumans who settle; it's for men with high standards.
1. The search must start on Instagram. You can easily meet a girl in person, but once you've exchanged Instagrams and see she's following 1000 shirtless men, what's the point of committing and moving forward? So I'll skip the in-person approach. This guide is designed to help you find a woman who still retains a semblance of innocence and purity, because I mean... who would want to be with a girl who's completely devoted to you but has also given herself to other people without even having a relationship? It makes no sense. But as I said, the search starts on Instagram. Avoid Tinder and dating apps entirely, because a woman on Tinder is either horny or looking for validation. And in either case, she's not LTR material.
2. How do you find a girl to LTR on IG? Here we get to the crux of the question: obviously, I'll assume you're at least LHTN. First, unfollow all those sluts who post half-naked photos. This has two advantages: You narrow down your search, and when you finally find the girl from LTR and she checks her followers, she won't see that you're a pathetic, low-inhibition man who follows every living slut like 90% of men.
3. Only follow girls who don't follow more than 1000 people. A girl who isn't seeking attention doesn't need to follow that many people. Ideally, she should have fewer than 700 followers and 500 followers. Obviously, if she has 300 followers and 250 of them are men, remove her; that's a red flag.
4. Check their TikTok profiles when you think you're dealing with a girl from LTR. Usually (and I emphasize "usually") these types of girls have a fairly minimal Instagram profile, with few photos, few stories, and they seem very reserved. Their TikTok profile usually reflects this, but what you should check are the reposts. They'll already tell you what kind of person she is. It's pointless for me to tell you that if she reposts half-naked men, she's a no-go anyway (high libido -> slutty mentality).
5. FORGET SOME THINGS YOU'VE READ ON THIS FORUM. You've probably read the phrase "if she doesn't have sex with you on the first date, she doesn't really want you" a million times. This doesn't apply to all women, especially the ones I'm talking about in this guide. Ideally, you should find a virgin, so it seems obvious to me that you can't expect her to have sex with you on the first date. If she's not a virgin, I don't think it makes sense to invest in her long-term. But if you're not looking for a virgin, but rather a decent girl who's had, say, one relationship, know that she'll never give it to you on the first date, not even if you're a chad. Expecting immediate sex with this type of girl will obviously push them away. This guide is specifically for finding these types of women, those who make up the 10-20% of the population. I doubt you'll ever want to tell your kids you fucked their mother the first time you met.
If all this really does seem like LTR material, then you can go ahead and contact her, but be careful: avoid cold-calling them. In fact, I recommend not even liking their stories before contacting them, and avoid games like adding them as a close friend. I think the best approach with these girls is to simply reply to a story. I don't recommend liking their stories for the simple reason that they won't like you back, thankfully. Who wants to date a girl who likes your stories like she's liked others before you? These types of girls have the highest libido, so they're best avoided.
Obviously, if she exhibits all the aforementioned characteristics of a LTR girl, but then you learn of a promiscuous past, don't continue. She's a fake saint; you'll never see her truly clean, trust me. I have also had experiences with this type of women, I could make a separate guide about it. This is a short guide that summarizes the main aspects to find a girl who is ltr material via ig, but I could go into more detail.
This guide isn't for subhumans who settle; it's for men with high standards.
1. The search must start on Instagram. You can easily meet a girl in person, but once you've exchanged Instagrams and see she's following 1000 shirtless men, what's the point of committing and moving forward? So I'll skip the in-person approach. This guide is designed to help you find a woman who still retains a semblance of innocence and purity, because I mean... who would want to be with a girl who's completely devoted to you but has also given herself to other people without even having a relationship? It makes no sense. But as I said, the search starts on Instagram. Avoid Tinder and dating apps entirely, because a woman on Tinder is either horny or looking for validation. And in either case, she's not LTR material.
2. How do you find a girl to LTR on IG? Here we get to the crux of the question: obviously, I'll assume you're at least LHTN. First, unfollow all those sluts who post half-naked photos. This has two advantages: You narrow down your search, and when you finally find the girl from LTR and she checks her followers, she won't see that you're a pathetic, low-inhibition man who follows every living slut like 90% of men.
3. Only follow girls who don't follow more than 1000 people. A girl who isn't seeking attention doesn't need to follow that many people. Ideally, she should have fewer than 700 followers and 500 followers. Obviously, if she has 300 followers and 250 of them are men, remove her; that's a red flag.
4. Check their TikTok profiles when you think you're dealing with a girl from LTR. Usually (and I emphasize "usually") these types of girls have a fairly minimal Instagram profile, with few photos, few stories, and they seem very reserved. Their TikTok profile usually reflects this, but what you should check are the reposts. They'll already tell you what kind of person she is. It's pointless for me to tell you that if she reposts half-naked men, she's a no-go anyway (high libido -> slutty mentality).
5. FORGET SOME THINGS YOU'VE READ ON THIS FORUM. You've probably read the phrase "if she doesn't have sex with you on the first date, she doesn't really want you" a million times. This doesn't apply to all women, especially the ones I'm talking about in this guide. Ideally, you should find a virgin, so it seems obvious to me that you can't expect her to have sex with you on the first date. If she's not a virgin, I don't think it makes sense to invest in her long-term. But if you're not looking for a virgin, but rather a decent girl who's had, say, one relationship, know that she'll never give it to you on the first date, not even if you're a chad. Expecting immediate sex with this type of girl will obviously push them away. This guide is specifically for finding these types of women, those who make up the 10-20% of the population. I doubt you'll ever want to tell your kids you fucked their mother the first time you met.
If all this really does seem like LTR material, then you can go ahead and contact her, but be careful: avoid cold-calling them. In fact, I recommend not even liking their stories before contacting them, and avoid games like adding them as a close friend. I think the best approach with these girls is to simply reply to a story. I don't recommend liking their stories for the simple reason that they won't like you back, thankfully. Who wants to date a girl who likes your stories like she's liked others before you? These types of girls have the highest libido, so they're best avoided.
Obviously, if she exhibits all the aforementioned characteristics of a LTR girl, but then you learn of a promiscuous past, don't continue. She's a fake saint; you'll never see her truly clean, trust me. I have also had experiences with this type of women, I could make a separate guide about it. This is a short guide that summarizes the main aspects to find a girl who is ltr material via ig, but I could go into more detail.
