Should I get LL surgery

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Hello,

Should I get LL surgery? I'm 173 cm 29 years old, always felt insecure about my height and depressed about it. Earlier in life I thought as long as I'll become successful and fit it will be OK. Now I'm looking for a relationship and something long term and struggle a lot. Even though I have worked out for almost 10 years and have a 6 figure job. I feel like all the money in the world is pointless when unhappy.

Being short impacts every aspect in life negatively. I thought I would be happy after fixing my eye area with ptosis repair and fat grafting, but I still struggle with insecurity. I feel a little better but not enough. Think being ND affects me the most, what would you do in my situation?

Could get more face surgeries like genio and rhino but not sure if it will do anything to help my insecurities about my height
 
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Hello,

Should I get LL surgery? I'm 173 cm 29 years old, always felt insecure about my height and depressed about it. Earlier in life I thought as long as I'll become successful and fit it will be OK. Now I'm looking for a relationship and something long term and struggle a lot. Even though I have worked out for almost 10 years and have a 6 figure job. I feel like all the money in the world is pointless when unhappy.

Being short impacts every aspect in life negatively. I thought I would be happy after fixing my eye area with ptosis repair and fat grafting, but I still struggle with insecurity. I feel a little better but not enough. Think being ND affects me the most, what would you do in my situation?

Could get more face surgeries like genio and rhino but not sure if it will do anything to help my insecurities about my height
you are the perfect candidate
 
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holy shit this is sad oldcell
 
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just make sure u have an excuse to leave your family for 1 year like migration
 
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Hello,

Should I get LL surgery? I'm 173 cm 29 years old, always felt insecure about my height and depressed about it. Earlier in life I thought as long as I'll become successful and fit it will be OK. Now I'm looking for a relationship and something long term and struggle a lot. Even though I have worked out for almost 10 years and have a 6 figure job. I feel like all the money in the world is pointless when unhappy.

Being short impacts every aspect in life negatively. I thought I would be happy after fixing my eye area with ptosis repair and fat grafting, but I still struggle with insecurity. I feel a little better but not enough. Think being ND affects me the most, what would you do in my situation?

Could get more face surgeries like genio and rhino but not sure if it will do anything to help my insecurities about my height
 
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If you can afford to focus solely on recovery after surgery for a year and not work, then yes
 
might as well get multiple surgeries for your face as well once you're recovering
 
I already talked to my family they only got shocked and said absolutely not they won't allow it 😭 I'm more thinking of them than myself, they told me to get therapy instead.

They said if something happens they can never forgive themselves
 
I want to listen to their advice but at this point it feels like I either move to another country where people are shorter or get LL surgery
 

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