should I try ltr someone

[Jatt]

instead of finding a hookups all the time should I try ltr a ltb or something

Pros	Cons
free and multiple times sex	buy her stuff food etc
-	spend time with her
	risk of cheating/being cukholded

I cant think of any other pros

knowing me my mental health would be even worse cuz ill be paranoid 24/7 that she is cheating

 

[Jatt]

instead of finding a hookups all the time should I try ltr a ltb or something

Pros	Cons
free and multiple times sex	buy her stuff food etc
-	spend time with her
	risk of cheating/being cukholded

I cant think of any other pros

knowing me my mental health would be even worse cuz ill be paranoid 24/7 that she is cheating

@Corleone need unc advice

 

[Deleted member 16203]

LTR only works if you actually enjoy spending time with the girl and aren't annoyed by her. Do you have one like that in your immediate environment?

90% of the women I've been with got on my nerves within 20-30 minutes of my nutting, so they were disqualified from a potential LTR immediately.

Also, what would you change about your approach if you were to look for a LTR instead? Aren't most LTR just naturally evolving out of normal dating that you are engaging with right now anyway?

 

[Jatt]

LTR only works if you actually enjoy spending time with the girl and aren't annoyed by her. Do you have one like that in your immediate environment?

90% of the women I've been with got on my nerves within 20-30 minutes of my nutting, so they were disqualified from a potential LTR immediately.

Nah I think I just need a roster but it’s hard man I get no matches

what I meant was should I switch to finding a long term partner on tinder etc and start going on dates or just fuck straight away

Cuz I just can’t fathom that guys out there go on a date and fuck on the first date like how does that work

 

[Deleted member 16203]

what I meant was should I switch to finding a long term partner on tinder etc and start going on dates or just fuck straight away

huh, bhai, you've been sabotaging yourself. You have to be at least Chadlite to immediately demand sex from decent-looking women and get away with it.

I always tell women I'm looking for a relationship if we vibe, even though I'm only out there to pipe most of the time. Dates can be fun, why wouldn't you go on them?

Cuz I just can’t fathom that guys out there go on a date and fuck on the first date like how does that work

Literally what I do on about 70-80% of my first dates. Have a nice little date, then go have sex the same day. way less cringe than immediately getting naked with a stranger, too.

 

[Jatt]

I always tell women I'm looking for a relationship if we vibe, even though I'm only out there to pipe most of the time. Dates can be fun, why wouldn't you go on them?

Literally, what I do on about 70-80% of my first dates. Have a nice little date, then go have sex the same day. way less cringe than immediately getting naked with a stranger too.

I just don’t go out as much I probably should

But no just the like escalation I struggle with

Like where to take her on a date

Then how to escalate to fucking

 

[Deleted member 16203]

I just don’t go out as much I probably should

you should, bro. Dates at my age are insanely cringe, make the most of the time while you're still young, and while dates don't feel like a job interview.

But no just the like escalation I struggle with

You'll learn it. Start touching her arm if you laugh together, and when you're teasing her. Go for the kiss when you feel like the date went well.

Like where to take her on a date

I can help you, bhai. let me know.

Then how to escalate to fucking

I can help you, bhai. let me know.

 

[Jatt]

you should, bro. Dates at my age are insanely cringe, make the most of the time while you're still young, and while dates don't feel like a job interview.

You'll learn it. Start touching her arm if you laugh together, and when you're teasing her. Go for the kiss when you feel like the date went well.

I can help you, bhai. let me know.

I can help you, bhai. let me know.

alright suggest date ideas

Like at McDonald’s etc or straight at her house the movies??

Like let’s say we eat at McDonald’s then would I take her back to my house?

 

[Deleted member 16203]

alright suggest date ideas

Like at McDonald’s etc or straight at her house the movies??

Like let’s say we eat at McDonald’s then would I take her back to my house?

depends, how old are you, again?

 

[Jatt]

depends, how old are you, again?

20

 

[Deleted member 16203]

20

Drinking age is 21, where you're at, right?

 

[Jatt]

Drinking age is 21, where you're at, right?

I think it’s 18 here Canada

 

[Deleted member 16203]

I think it’s 18 here Canada

Movie theaters, going for a walk in the city while picking up a cocktail/wine to go from a bar, going to a nice park, watching the stars at a nice spot are all good options.

Then making out in the car and asking them if they want to come back your place or, like I do, fuck them right in the car and then drop them back off at their house.

even though I love Mcdonalds, it seems a bit low-class and what teenagers aged 14 to 16 year old would enjoy.


I've had plenty of women who were realistically out of my league tell me I was the first guy who took them on a proper date, which resulted in me smashing way above my lookslevel, even while not giving them the LTR they wanted.

 

[Deleted member 16203]

@Jatt did you always try to get all the women you've talked to from dating apps to straight up come over to your house to fuck without meeting them beforehand?

 

[Jatt]

@Jatt did you always try to get all the women you've talked to from dating apps to straight up come over to your house to fuck without meeting them beforehand?

bruh barely anyone responds anyway after I say "hey"

a girl came over straight away once the mullata but now she says take me on a date

a filipino one coming straight over soon

basically Im a scrap collector and I swipe right on every girl and hope the ugly ones want me so they will want to fuck straight away

 

[Deleted member 16203]

bruh barely anyone responds anyway after I say "hey"

a girl came over straight away once the mullata but now she says take me on a date

a filipino one coming straight over soon

basically Im a scrap collector and I swipe right on every girl and hope the ugly ones want me so they will want to fuck straight away

fair, I wouldn't put in all that effort for uggos either.

You have to feel them out through text if they'd be willing to come over to fuck without a date or if they want one first.

For the better-looking ones, if they aren't extremely responsive to sexual remarks, I'd probably plan a date, and make some suggestive jokes so she subconsciously knows that you want to have sex after the date. If she shows up, she's likely to fuck you.

 

[Geoff2024]

instead of finding a hookups all the time should I try ltr a ltb or something

Pros	Cons
free and multiple times sex	buy her stuff food etc
-	spend time with her
	risk of cheating/being cukholded

I cant think of any other pros

knowing me my mental health would be even worse cuz ill be paranoid 24/7 that she is cheating

its harder than you think bhai, its harder than hookups