Should I get revenge on this situationship

[dimorphlet]

So I'm currently in a situationship that's lasted a couple months, and yesterday I noticed she randomly added a dude on snap, ig and tiktok. She doesn't have any guys added across multiple platforms except me, and naturally I go and ask her who that was but instead of answering she deflects and says she could be asking that about all the girls i have added on my socials, but she doesn't and therefore I should "mind your own business", and that last time she checked it was an ex (she's referring to how my ex was still added on spotify) which i was completely unaware of and kept telling her that

And after back and forth she tells me it was an old classmate from her middle school who added her on snap and they've been talking since (should've stopped talking atp) but she told me they're "just friends". I apologised to her for unknowingly having my ex still added on spotify which I personally thought wasn't necessary but I just wanted to reassure her, but she wouldn't forgive me and kept being passive aggressive. She moved on from it too fast since and even started laughing at me when I tried to make up for it so now I feel cucked

I'm also in another talking stage recently without her knowing. I have my situationship's nudes and I'm thinking of sending it to her sister out of spite since she moved on from that argument so fast and her ridiculing me just made lose all trust I had in her. i heard it counts as revenge porn which is illegal tho so idk.

for those who dnr: i'm in a situationship, i catch her talking to another dude, i confront her abt it and she deflects and talks about her problems with me, i'm talking to another girl to move on and i'm planning on revenge by sending her nudes to her sister

 

[slaviccartfiend]

if its only a situationship and has been defined that way you have no business asking her who shes adding she has no obligation to tell you and vise versa

 

[volgograd009]

Don't

 

[dimorphlet]

if its only a situationship and has been defined that way you have no business asking her who shes adding she has no obligation to tell you and vise versa

we've set boundaries when it comes to other guys or girls so idk

 

[slaviccartfiend]

we've set boundaries when it comes to other guys or girls so idk

then why isn't it a relationship?

 

[ellisv_0]

So I'm currently in a situationship that's lasted a couple months, and yesterday I noticed she randomly added a dude on snap, ig and tiktok. She doesn't have any guys added across multiple platforms except me, and naturally I go and ask her who that was but instead of answering she deflects and says she could be asking that about all the girls i have added on my socials, but she doesn't and therefore I should "mind your own business", and that last time she checked it was an ex (she's referring to how my ex was still added on spotify) which i was completely unaware of and kept telling her that

And after back and forth she tells me it was an old classmate from her middle school who added her on snap and they've been talking since (should've stopped talking atp) but she told me they're "just friends". I apologised to her for unknowingly having my ex still added on spotify which I personally thought wasn't necessary but I just wanted to reassure her, but she wouldn't forgive me and kept being passive aggressive. She moved on from it too fast since and even started laughing at me when I tried to make up for it so now I feel cucked

I'm also in another talking stage recently without her knowing. I have my situationship's nudes and I'm thinking of sending it to her sister out of spite since she moved on from that argument so fast and her ridiculing me just made lose all trust I had in her. i heard it counts as revenge porn which is illegal tho so idk.

for those who dnr: i'm in a situationship, i catch her talking to another dude, i confront her abt it and she deflects and talks about her problems with me, i'm talking to another girl to move on and i'm planning on revenge by sending her nudes to her sister

dont leak her js talk to the other girl

 

[dimorphlet]

then why isn't it a relationship?

long story short, we met irl but she moved to a different city for a bit and we planned to be together once she's back at the end of this year

 

[slaviccartfiend]

long story short, we met irl but she moved to a different city for a bit and we planned to be together once she's back at the end of this year

be prepared for it to not work out but good luck bro