Should I send this final apology message to my ex?

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I wrote this message to my ex, someone I hurt a lot in the past. I’m thinking of sending it as my last message before starting no-contact, but I’m not sure if I should. I want it to be sincere and respectful, not to pressure or guilt her.

Here’s the message:

“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.

I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.

I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.

I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.

Thank you for everything.”
 
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Dnr, sexhaver. :feelswhat:
 
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I wrote this message to my ex, someone I hurt a lot in the past. I’m thinking of sending it as my last message before starting no-contact, but I’m not sure if I should. I want it to be sincere and respectful, not to pressure or guilt her.

Here’s the message:

“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.

I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.

I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.

I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.

Thank you for everything.”
No just write nothing and block her
 
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I wrote this message to my ex, someone I hurt a lot in the past. I’m thinking of sending it as my last message before starting no-contact, but I’m not sure if I should. I want it to be sincere and respectful, not to pressure or guilt her.

Here’s the message:

“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.

I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.

I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.

I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.

Thank you for everything.”
Dont be so sentimental, she left you dawg its joever
 
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Send the Rick Roll gif and block
 
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JFL low test I haven't texted my ex oneitis and she message requested me on tiktok
 
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I wrote this message to my ex, someone I hurt a lot in the past. I’m thinking of sending it as my last message before starting no-contact, but I’m not sure if I should. I want it to be sincere and respectful, not to pressure or guilt her.

Here’s the message:

“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.

I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.

I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.

I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.

Thank you for everything.”
Sounds too poetic for apology letter but whatever keeps your mind calm man :feelshah: If you know you will regret in future if you don't do this, then do this. No need for other peoples opinion :feelsez:
 
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Trying to return relationship after breaking up is low T
 
I wrote this message to my ex, someone I hurt a lot in the past. I’m thinking of sending it as my last message before starting no-contact, but I’m not sure if I should. I want it to be sincere and respectful, not to pressure or guilt her.

Here’s the message:

“This is my last message. I just wanted to sincerely apologize for everything I did and for not being the partner you deserved. I was an idiot. My coldness and mistakes, especially seeking comfort where I shouldn’t have, hurt you, and I take full responsibility.

I want to remember the good. I will never forget June 28, the excitement of seeing you that kept me almost awake, and every moment we shared. You were my mirror and showed me my flaws, but above all, you taught me something unforgettable: your light. What you said, that those with their own light cast no shadow and can illuminate others, is etched in my memory. What you taught me with your words I will always carry with me.

I hope you always keep shining. That you publish your poetry, laugh until your stomach hurts, and, if you want, achieve your dream of becoming the amazing mother I know you can be.

I say goodbye with all my stored affection and immense gratitude for having known you.

Thank you for everything.”
All you are doing by writing this is opening more possibilities with her. Not closing things off. Just block her
 
All you are doing by writing this is opening more possibilities with her. Not closing things off. Just block her
Are you sure? Do you think I still have chances with her, even if she’s now on a rebound relationship.
 
Are you sure? Do you think I still have chances with her, even if she’s now on a rebound relationship.
Depends how she perceives the message. Might get nostalgic and miss you and wanna get back. The shit you wrote seems really personal.
 

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