Should I try again with this girl?

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FOR CONTEXT
Me and her used to talk, she calls herself a weirdo (she is weird but like good/hot weird), we went out on one date, kissed, talked for 2 more weeks, she randomly ghosted me for several months, she unblocked my IG then I blocked her because I just really didn't want to talk to her, then a month or so later (≈12 hours ago) she unblocks adds my Snapchat account.

What happened?
I ask her why she left for so long and she responded with "If you want my honest opinion I was low-key scared to talk to guys nor did I know how to talk to guys. I do apologize for just randomly blocking you I should have given you an explanation. I was honestly just scared." BUT the only hiccup in her response was the fact she had a prom date during those months of me being blocked and continued talking to bro after prom. But apparently according to her they only talked for a couple of days and she cut it off because her and his friends wanted them to get together more than she wanted to get with him.

Why's she back?
I then asked her why she's back all of a sudden and after so long, she said "I wanted to try and regain the connection we had. I feel more confident with myself if that makes sense. If you do not like the idea of that let me know." I told her that I want to try it too but I won't be very trustworthy off rip and asked her again why she blocked me and a very unexpected answer came by, "I started to catch feelings a little faster than I thought I would and it low-key just made me panic a bit that's all and yes I completely understand that."

I said that I do kind of want to try it out again (but I'm pretty cautious because I think she's a lying ass foid) I then tell her what I've been dying to say for so long "We could have just talked about it like mature adults" and then I kinda stopped being locked in 😬
I said "I was falling for you quite fast too, so it devastated me for a bit that it happened the way it did. Especially since like no closure so I was stuck thinking I did something horrible and was so desperate to find out what I did that made you block me. I never found out. But OH MY GOD did I try to fix it."
She responded with, "I apologize for making you feel that way." Then she apologized for ghosting me after I told her that I wanted her to apologize for ghosting me.

WHY CHOOSE ME OF ALL PEOPLE?
"Why me though?"

"You're weird"
"Perfect"
"Maybe we can be weirdos together — Depends how it rolls out though"
"
Indeed"

I want to believe her, but she DID build Lego flowers with the guy and that's just not something that you usually do with someone after meeting them within a few days. Her story seems almost believable but if I'm wrong about believing her then I'm basically a cuck because she went out and probably got cracked by bro.

TLDR
"Why you back foid?"
"Im sorry Chad I'm scared of talking to guys."
"Didn't you have a prom date though"
"Yeah"
"Why actually block me?"
"I was scared that I was catching feelings too fast and want to try again"
"Uhh okay but I won't be trusting you off rip"
"It's okay I understand"
*
Enter affectionate moment here*



I want to believe she does actually like me but something seems superficial but I can't put my finger on it... Or I'm just really paranoid.


So should I let this Lmtb foid back into my life?
Please tell your thoughts and ways you would handle the scenario, thank you.
 
Dnr
 
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Didn't even write the tales yourself you let chatgpt write them for you huh
 
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FOR CONTEXT
Me and her used to talk, she calls herself a weirdo (she is weird but like good/hot weird), we went out on one date, kissed, talked for 2 more weeks, she randomly ghosted me for several months, she unblocked my IG then I blocked her because I just really didn't want to talk to her, then a month or so later (≈12 hours ago) she unblocks adds my Snapchat account.

What happened?
I ask her why she left for so long and she responded with "If you want my honest opinion I was low-key scared to talk to guys nor did I know how to talk to guys. I do apologize for just randomly blocking you I should have given you an explanation. I was honestly just scared." BUT the only hiccup in her response was the fact she had a prom date during those months of me being blocked and continued talking to bro after prom. But apparently according to her they only talked for a couple of days and she cut it off because her and his friends wanted them to get together more than she wanted to get with him.

Why's she back?
I then asked her why she's back all of a sudden and after so long, she said "I wanted to try and regain the connection we had. I feel more confident with myself if that makes sense. If you do not like the idea of that let me know." I told her that I want to try it too but I won't be very trustworthy off rip and asked her again why she blocked me and a very unexpected answer came by, "I started to catch feelings a little faster than I thought I would and it low-key just made me panic a bit that's all and yes I completely understand that."

I said that I do kind of want to try it out again (but I'm pretty cautious because I think she's a lying ass foid) I then tell her what I've been dying to say for so long "We could have just talked about it like mature adults" and then I kinda stopped being locked in 😬
I said "I was falling for you quite fast too, so it devastated me for a bit that it happened the way it did. Especially since like no closure so I was stuck thinking I did something horrible and was so desperate to find out what I did that made you block me. I never found out. But OH MY GOD did I try to fix it."
She responded with, "I apologize for making you feel that way." Then she apologized for ghosting me after I told her that I wanted her to apologize for ghosting me.

WHY CHOOSE ME OF ALL PEOPLE?
"Why me though?"

"You're weird"
"Perfect"
"Maybe we can be weirdos together — Depends how it rolls out though"
"
Indeed"

I want to believe her, but she DID build Lego flowers with the guy and that's just not something that you usually do with someone after meeting them within a few days. Her story seems almost believable but if I'm wrong about believing her then I'm basically a cuck because she went out and probably got cracked by bro.

TLDR
"Why you back foid?"
"Im sorry Chad I'm scared of talking to guys."
"Didn't you have a prom date though"
"Yeah"
"Why actually block me?"
"I was scared that I was catching feelings too fast and want to try again"
"Uhh okay but I won't be trusting you off rip"
"It's okay I understand"
*
Enter affectionate moment here*



I want to believe she does actually like me but something seems superficial but I can't put my finger on it... Or I'm just really paranoid.


So should I let this Lmtb foid back into my life?
Please tell your thoughts and ways you would handle the scenario, thank you.
Dnr but the context told me all i needed to know, don't take her back
 

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FOR CONTEXT
Me and her used to talk, she calls herself a weirdo (she is weird but like good/hot weird), we went out on one date, kissed, talked for 2 more weeks, she randomly ghosted me for several months, she unblocked my IG then I blocked her because I just really didn't want to talk to her, then a month or so later (≈12 hours ago) she unblocks adds my Snapchat account.

What happened?
I ask her why she left for so long and she responded with "If you want my honest opinion I was low-key scared to talk to guys nor did I know how to talk to guys. I do apologize for just randomly blocking you I should have given you an explanation. I was honestly just scared." BUT the only hiccup in her response was the fact she had a prom date during those months of me being blocked and continued talking to bro after prom. But apparently according to her they only talked for a couple of days and she cut it off because her and his friends wanted them to get together more than she wanted to get with him.

Why's she back?
I then asked her why she's back all of a sudden and after so long, she said "I wanted to try and regain the connection we had. I feel more confident with myself if that makes sense. If you do not like the idea of that let me know." I told her that I want to try it too but I won't be very trustworthy off rip and asked her again why she blocked me and a very unexpected answer came by, "I started to catch feelings a little faster than I thought I would and it low-key just made me panic a bit that's all and yes I completely understand that."

I said that I do kind of want to try it out again (but I'm pretty cautious because I think she's a lying ass foid) I then tell her what I've been dying to say for so long "We could have just talked about it like mature adults" and then I kinda stopped being locked in 😬
I said "I was falling for you quite fast too, so it devastated me for a bit that it happened the way it did. Especially since like no closure so I was stuck thinking I did something horrible and was so desperate to find out what I did that made you block me. I never found out. But OH MY GOD did I try to fix it."
She responded with, "I apologize for making you feel that way." Then she apologized for ghosting me after I told her that I wanted her to apologize for ghosting me.

WHY CHOOSE ME OF ALL PEOPLE?
"Why me though?"

"You're weird"
"Perfect"
"Maybe we can be weirdos together — Depends how it rolls out though"
"
Indeed"

I want to believe her, but she DID build Lego flowers with the guy and that's just not something that you usually do with someone after meeting them within a few days. Her story seems almost believable but if I'm wrong about believing her then I'm basically a cuck because she went out and probably got cracked by bro.

TLDR
"Why you back foid?"
"Im sorry Chad I'm scared of talking to guys."
"Didn't you have a prom date though"
"Yeah"
"Why actually block me?"
"I was scared that I was catching feelings too fast and want to try again"
"Uhh okay but I won't be trusting you off rip"
"It's okay I understand"
*
Enter affectionate moment here*



I want to believe she does actually like me but something seems superficial but I can't put my finger on it... Or I'm just really paranoid.


So should I let this Lmtb foid back into my life?
Please tell your thoughts and ways you would handle the scenario, thank you.
niggers dont even know how to talk to a bitch and refer themselves as chad in TLDR , nigger just wasted the perfect opportunity of pump and dump by telling her he was desperate fs she aint letting you hit that shit boyo and she ghosted you because she linked up with a chad and didnt wanted to lose him where he fucked and then dumped her :lul::lul: OVER
 
Dnr but the context told me all i needed to know, don't take her back
Thanks my guy, that's what I was initially thinking too. No contact for FIVE months is kinda crazy fr too
 
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Thanks my guy, that's what I was initially thinking too. No contact for FIVE months is kinda crazy fr too
Exactly you should just flirt with friends and that's it volcel is that way dood:BlushHug:
 
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niggers dont even know how to talk to a bitch and refer themselves as chad in TLDR , nigger just wasted the perfect opportunity of pump and dump by telling her he was desperate fs she aint letting you hit that shit boyo and she ghosted you because she linked up with a chad and didnt wanted to lose him where he fucked and then dumped her :lul::lul: OVER
Pretending to hate women for validation on this forum :feelskek:
 
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niggers dont even know how to talk to a bitch and refer themselves as chad in TLDR , nigger just wasted the perfect opportunity of pump and dump by telling her he was desperate fs she aint letting you hit that shit boyo and she ghosted you because she linked up with a chad and didnt wanted to lose him where he fucked and then dumped her :lul::lul: OVER
Bro literally the TLDR part was satire how was that not obvious my guy

And yes that's what my initial thought was too,Im really cautious of her because of the fact that I think Chad pump and dumped her ass but she kind of kept on saying the right answers and I started believing her a little bit.

ike I'm pretty sure she'll never tell me if that is the case so I'm probably never going to know.
I can still be desperate tho low-key but it's just gonna me larping tbh.
 
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Exactly you should just flirt with friends and that's it volcel is that way dood:BlushHug:
Well I do have this one female friend hmm you might be onto something 🤔
 
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Bro literally the TLDR part was satire how was that not obvious my guy

And yes that's what my initial thought was too,Im really cautious of her because of the fact that I think Chad pump and dumped her ass but she kind of kept on saying the right answers and I started believing her a little bit.

ike I'm pretty sure she'll never tell me if that is the case so I'm probably never going to know.
I can still be desperate tho low-key but it's just gonna me larping tbh.
dont fall for a girl dumped by chad these foids are evil
Pretending to hate women for validation on this forum :feelskek:
 
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FOR CONTEXT
Me and her used to talk, she calls herself a weirdo (she is weird but like good/hot weird), we went out on one date, kissed, talked for 2 more weeks, she randomly ghosted me for several months, she unblocked my IG then I blocked her because I just really didn't want to talk to her, then a month or so later (≈12 hours ago) she unblocks adds my Snapchat account.

What happened?
I ask her why she left for so long and she responded with "If you want my honest opinion I was low-key scared to talk to guys nor did I know how to talk to guys. I do apologize for just randomly blocking you I should have given you an explanation. I was honestly just scared." BUT the only hiccup in her response was the fact she had a prom date during those months of me being blocked and continued talking to bro after prom. But apparently according to her they only talked for a couple of days and she cut it off because her and his friends wanted them to get together more than she wanted to get with him.

Why's she back?
I then asked her why she's back all of a sudden and after so long, she said "I wanted to try and regain the connection we had. I feel more confident with myself if that makes sense. If you do not like the idea of that let me know." I told her that I want to try it too but I won't be very trustworthy off rip and asked her again why she blocked me and a very unexpected answer came by, "I started to catch feelings a little faster than I thought I would and it low-key just made me panic a bit that's all and yes I completely understand that."

I said that I do kind of want to try it out again (but I'm pretty cautious because I think she's a lying ass foid) I then tell her what I've been dying to say for so long "We could have just talked about it like mature adults" and then I kinda stopped being locked in 😬
I said "I was falling for you quite fast too, so it devastated me for a bit that it happened the way it did. Especially since like no closure so I was stuck thinking I did something horrible and was so desperate to find out what I did that made you block me. I never found out. But OH MY GOD did I try to fix it."
She responded with, "I apologize for making you feel that way." Then she apologized for ghosting me after I told her that I wanted her to apologize for ghosting me.

WHY CHOOSE ME OF ALL PEOPLE?
"Why me though?"

"You're weird"
"Perfect"
"Maybe we can be weirdos together — Depends how it rolls out though"
"
Indeed"

I want to believe her, but she DID build Lego flowers with the guy and that's just not something that you usually do with someone after meeting them within a few days. Her story seems almost believable but if I'm wrong about believing her then I'm basically a cuck because she went out and probably got cracked by bro.

TLDR
"Why you back foid?"
"Im sorry Chad I'm scared of talking to guys."
"Didn't you have a prom date though"
"Yeah"
"Why actually block me?"
"I was scared that I was catching feelings too fast and want to try again"
"Uhh okay but I won't be trusting you off rip"
"It's okay I understand"
*
Enter affectionate moment here*



I want to believe she does actually like me but something seems superficial but I can't put my finger on it... Or I'm just really paranoid.


So should I let this Lmtb foid back into my life?
Please tell your thoughts and ways you would handle the scenario, thank you.
DNR nigaa we ain't here to make you guys fck in bed
 
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Dnr but if you're asking this here you already know the answer
 
Dnr but if you're asking this here you already know the answer
I feel like I can't say shitty things about a girl anywhere else and not get instantly bashed and maybe some would actually like to see why I said such a thing.

The fact that I brought up being a cuck from a girl leaving, getting with another guy possibly, and coming back and no one batted an eye is what I like about here

But yeah. I probably should block her like she did me.
 
Try to be clingy and shit with her, thank me later:feelsokman:
I may need more tips on bagging the homegirl, teach me your ways brah
And she already BEEN giving me iois but I don't really know how to respond cuz I'm low-key undiagnosed ND 😬
 
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I feel like I can't say shitty things about a girl anywhere else and not get instantly bashed and maybe some would actually like to see why I said such a thing.

The fact that I brought up being a cuck from a girl leaving, getting with another guy possibly, and coming back and no one batted an eye is what I like about here

But yeah. I probably should block her like she did me.
Yeah you can speak more freely here than typical places. Didn't read the whole post but if she's only seeing you as a last resort option it isn't worth it
 
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Yeah you can speak more freely here than typical places. Didn't read the whole post but if she's only seeing you as a last resort option it isn't worth it
Not to mention people here are much more brutally honest too. You don't get the sugarcoated lie which is what I like too.

Most people on the Internet wouldn't take a look at this post and tell me to my "face" this girl is not worth the effort boyo.
 
FOR CONTEXT
Me and her used to talk, she calls herself a weirdo (she is weird but like good/hot weird), we went out on one date, kissed, talked for 2 more weeks, she randomly ghosted me for several months, she unblocked my IG then I blocked her because I just really didn't want to talk to her, then a month or so later (≈12 hours ago) she unblocks adds my Snapchat account.

What happened?
I ask her why she left for so long and she responded with "If you want my honest opinion I was low-key scared to talk to guys nor did I know how to talk to guys. I do apologize for just randomly blocking you I should have given you an explanation. I was honestly just scared." BUT the only hiccup in her response was the fact she had a prom date during those months of me being blocked and continued talking to bro after prom. But apparently according to her they only talked for a couple of days and she cut it off because her and his friends wanted them to get together more than she wanted to get with him.

Why's she back?
I then asked her why she's back all of a sudden and after so long, she said "I wanted to try and regain the connection we had. I feel more confident with myself if that makes sense. If you do not like the idea of that let me know." I told her that I want to try it too but I won't be very trustworthy off rip and asked her again why she blocked me and a very unexpected answer came by, "I started to catch feelings a little faster than I thought I would and it low-key just made me panic a bit that's all and yes I completely understand that."

I said that I do kind of want to try it out again (but I'm pretty cautious because I think she's a lying ass foid) I then tell her what I've been dying to say for so long "We could have just talked about it like mature adults" and then I kinda stopped being locked in 😬
I said "I was falling for you quite fast too, so it devastated me for a bit that it happened the way it did. Especially since like no closure so I was stuck thinking I did something horrible and was so desperate to find out what I did that made you block me. I never found out. But OH MY GOD did I try to fix it."
She responded with, "I apologize for making you feel that way." Then she apologized for ghosting me after I told her that I wanted her to apologize for ghosting me.

WHY CHOOSE ME OF ALL PEOPLE?
"Why me though?"

"You're weird"
"Perfect"
"Maybe we can be weirdos together — Depends how it rolls out though"
"
Indeed"

I want to believe her, but she DID build Lego flowers with the guy and that's just not something that you usually do with someone after meeting them within a few days. Her story seems almost believable but if I'm wrong about believing her then I'm basically a cuck because she went out and probably got cracked by bro.

TLDR
"Why you back foid?"
"Im sorry Chad I'm scared of talking to guys."
"Didn't you have a prom date though"
"Yeah"
"Why actually block me?"
"I was scared that I was catching feelings too fast and want to try again"
"Uhh okay but I won't be trusting you off rip"
"It's okay I understand"
*
Enter affectionate moment here*



I want to believe she does actually like me but something seems superficial but I can't put my finger on it... Or I'm just really paranoid.


So should I let this Lmtb foid back into my life?
Please tell your thoughts and ways you would handle the scenario, thank you.

If she isnt attracted 100% from the start and IS bitching around, fuck her and ignore

Its full attraction or nothing
 
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I may need more tips on bagging the homegirl, teach me your ways brah
And she already BEEN giving me iois but I don't really know how to respond cuz I'm low-key undiagnosed ND 😬
Nigga nothing much i can do for you if you're a retard when talking:feelswah:
 

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