should you ever open up to a woman?

[IQㅤ]

should you ever open up to a woman?

It seems the more you open up and show hard life truly is for yourself to a woman the less she will be attracted to you.

I'm sure if you're better looking you could open up more. But seriously how does opening up to a woman help you in anyway?

Perfect Chad > Chad with problems not displayed openly > Chad with problems

Not blaming women it seems like biology but still.

99.99% of woman DO not know how to handle or remotely deal with the problems and challenges I go through day to day.

I'm tired of explaining to foids about what I'm going through.

I think I have a fantasy or delusion that I can find a wife who will truly care and not leave when I open up about hard times. Maybe my soul mate is still waiting for me.

 

[underwearremover]

kinda have to if you're looking for a long term partner

 

[surgical]

For the vast majority of women, you definitely shouldn’t

 

[Jgns]

lowkey only trauma dump on women then ghost them

 

[IQㅤ]

kinda have to if you're looking for a long term partner

After I open up I realize that

A.) This woman is not at the intelligence where I would consider her to ever work out as my wife.
B.) She cannot help me at all by opening up.

 

[Nathan Fielder]

should you ever open up to a woman?

no

 

[IQㅤ]

lowkey only trauma dump on women then ghost them

I've done this to many women. I use my trauma as a means to get their attraction. The issue is they cannot resolve the trauma. Merely just give the generic advice.

But also I can't dump business or personal problems on a foid. I need one who empathizes and understands.

 

[dictator]

no

women use it against you

 

[Rabbi]

majority of cases no honestly. There’ll be a few that you can and that’s LTR material which is unfortunately rare

 

[IQㅤ]

For the vast majority of women, you definitely shouldn’t

You say vast majoritory

What woman should I open upto?

It seems like to find a wife quality woman I have to just open up to my potential partners and see how it works.

If they leave or lose attraction good for me.

Bite the bullet in a sense.

 

[mohito]

Mom

 

[ceasar3x]

I did once and it felt good to get everything off my chest very refreshing.

I don’t recommend anyone to hold something in and someone you have affection for comforting you is the best feeling in the world.

just make sure the one you are opening up too is a good person.

 

[Jgns]

I've done this to many women. I use my trauma as a means to get their attraction. The issue is they cannot resolve the trauma. Merely just give the generic advice.

But also I can't dump business or personal problems on a foid. I need one who empathizes and understands.

Yeah I get that, I personally don't cause idrc about most of them theyre kinda retarded subhumans but yeah they won't understand it anyways. I just find it easier to spew it out rather than let it ferment in this brain as it always does

 

[primal_shitmuncher]

Wish I could, but no such relationship exists.

 

[IQㅤ]

Mom

OG

 

[italianltn]

NO, NO, NO AND NO.

- POST BY ITALIANLTN

 

[IQㅤ]

I did once and it felt good to get everything off my chest very refreshing.

I don’t recommend anyone to hold something in and someone you have affection for comforting you is the best feeling in the world.

just make sure the one you are opening up too is a good person.

Good is subjective.

Good doesn't last.

Good is temporary.

Good person in the moment.

But in the grand scheme of things worthless, meaningless, apathy, indifference.

 

[surgical]

You say vast majoritory

What woman should I open upto?

It seems like to find a wife quality woman I have to just open up to my potential partners and see how it works.

If they leave or lose attraction good for me.

Bite the bullet in a sense.

It’s entirely up to you, I think it’s best to know exactly who you’re talking to before you consider truly opening up

I’ve made the mistake of opening up wayyy to early in the past, never ends well at all

 

[IQㅤ]

NO, NO, NO AND NO.

- POST BY ITALIANLTN

I like the bold emphasis and adding a signature. Quite ND

 

[Clqs]

Of course not. Women are not your personal therapists, inkwell

Get a therapist, or pay your gf 300-500 bucks after every bitchy trauma dumping session

 

[dogedogedoge]

Nope my ex makes fun of me for my insecurities and problems that I never told anyone but her

 

[IQㅤ]

Of course not. Women are not your personal therapists, inkwell

Get a therapist, or pay your gf 300-500 bucks after every bitchy trauma dumping session

Even therapist can only help you so much. It's about yourself. Therapists just regurgitate the things you already know and make you do some reflection.

 

[italianltn]

I like the bold emphasis and adding a signature. Quite ND

Thank you user!

 

[elisyn]

should you ever open up to a woman?

It seems the more you open up and show hard life truly is for yourself to a woman the less she will be attracted to you.

I'm sure if you're better looking you could open up more. But seriously how does opening up to a woman help you in anyway?

Perfect Chad > Chad with problems not displayed openly > Chad with problems

Not blaming women it seems like biology but still.

99.99% of woman DO not know how to handle or remotely deal with the problems and challenges I go through day to day.

I'm tired of explaining to foids about what I'm going through.

I think I have a fantasy or delusion that I can find a wife who will truly care and not leave when I open up about hard times. Maybe my soul mate is still waiting for me.

should you ever open up to a woman?

It seems the more you open up and show hard life truly is for yourself to a woman the less she will be attracted to you.

I'm sure if you're better looking you could open up more. But seriously how does opening up to a woman help you in anyway?

Perfect Chad > Chad with problems not displayed openly > Chad with problems

Not blaming women it seems like biology but still.

99.99% of woman DO not know how to handle or remotely deal with the problems and challenges I go through day to day.

I'm tired of explaining to foids about what I'm going through.

I think I have a fantasy or delusion that I can find a wife who will truly care and not leave when I open up about hard times. Maybe my soul mate is still waiting for me.

Short term/unsure, no, long term or wife I’d say yes but start small, not even small, minuscule.

 

[IQㅤ]

Nope my ex makes fun of me for my insecurities and problems that I never told anyone but her

Which specific insecurities and problems if you don't mind me asking.

But yeah brutal. Shit makes a man cold and evil.

 

[IQㅤ]

Short term/unsure, no, long term or wife I’d say yes but start small, not even small, minuscule.

Thing is to figure out if she's wife quality or not you have to make sure you won't lose attraction or leave.

The best woman will support you to a certain point. Not sure if true unconditional love exists.

 

[dogedogedoge]

Which specific insecurities and problems if you don't mind me asking.

But yeah brutal. Shit makes a man cold and evil.

Normally I would tell what they were on here but I don’t feel like it rn, I’m not cold and evil, I’m sad and defeated

 

[italianltn]

Nope my ex makes fun of me for my insecurities and problems that I never told anyone but her

EX-GIRLFRIEND CLASSIC. DON'T THINK TOO MUCH OF IT, THEY HAVE NOTHING GOING FOR THEMSELVES BESIDES SELF-HATRED AND PROJECTING THEIR OWN INSECURITIES ONTO OTHERS.

- POST BY ITALIANLTN

 

[IQㅤ]

Normally I would tell what they were on here but I don’t feel like it rn, I’m not cold and evil, I’m sad and defeated

I feel your pain. I have empathy.

 

[elisyn]

Thing is to figure out if she's wife quality or not you have to make sure you won't lose attraction or leave.

The best woman will support you to a certain point. Not sure if true unconditional love exists.

Oh 100%, many men don’t even open up to their wife tho, also can’t trauma dump to anyone besides therapist.

Best one will but there’s not a whole lot especially attractive ones.

 

[dogedogedoge]

EX-GIRLFRIEND CLASSIC. DON'T THINK TOO MUCH OF IT, THEY HAVE NOTHING GOING FOR THEMSELVES BESIDES SELF-HATRED AND PROJECTING THEIR OWN INSECURITIES ONTO OTHERS.

- POST BY ITALIANLTN

Thanks italianltn

 

[soapbubble]

After I open up I realize that

A.) This woman is not at the intelligence where I would consider her to ever work out as my wife.
B.) She cannot help me at all by opening up.

maybe you could think of it as screening

if you go through enough partners who hate your trauma dumps eventually you'll find one that values and cares, although that might be impossible idk

 

[IQㅤ]

maybe you could think of it as screening

if you go through enough partners who hate your trauma dumps eventually you'll find one that values and cares, although that might be impossible idk

Yep exactly

 

[Azrael1]

it’s weak

 

[IQㅤ]

it’s weak

English

 

[Azrael1]

English

Iqlet?

 

[Lefty Rankin]

should you ever open up to a woman?

It seems the more you open up and show hard life truly is for yourself to a woman the less she will be attracted to you.

I'm sure if you're better looking you could open up more. But seriously how does opening up to a woman help you in anyway?

Perfect Chad > Chad with problems not displayed openly > Chad with problems

Not blaming women it seems like biology but still.

99.99% of woman DO not know how to handle or remotely deal with the problems and challenges I go through day to day.

I'm tired of explaining to foids about what I'm going through.

I think I have a fantasy or delusion that I can find a wife who will truly care and not leave when I open up about hard times. Maybe my soul mate is still waiting for me.

Why do you want to "open up"? I've never really felt like I've ever wanted to just lament about my problems.

 

[Bars]

No NEVER

 

[Lefty Rankin]

Mom

Lol, I could never do that with mine.

 

[mohito]

Lol, I could never do that with mine.

 

[IQㅤ]

Why do you want to "open up"? I've never really felt like I've ever wanted to just lament about my problems.

Lol, I could never do that with mine.

 

[kisslessvirgin]

it depends entirely on how they see you

which is influenced by your appearance

if you are just some cuck shes using as a placeholder and you cry, you are only hurting yourself

and if you were someone she sexually desired she views it as her earning the trust of someone she loves