Should I just admit to my gf that I’m insecure

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Does it make a difference? I don’t really like her so idc if she leaves (though she won’t because she suspects me of cheating (I’m not) but still seems to be affectionate and wants to take my word that I’m not)

but it makes it easier for her to understand why I don’t want to take pics. It’s not even that I’m ugly and I know that bc I’ve had random girls stop me just to tell me I’m gl but it’s just this trauma from being subhuman before that id just prefer to not take any but I feel like that’s very hard to explain to the average person
 
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Does it make a difference? I don’t really like her so idc if she leaves (though she won’t because she suspects me of cheating (I’m not) but still seems to be affectionate and wants to take my word that I’m not)

but it makes it easier for her to understand why I don’t want to take pics. It’s not even that I’m ugly and I know that bc I’ve had random girls stop me just to tell me I’m gl but it’s just this trauma from being subhuman before that id just prefer to not take any but I feel like that’s very hard to explain to the average person
u have a girlfriend, u have no right to post on this site. leave
 
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stop posting about your gf. what if you kill her instead
 
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yea cause then you guys will bond yk
 
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stop posting about your gf. what if you kill her instead
I might as fucking well because of the suffering thinking about this shit brings me
 
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Drop the ltb
 
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u have a girlfriend, u have no right to post on this site. leave
Don’t most guys here have one? This site has become more insecure normies than incels I thought at least in recent months
 
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why not
 
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dont just say outright that ur insecure

but try word it differently
 
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Don’t most guys here have one? This site has become more insecure normies than incels I thought at least in recent months
there are like 3 people here that have a girlfriend
 
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dont just say outright that ur insecure

but try word it differently
I’ve just told her I’m camera shy but was thinking more along the lines of doing steroids and injecting my face with fat dissolvers type admission not just “oh I’m insecure about my looks” cuz isn’t everyone?
 
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I’ve just told her I’m camera shy but was thinking more along the lines of doing steroids and injecting my face with fat dissolvers type admission not just “oh I’m insecure about my looks” cuz isn’t everyone?
talk about the roids but not the fat dissolvers

roids seems more socially acceptable
 
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never open up to a foid
 
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bond about what? him being an insecure gay guy?
well them talking could make them both connect and she would open up as well so they just get to know each other better
 
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gtfo fakecel
 
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well them talking could make them both connect and she would open up as well so they just get to know each other better
buddy a girl knowing that ur insecure is not a good thing, it makes u seem weak & like a loser

this is why you do all of ur surgeries first before you get in a relationship
 
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you'll drop in status infront of her dont do that pwease
 
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buddy a girl knowing that ur insecure is not a good thing, it makes u seem weak & like a loser

this is why you do all of ur surgeries first before you get in a relationship
Surgeries don't change anything, you will still be the same inside
 
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buddy a girl knowing that ur insecure is not a good thing, it makes u seem weak & like a loser

this is why you do all of ur surgeries first before you get in a relationship
well she's not gonna dump him just cause he opens up
 
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Don’t most guys here have one? This site has become more insecure normies than incels I thought at least in recent months
It’s been like that for years this guy is just tryna be edgy
 
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Beat her o aglo.
 
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Surgeries don't change anything, you will still be the same inside
they absolutely change everything

after i get my bimax i will be a thousand times less insecure
 
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Does it make a difference? I don’t really like her so idc if she leaves (though she won’t because she suspects me of cheating (I’m not) but still seems to be affectionate and wants to take my word that I’m not)

but it makes it easier for her to understand why I don’t want to take pics. It’s not even that I’m ugly and I know that bc I’ve had random girls stop me just to tell me I’m gl but it’s just this trauma from being subhuman before that id just prefer to not take any but I feel like that’s very hard to explain to the average person
what kind of shit did you have to pull to go from subhuman (to the point it still haunts you) to getting compliments from random foids?
 
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what kind of shit did you have to pull to go from subhuman (to the point it still haunts you) to getting compliments from random foids?
Well I’m only hmtn max so it’s fairly realistic with fat loss fixing acne scarring/acne shrinking nose better coloring and a dozens of other minor things that added up

I wasn’t obese but was very skinny fat
 
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Does it make a difference? I don’t really like her so idc if she leaves (though she won’t because she suspects me of cheating (I’m not) but still seems to be affectionate and wants to take my word that I’m not)

but it makes it easier for her to understand why I don’t want to take pics. It’s not even that I’m ugly and I know that bc I’ve had random girls stop me just to tell me I’m gl but it’s just this trauma from being subhuman before that id just prefer to not take any but I feel like that’s very hard to explain to the average person
If she really loves you she'll appreciate your honesty. If she doesn't get it i dont think she's the one.
 
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true i didnt think about that
Yes she would prob instead of seeing me as somewhat genetically lucky she will know everything about me is unnatural. My “extremely fast metabolism” my body/frame/vascularity, lips nose philtrum facial/submental leanness. Literally everything
 
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Does it make a difference? I don’t really like her so idc if she leaves (though she won’t because she suspects me of cheating (I’m not) but still seems to be affectionate and wants to take my word that I’m not)

but it makes it easier for her to understand why I don’t want to take pics. It’s not even that I’m ugly and I know that bc I’ve had random girls stop me just to tell me I’m gl but it’s just this trauma from being subhuman before that id just prefer to not take any but I feel like that’s very hard to explain to the average person
not unless ur chad.
if ur not chad and she suspects u of cheating then she is just using that as an excuse to probably break up or make u conpensate
 
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No point in doing so, opening up to a woman is like shooting yourself in the head
 
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yea cause then you guys will bond yk
Not rly cs some women find it icky they just lie saying it's okay and shi they want masculine men eyes don't lie
 
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Not rly cs some women find it icky they just lie saying it's okay and shi they want masculine men eyes don't lie
yeah but tbh i feel like my physical insecurities are going to ruin my current relationship and any future ones i may have. i mean its only a matter of time until i get my needles found or a vial of test or wtv.

in this case my gf is also insecure about herself but still not to the extent i am. like before i last saw her she begged me to let her take a picture of me (she has no pics of me) and i kept refusing and she got really upset since we cant see each other for almost the entire summer. feel like its best to just end things with her and forget relationships as i dont want to hurt people that care more about me than i care about myself
 
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