Should you ever date a woman you aren’t really attracted to?

[enchanted_elixir]

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

 

[Swarthy Knight]

No you shouldn't. Unless you're really attracted to her in some other way (her personality or whatever). But I'm KHHV so what do I know

 

[EvilSatanArseRapist]

No, sou should not. The goalmismamprosperous ltr, this isn't the way to achieve it.

 

[aidenltn17]

no,
I tried being together with some ethnic mtb after my ex gf cheated on me and it was just so annoying. I was not attracted to her at all but was yearning for love. ended badly to say the least

 

[enchanted_elixir]

no,
I tried being together with some ethnic mtb after my ex gf cheated on me and it was just so annoying. I was not attracted to her at all but was yearning for love. ended badly to say the least

Mind telling me more about it?

What was the dynamic like and how did you see her throughout the course of the relationship.

 

[BeanCelll]

Only as a last resort to procreate

When the time to settle down comes I think most just choose the most viable option at that time anyways, don't think most people getting engaged give a shit about some disney tale style love anymore.

Anything else and it's too much of a hassle regardless of what good comes out of it

 

[Sektor]

I've had the experience its tiring you fake everything and even sex you dont enjoy you dont think horny thoughts you just regret everything

 

[One Rep Max]

Date no smash yes

 

[enchanted_elixir]

no,
I tried being together with some ethnic mtb after my ex gf cheated on me and it was just so annoying. I was not attracted to her at all but was yearning for love. ended badly to say the least

Do you think you should only date women you think are hot or do you think making sure you think she’s good looking enough so that you subjectively think she’s like a 6/10, like above average.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I've had the experience its tiring you fake everything and even sex you dont enjoy you dont think horny thoughts you just regret everything

Thank you for your response!

What was the dynamic like, what did you think of here though out thr relationship, what did she think of you throughout the relationship. How did it end?

Do you think you should find your potential mate to be hot (strictly what you like), or good looking enough so that you actually want to engage with them?

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Yes it really is experience. You get more comfortable in a relationship environment and learning how to navigate somebody being close to you and flirting. As long as you keep it 100 and don’t lie to the girl if she says she loves you, it’s not evil. Maybe dating her opens up her friends for play.

On the other side though, hurting somebody who has real feelings for you is a horrible hit on your soul, provided you have one. If you really don’t want to hurt this girl then reconsider, a relationship can be the most painful thing somebody goes through.

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

I've had the experience its tiring you fake everything and even sex you dont enjoy you dont think horny thoughts you just regret everything

Well that’s where the eyes closed method comes in

 

[Sovvton]

short term relationship/fwb? go for it

actually date? depends

if you're planning on genuinely dating her with good intentions then ig its good for experience and (im assuming) you mog her so she'll put you on a pedestal. outside of that theres not many upsides.

if you're planning on being a scumbag while dating her then its not a bad method, the shit about girls popping up out of nowhere the second you get in a relationship is lowkey true and you can just cheat on her at any opportunity.

not only that but you'll get even more play whenever other girls see you with your gf whos not that gl, and they'll subconsciously get jealous then try to get you. this happens irl as well as over stuff like ig.

its also good for social currency, and whenever you get back home from a long night at the club, even if you didn't get to slay you'll have someone waiting at home.

not to mention you can do all this shit while still getting the only two clear benefits of dating her ethically.

just my thots tho

 

[Sektor]

Well that’s where the eyes closed method comes in

Doesn't work u still feel everything her touch and everything

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Doesn't work u still feel everything her touch and everything

Is she fat asf or something jfl

 

[aidenltn17]

Mind telling me more about it?

What was the dynamic like and how did you see her throughout the course of the relationship.

she was very nice until the end, which i somewhat felt bad about.
don't get me wrong in the grand scheme of things she mogs me but I really was not attracted to her. at the start it was fine but I progressively just got more annoyed and agitated when she would do things, not even bad things but still pissed me off. after a while I just realized I felt little to no attraction to her and her "niceness" pissed me off, so I ended things the best way possibly I could.

 

[aidenltn17]

Do you think you should only date women you think are hot or do you think making sure you think she’s good looking enough so that you subjectively think she’s like a 6/10, like above average.

it wasn't that she looked bad its just I wasn't attracted to her because of her race mostly, not to be harsh.

 

[Sektor]

Thank you for your response!

What was the dynamic like, what did you think of here though out thr relationship, what did she think of you throughout the relationship. How did it end?

Do you think you should find your potential mate to be hot (strictly what you like), or good looking enough so that you actually want to engage with them?

Shes good looking to alot of people but for me nothing that period of time i was just disgusted alot od by women anything they did

We were a healthy relationship we didnt argue i took her out to dinner we played with her cat. She loved me alot and still does were friends rn. Throughout the relationship she thought i was the sweetest boy ever blah blah blah and it ended by me i just couldn't take jt

No absolutely not giving you actually advice yes looks really matter in a girl but her personality is also really important i would rather be with a 7/10 that has the same or even better personality then a 10/10 with no where near close or some what near close is something people dont usually talk about you'll need a person to bond with

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

Yes, it can be beneficial. If that's what you got a do as a stepping stone then so be it. Learning how to get what you want from women by going through the motions with one you don't really like.

I've dated a girl to get information about the company I worked for and learn the language in her country. She was hot but repulsive if you can understand that. Not endearing to me in any way. She kind of made me sick I'm ashamed to say, because of the way she was. Taking about having a "healthy baby" with me and shit. I even kind of gave her signals that I didn't like her but she would just ignore them and go on about building a life together with me. When I broke it off with her it was bad. She begged. But it made me more angry and repulsed because I felt like she should have expected it.

 

[Sektor]

Is she fat asf or something jfl

Are you a retard when you're in sex you're gonna feel ur dick inside her pussy or her hands touching you

 

[iblamehamza]

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

Simply, no

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Shes good looking to alot of people but for me nothing that period of time i was just disgusted alot od by women anything they did

We were a healthy relationship we didnt argue i took her out to dinner we played with her cat. She loved me alot and still does were friends rn. Throughout the relationship she thought i was the sweetest boy ever blah blah blah and it ended by me i just couldn't take jt

No absolutely not giving you actually advice yes looks really matter in a girl but her personality is also really important i would rather be with a 7/10 that has the same or even better personality then a 10/10 with no where near close or some what near close is something people dont usually talk about you'll need a person to bond with

Yes yes yes.

 

[Mike456]

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

Depends on what you mean by date you mean like casual dating.If you wanna have fun or like hurting women then yea

Also if you are bored then also yea
But they do cost time and money

I am in similar situation but I am 15 so idk

 

[pope]

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

yeah best relationships are where the man is less interested than the woman

 

[Arbuscular]

I think if you are khhv it is worth it

 

[enchanted_elixir]

short term relationship/fwb? go for it

actually date? depends

if you're planning on genuinely dating her with good intentions then ig its good for experience and (im assuming) you mog her so she'll put you on a pedestal. outside of that theres not many upsides.

if you're planning on being a scumbag while dating her then its not a bad method, the shit about girls popping up out of nowhere the second you get in a relationship is lowkey true and you can just cheat on her at any opportunity.

not only that but you'll get even more play whenever other girls see you with your gf whos not that gl, and they'll subconsciously get jealous then try to get you. this happens irl as well as over stuff like ig.

its also good for social currency, and whenever you get back home from a long night at the club, even if you didn't get to slay you'll have someone waiting at home.

not to mention you can do all this shit while still getting the only two clear benefits of dating her ethically.

just my thots tho

I mog her.

I just don’t get that much overt IOIs from more attractive individuals so I can never falsify my “Uninterested until proven interested” principle.

And I’m not going to cheat on her. This girl has been eyeing me for years and is always nice to me, I’d tear her soul of I cheated on her, but I would be able to leap frog.

Another thing, can you actually trust the women who are now interested in you because you have a partner? Like is it genuine?

 

[pope]

Depends on what you mean by date you mean like casual dating.If you wanna have fun or like hurting women then yea

Also if you are bored then also yea
But they do cost time and money

I am in similar situation but I am 15 so idk

begin using her for money, slowly drain her

 

[enchanted_elixir]

yeah best relationships are where the man is less interested than the woman

I don’t want it to he gap to be so wide what it encourages one of the parties to defect and disengage.

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Are you a retard when you're in sex you're gonna feel ur dick inside her pussy or her hands touching you

Okay fucking retard and when you close your eyes you can pretend you’re fucking another bitch. Should’ve started by saying you’re a low-iq bot who can’t picture a 3d apple in their own head. I could fuck Ana De Armas every time I cracked, eye close method is superior for >80iq specimens.

 

[pope]

I don’t want it to he gap to be so wide what it encourages one of the parties to defect and disengage.

how big is the gap ?

also another thing to be aware of is that some women like the chase, ive had girls be interested in me solely because i was making them chase me but as soon as it ended they left

 

[Sektor]

Okay fucking retard and when you close your eyes you can pretend you’re fucking another bitch. Should’ve started by saying you’re a low-iq bot who can’t picture a 3d apple in their own head. I could fuck Ana De Armas every time I cracked, eye close method is superior for >80iq specimens.

Are you that offended because you're a retard and that ur idiotic idea doesn't work you've never felt a pussy in ur life and you're gonna tell me how it works

 

[enchanted_elixir]

how big is the gap ?

also another thing to be aware of is that some women like the chase, ive had girls be interested in me solely because i was making them chase me but as soon as it ended they left

well, she puts me on a pedestal. And it’s like at least 2 pts higher than her

 

[Magnus Ironblood]

No because the sex will be shit. Better to have a woman his more your type and you will always be rock hard.

 

[Mike456]

begin using her for money, slowly drain her

Yea if you get the opportunity use her of money,get fame,get connections whatever you can to get what you want

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Are you that offended because you're a retard and that ur idiotic idea doesn't work you've never felt a pussy in ur life and you're gonna tell me how it works

I wouldn’t even glance at whatever caliber of subhuman that allow you to fuck them. Is your ideal fuck a corpse? Regardless she’s gonna be touching you, just use whatever the neanderthal beta version of imagination you have and pretend it’s another bitch grabbing you. Obviously the fucking pigs you crack won’t be near enough to anything slightly fuckable so it won’t work for you.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Yes, it can be beneficial. If that's what you got a do as a stepping stone then so be it. Learning how to get what you want from women by going through the motions with one you don't really like.

I've dated a girl to get information about the company I worked for and learn the language in her country. She was hot but repulsive if you can understand that. Not endearing to me in any way. She kind of made me sick I'm ashamed to say, because of the way she was. Taking about having a "healthy baby" with me and shit. I even kind of gave her signals that I didn't like her but she would just ignore them and go on about building a life together with me. When I broke it off with her it was bad. She begged. But it made me more angry and repulsed because I felt like she should have expected it.

Sounds psychopathic to me.
Another girl that has a crush on me told her friend in front of me that she wants 4 kids or more. Jfl

 

[Sektor]

I wouldn’t even glance at whatever caliber of subhuman that allow you to fuck them. Is your ideal fuck a corpse? Regardless she’s gonna be touching you, just use whatever the neanderthal beta version of imagination you have and pretend it’s another bitch grabbing you. Obviously the fucking pigs you crack won’t be near enough to anything slightly fuckable so it won’t work for you.

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Bro you're that pathetic and lonely you have to imagine fucking ana de amres then calling me a subhuman realizing how retarded you sound you have nothing else to say you're arrogance is the reason nobody is friends with u nor no pussy is near you spend you're entire life rotting on this forum you fucking loser

 

[Avirochad]

no

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

of course not. why would you do this.

you wont enjoy, she is ruined for any guy on her level, you might accidentally abuse her, and you're signalling to your subconscious and all future girls that this one is on your level / good enough for u.

 

[Mike456]

well, she puts me on a pedestal. And it’s like at least 2.25 pts higher than her

That treatment might wither away when you will be with her so be careful

I think you could get similar treatment for a slightly better looking girl

I think you dont want your future son to be on here so make the right choice

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Sounds psychopathic to me.
Another girl that has a crush on me told her friend in front of me that she wants 4 kids or more. Jfl

I don't believe in psychopaths. Though it does accurately describe some people it doesn't exist in the way psychiatry can actually measure. It's something else that mimics the psychological explanation. And I'm not one of the people who could be described as a psychopath.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

That treatment might wither away when you will be with her so be careful

I think you could get similar treatment for a slightly better looking girl

I think you dont want your future son to be on here so make the right choice

I think she’ll always put me on a pedestal although she’ll be more used to me, she’s been doing it for a long time and it hasn’t gone away.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

I don't believe in psychopaths. Though it does accurately describe some people it doesn't exist in the way psychiatry can actually measure. It's something else that mimics the psychological explanation. And I'm not one of the people who could be described as a psychopath.

Well using a woman who has feelings for you to fulfill your on objective and throwing her in the trash right after doesn’t sound right to me.

 

[decadouche57]

No

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Well using a woman who has feelings for you to fulfill your on objective and throwing her in the trash right after doesn’t sound right to me.

Of course it isn't right.

 

[browncurrycel]

Please don’t say anything if you don’t have any first or second hand experience or are not capable of giving a serious or good response.

just for sex, probably.

but i havent spoken to a woman in so long so i wouldnt know for sure

 

[enchanted_elixir]

No

How attracted should you be towards a woman in order for you to consider dating her

 

[JimmyDreamsOfZygos]

Bro you're that pathetic and lonely you have to imagine fucking ana de amres then calling me a subhuman realizing how retarded you sound you have nothing else to say you're arrogance is the reason nobody is friends with u nor no pussy is near you spend you're entire life rotting on this forum you fucking loser

Negative rep and 1k posts in such a short time, nobody here cares what you have to say. Keep in mind this is a thread about this nigga NOT BEING ATTRACTED TO HIS BITCH. I imagined different because I have too much dick and pleasing a girl isn’t a goal to celebrate for me anymore. Especially in a long term relationship where you don’t explicitly “love” this bitch, you’re gonna get kinda bored of it eventually when you’re fucking 2x a day and she never gets tired of it. I never even did it too much because I respected her, but since I’m not a fucking ape I’m capable of closing my eyes and picturing a different girl. Insane how you’re standing on being a brainless imaginationlet.

 

[romanstock]

she was very nice until the end, which i somewhat felt bad about.
don't get me wrong in the grand scheme of things she mogs me but I really was not attracted to her. at the start it was fine but I progressively just got more annoyed and agitated when she would do things, not even bad things but still pissed me off. after a while I just realized I felt little to no attraction to her and her "niceness" pissed me off, so I ended things the best way possibly I could.

sounds like how most foids ends their marriages with their beta provider

 

[enchanted_elixir]

just for sex, probably.

but i havent spoken to a woman in so long so i wouldnt know for sure

I don’t feel comfortable using peoples daughters for my own gratification. Unless she’s an escort.

 

[enchanted_elixir]

Negative rep and 1k posts in such a short time, nobody here cares what you have to say. Keep in mind this is a thread about this nigga NOT BEING ATTRACTED TO HIS BITCH. I imagined different because I have too much dick and pleasing a girl isn’t a goal to celebrate for me anymore. Especially in a long term relationship where you don’t explicitly “love” this bitch, you’re gonna get kinda bored of it eventually when you’re fucking 2x a day and she never gets tired of it. I never even did it too much because I respected her, but since I’m not a fucking ape I’m capable of closing my eyes and picturing a different girl. Insane how you’re standing on being a brainless imaginationlet.

I’m not dating her.