
zerotohero
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I wrote this message to my ex, someone I hurt a lot in the past. I’m thinking of sending it as my last message before starting no-contact, but I’m not sure if I should. I want it to be sincere and respectful, not to pressure or guilt her.
Here’s the message:
“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.
I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.
I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.
I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.
Thank you for everything.”
Here’s the message:
“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.
I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.
I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.
I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.
Thank you for everything.”