Should you stick with a “good girl” regardless of compatibility?

[Deleted member 1209]

I’m a month into being single and I’m starting to feel like I wasn’t missing out on much. There’s nothing but hoes and women in 5+ year relationships that they’re never leaving out there. Maybe i would’ve been better off trying to mold my ex into the kind of women I wanted

 

[Deleted member 1209]

Bump

 

[Deleted member 9801]

If she was a good girl how comes u weren’t compatible?

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

I’m a month into being single and I’m starting to feel like I wasn’t missing out on much. There’s nothing but hoes and women in 5+ year relationships that they’re never leaving out there. Maybe i would’ve been better off trying to mold my ex into the kind of women I wanted

You stick with the one you love, trust, and will defend. But I get the molding the ex idea. It doesn't work. Trust me. I tried hanging on to that idea for years, and it only caused headaches, rage, and pain. You can't mold a free mind; a free woman. A free thinker. A liberated female. But you can let that shit go.

 

[Deleted member 9670]

If she was a good girl how comes u weren’t compatible?

Why do good girls like bad guys

 

[Deleted member 1209]

If she was a good girl how comes u weren’t compatible?

I wanted to be with someone more “fun” who dressed sexy and not someone who’s as serious and homebodyish as me

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

I wanted to be with someone more “fun” who dressed sexy and not someone who’s as serious and homebodyish as me

But if she dresses seductively and sexy, that'll attract male (and female) eyes, thus causing more confrontation in your life. Do you know how many men are in prison today because of having a sexy flirtatious girlfriend? Ugh.

Hollywood stars can get away with that. Filthy-rich parasites as well. But if you're not of those trees, perhaps, change your thought pattern.

 

[Deleted member 18244]

Your ex wasn’t a good girl. You just didn’t know

 

[DoctorLooksmax]

Honestly if you’ve got a slim cute gf who’s personality you like you’re not missing out on much at all by not being single

Sex with my ex gf was 100 times better than any of the sex I had since and I actually enjoyed hanging out with her too.

With this girls I fuck now after I cum I just start planning how I’m gonna escape

 

[khvirgin]

I wanted to be with someone more “fun” who dressed sexy and not someone who’s as serious and homebodyish as me

Then you clearly have a different idea of what a "good girl" is compared to people here.
Just have your own standards and don't fixate on other people's standards too much

 

[Deleted member 9801]

I wanted to be with someone more “fun” who dressed sexy and not someone who’s as serious and homebodyish as me

Bro sorry to say but that’s retarded

 

[Deleted member 1209]

Bro sorry to say but that’s retarded

I just felt like I couldn’t be myself after 2.5 years of interacting exclusively with someone who’s low energy, conservative/innocent and dresses and acts like an old woman half the time.

 

[BigJimsWornOutTires]

Honestly if you’ve got a slim cute gf who’s personality you like you’re not missing out on much at all by not being single

Sex with my ex gf was 100 times better than any of the sex I had since and I actually enjoyed hanging out with her too.

With this girls I fuck now after I cum I just start planning how I’m gonna escape

If he has a sexy slim cute gf, make her wear baggy clothes and autistic wigs. Teach her to limp on one leg, thus injured from nature. Like the runt bird that fell from the nest a little too early because she was trying to stay warm with the other baby birds, but they pushed her out.

Although in private, she must wear lingerie and thick ruby red whore lipstick.

 

[Deleted member 1209]

She might’ve been on the autism spectrum. One time wanted me to run to the store in the middle of the night because her soda was too flat. There were a lot of little inoffensive quirks that put me off towards the end

 

[Deleted member 1209]

I didn’t want to spend all of my weekends either in bed or at some brunch spot staring at her in silence