Should you side with your sister or her boyfriend?

[Elegant]

It seems to be the case of "The Normie just became boring and "annoying"", they are their first love since childhood and first everything, 10+ yr relationship, on paper just about the best example of that perfect normie relationship or whatever the fuck.

Recently I really notice the pattern, the pattern of brutal IODs, every single person that has been around a few of these "older" couples knows what I am talking about, the inevitable loss of attraction, I always hoped this somehow isn't the case if you are her first and some fucking magic of purity happens to maintain the attraction but at last I give up.

I just can't, it is truly heartbreaking to me how with every word she says she just proves it, the fucking brutality of it all, every single thread I have read, every single study, every single bitter incel rambling by Schopenhauer, the myth of long lasting "Love" is really a myth.

The audacity with that awful manipulation attempt on me made me sick to my stomach, the obvious attempt at making up bullshit about him being this and that (just fucking lol at this I have eyes and ears, you could at least try to make up something that fits his persona at least a little bit instead of random "insert negative personality trait that you know I dislike").

She literally stood there and listed random negative traits which she thought I would agree with, textbook female behaviour, just saying whatever in a pleasant tone to her female friend and her wanting to support her with just agreeing to whatever bullshit she spat out of her mouth. Hilarious and sad how she thought she was getting that disgusting female approval from me because she suddenly doesn't like her 10+yr partner.

It breaks my heart, I fucking love the guy, such a great normie, he seemingly doesn't pick up on it but I fear he will, she hides it so well, such a fucking actor, I picked up on a few things but I really did not want to believe it, maybe because I still believed we aren't pure fucking savages acting on instinct if it's a case of that first love shit. He does fucking everything for her, they are looksmatched, he isn't dumb and overall a good guy, I can just see her getting progressively meaner and meaner to him and transforming into his worst nightmare as the years go on so that he can display some bad behaviour that finally "approves" her decision of eventually cucking him.

I don't really know how to approach this situation, I really wish to slut shame my sister but she just lost the fucking attraction, what can you do about it, I know it isn't sustainable for a long period but I still didn't think it was gonna happen this early considering they are that "pure first love".




Tagging any non children that seem to be active and that I can remember of at this very second(jfl at psl)
@Panzram @Jason Voorhees @Diamond Dave @imontheloose @Lonenely sigma

 

[imontheloose]

Side with logic. Whoever is more logical, likely not the lady, side with them. Blood-ties are meaningless. Mud is also thicker than blood.

 

[Elegant]

Side with logic. Whoever is more logical, likely not the lady, side with them. Blood-ties are meaningless. Mud is also thicker than blood.

wise words, the other part about blood ties is really hard for me to accept but it is unfortunately the truth

 

[Panzram]

It seems to be the case of "The Normie just became boring and "annoying"", they are their first love since childhood and first everything, 10+ yr relationship, on paper just about the best example of that perfect normie relationship or whatever the fuck.

Recently I really notice the pattern, the pattern of brutal IODs, every single person that has been around a few of these "older" couples knows what I am talking about, the inevitable loss of attraction, I always hoped this somehow isn't the case if you are her first and some fucking magic of purity happens to maintain the attraction but at last I give up.

I just can't, it is truly heartbreaking to me how with every word she says she just proves it, the fucking brutality of it all, every single thread I have read, every single study, every single bitter incel rambling by Schopenhauer, the myth of long lasting "Love" is really a myth.

The audacity with that awful manipulation attempt on me made me sick to my stomach, the obvious attempt at making up bullshit about him being this and that (just fucking lol at this I have eyes and ears, you could at least try to make up something that fits his persona at least a little bit instead of random "insert negative personality trait that you know I dislike").

She literally stood there and listed random negative traits which she thought I would agree with, textbook female behaviour, just saying whatever in a pleasant tone to her female friend and her wanting to support her with just agreeing to whatever bullshit she spat out of her mouth. Hilarious and sad how she thought she was getting that disgusting female approval from me because she suddenly doesn't like her 10+yr partner.

It breaks my heart, I fucking love the guy, such a great normie, he seemingly doesn't pick up on it but I fear he will, she hides it so well, such a fucking actor, I picked up on a few things but I really did not want to believe it, maybe because I still believed we aren't pure fucking savages acting on instinct if it's a case of that first love shit. He does fucking everything for her, they are looksmatched, he isn't dumb and overall a good guy, I can just see her getting progressively meaner and meaner to him and transforming into his worst nightmare as the years go on so that he can display some bad behaviour that finally "approves" her decision of eventually cucking him.

I don't really know how to approach this situation, I really wish to slut shame my sister but she just lost the fucking attraction, what can you do about it, I know it isn't sustainable for a long period but I still didn't think it was gonna happen this early considering they are that "pure first love".




Tagging any non children that seem to be active and that I can remember of at this very second(jfl at psl)
@Panzram @Jason Voorhees @Diamond Dave @imontheloose @Lonenely sigma

Just stay out of it as much as possible, nothing you do or say can make the situation better for any of them. If you are forced to support one side somehow support who you think is in the right, the bf in this case. If you side with him too much now it's gonna make her resent him even more.

 

[IraniancelV2]

You can't change it anyway, no matter who you side with.

Exact opposite view on this as @imontheloose tbh.

 

[davidlaidisme67]

Side with logic. Whoever is more logical, likely not the lady, side with them. Blood-ties are meaningless. Mud is also thicker than blood.

High iq

 

[GoErOnFoids]

It seems to be the case of "The Normie just became boring and "annoying"", they are their first love since childhood and first everything, 10+ yr relationship, on paper just about the best example of that perfect normie relationship or whatever the fuck.

Recently I really notice the pattern, the pattern of brutal IODs, every single person that has been around a few of these "older" couples knows what I am talking about, the inevitable loss of attraction, I always hoped this somehow isn't the case if you are her first and some fucking magic of purity happens to maintain the attraction but at last I give up.

I just can't, it is truly heartbreaking to me how with every word she says she just proves it, the fucking brutality of it all, every single thread I have read, every single study, every single bitter incel rambling by Schopenhauer, the myth of long lasting "Love" is really a myth.

The audacity with that awful manipulation attempt on me made me sick to my stomach, the obvious attempt at making up bullshit about him being this and that (just fucking lol at this I have eyes and ears, you could at least try to make up something that fits his persona at least a little bit instead of random "insert negative personality trait that you know I dislike").

She literally stood there and listed random negative traits which she thought I would agree with, textbook female behaviour, just saying whatever in a pleasant tone to her female friend and her wanting to support her with just agreeing to whatever bullshit she spat out of her mouth. Hilarious and sad how she thought she was getting that disgusting female approval from me because she suddenly doesn't like her 10+yr partner.

It breaks my heart, I fucking love the guy, such a great normie, he seemingly doesn't pick up on it but I fear he will, she hides it so well, such a fucking actor, I picked up on a few things but I really did not want to believe it, maybe because I still believed we aren't pure fucking savages acting on instinct if it's a case of that first love shit. He does fucking everything for her, they are looksmatched, he isn't dumb and overall a good guy, I can just see her getting progressively meaner and meaner to him and transforming into his worst nightmare as the years go on so that he can display some bad behaviour that finally "approves" her decision of eventually cucking him.

I don't really know how to approach this situation, I really wish to slut shame my sister but she just lost the fucking attraction, what can you do about it, I know it isn't sustainable for a long period but I still didn't think it was gonna happen this early considering they are that "pure first love".




Tagging any non children that seem to be active and that I can remember of at this very second(jfl at psl)
@Panzram @Jason Voorhees @Diamond Dave @imontheloose @Lonenely sigma

Thats how the fucking foids are

 

[GoErOnFoids]

It seems to be the case of "The Normie just became boring and "annoying"", they are their first love since childhood and first everything, 10+ yr relationship, on paper just about the best example of that perfect normie relationship or whatever the fuck.

Recently I really notice the pattern, the pattern of brutal IODs, every single person that has been around a few of these "older" couples knows what I am talking about, the inevitable loss of attraction, I always hoped this somehow isn't the case if you are her first and some fucking magic of purity happens to maintain the attraction but at last I give up.

I just can't, it is truly heartbreaking to me how with every word she says she just proves it, the fucking brutality of it all, every single thread I have read, every single study, every single bitter incel rambling by Schopenhauer, the myth of long lasting "Love" is really a myth.

The audacity with that awful manipulation attempt on me made me sick to my stomach, the obvious attempt at making up bullshit about him being this and that (just fucking lol at this I have eyes and ears, you could at least try to make up something that fits his persona at least a little bit instead of random "insert negative personality trait that you know I dislike").

She literally stood there and listed random negative traits which she thought I would agree with, textbook female behaviour, just saying whatever in a pleasant tone to her female friend and her wanting to support her with just agreeing to whatever bullshit she spat out of her mouth. Hilarious and sad how she thought she was getting that disgusting female approval from me because she suddenly doesn't like her 10+yr partner.

It breaks my heart, I fucking love the guy, such a great normie, he seemingly doesn't pick up on it but I fear he will, she hides it so well, such a fucking actor, I picked up on a few things but I really did not want to believe it, maybe because I still believed we aren't pure fucking savages acting on instinct if it's a case of that first love shit. He does fucking everything for her, they are looksmatched, he isn't dumb and overall a good guy, I can just see her getting progressively meaner and meaner to him and transforming into his worst nightmare as the years go on so that he can display some bad behaviour that finally "approves" her decision of eventually cucking him.

I don't really know how to approach this situation, I really wish to slut shame my sister but she just lost the fucking attraction, what can you do about it, I know it isn't sustainable for a long period but I still didn't think it was gonna happen this early considering they are that "pure first love".




Tagging any non children that seem to be active and that I can remember of at this very second(jfl at psl)
@Panzram @Jason Voorhees @Diamond Dave @imontheloose @Lonenely sigma

Your sister waits for him to do one smallest mistake like not saying good night and thats a good reason to dump him

 

[Elegant]

Just stay out of it as much as possible, nothing you do or say can make the situation better for any of them. If you are forced to support one side somehow support who you think is in the right, the bf in this case. If you side with him too much now it's gonna make her resent him even more.

Yeah thought so myself, me giving her a reality check that she is in the wrong and that she is a freak human gender that just does these things because of being born like that surely won't help anyone.

You can't change it anyway, no matter who you side with.

Exact opposite view on this as @imontheloose tbh.

Well his view is "lawfully" and mathematically correct , the problem is that laws and maths aren't that great in the case of human relationships, that's why aspies are incel.

Your sister waits for him to do one smallest mistake like not saying good night and thats a good reason to dump him

 

[IraniancelV2]

Yeah thought so myself, me giving her a reality check that she is in the wrong and that she is a freak human gender that just does these things because of being born like that surely won't help anyone.

Wrong? It's just biology. Should she stay with him and fake attraction? You should maybe just tell her to directly approach him and get it over with if she has lost her attraction to him.

Well his view is "lawfully" and mathematically correct , the problem is that laws and maths aren't that great in the case of human relationships, that's why aspies are incel.

That's an opinion. Blood ties are very important imo.

 

[Elegant]

Wrong? It's just biology. Should she stay with him and fake attraction? You should maybe just tell her to directly approach him and get it iver withy if she has lost her attraction to him.

That's an opinion. Blood ties are very important imo.

Exactly what I meant, is me insulting her biological gender not biology? I wonder if the blood ties thingy has something to do with ur genetics, like the hunter gather stuff etc, gotta be a genetical reason why Jews stick together so much without problems whereas my group of people hate eachother.

 

[IraniancelV2]

Exactly what I meant, is me insulting her biological gender not biology?

Yes, it will bring you nowhere, though.

I wonder if the blood ties thingy has something to do with ur genetics, like the hunter gather stuff etc, gotta be a genetical reason why Jews stick together so much without problems whereas my group of people hate eachother.

Nationalism is an extension of tribalism, your family is even closer to you than that. It's unfathomable how they were able to convince most westerns to go against their nature. A masterclass.

 

[Diamond Dave]

I'd side with the guy and tell him everything she thinks about him. Poor guy is probably heels over head in love with her still while she's planning to break up with him.

 

[Elegant]

I'd side with the guy and tell him everything she thinks about him. Poor guy is probably heels over head in love with her still while she's planning to break up with him.

The most tragicomical thing is that I don't even think she is planning to do that like that, she will keep up with the act for many years and start being more and more obnoxious and mean and psychopathic until the fella becomes abused enough to act upon it, fucking brutal I can already foresee the whole thing, I can't even tell him anything considering he will probably side with her, you know how the normies are with their love, roll the dice better next time buddy.