FiendFiend
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Dating and slaying is much like the job market. This is why you see HTNs on this forum, this is why u see even chadlites rarely. A lot of guys that are not very unattractive, struggling their dick off. Is this necessarily cuz women want chad? No.
Hypergamy is not the reason why HTN , high mtns and even chadlites are on the forum. Some say neurodivergence which plays a key part of course in doing any of this to get into dating. However u dont even need to be that ND or weird or strange to end up on this forum or being an "incel".
The issue is social media. Absolutely no guy here who has an established instagram with over 1k followers, who also has snapchat, is struggling for pussy or girls not being interested in him. I have a MTN friend who is slaying actively who has this. He is not ever in a drought. Pussy of normal regular girls is right a couple texts away.
Its the same as jobs for Gen Z - they ask u for experience for entry level jobs, but u need to work an entry level job to even get the experience in the first place. This is why it is so unbelievably fustrating. FaceAndLMS' videos are outdated of his chadfishes on myspace and other dating apps in the 2000s. EVERYONE had dog shit cameras, was very new to this social media thing. Posted a couple photos that werent very NT. You need to have a first kiss, or be liked enough to where people want you to have social media and see you after school, if u get that reinforcement, u will become a narcy fag who will post everything they do and have a nice full page with a bunch of followers.
If your good looking, get NT high quality pictures taken of you when your out. Treat your instagram like your linkedin to getting jobs. No one who has worked 5 jobs is expecting to walk out in a suit everyday and be approached for employment or something.
If you held off having social media, (and real social media like snap, instagram) and shit that actually matters. Not chronic onlines like discord. You never ever grew and learnt how to take photos, how to be NT. Even if your chadlite, if ur taking photos indoors in pijamas, basement dwelling. Maybe some LTB will go out their way to message u, but u will sit there without females msging u.
You could just be like me and not like taking photos in public and always saw it as super narcy and cringe to do, but if my pictures of me eating at a restaurant, or playing sport, or being with a friend isnt on there, you will look uninteresting as fuck.
Hypergamy is not the reason why HTN , high mtns and even chadlites are on the forum. Some say neurodivergence which plays a key part of course in doing any of this to get into dating. However u dont even need to be that ND or weird or strange to end up on this forum or being an "incel".
The issue is social media. Absolutely no guy here who has an established instagram with over 1k followers, who also has snapchat, is struggling for pussy or girls not being interested in him. I have a MTN friend who is slaying actively who has this. He is not ever in a drought. Pussy of normal regular girls is right a couple texts away.
Its the same as jobs for Gen Z - they ask u for experience for entry level jobs, but u need to work an entry level job to even get the experience in the first place. This is why it is so unbelievably fustrating. FaceAndLMS' videos are outdated of his chadfishes on myspace and other dating apps in the 2000s. EVERYONE had dog shit cameras, was very new to this social media thing. Posted a couple photos that werent very NT. You need to have a first kiss, or be liked enough to where people want you to have social media and see you after school, if u get that reinforcement, u will become a narcy fag who will post everything they do and have a nice full page with a bunch of followers.
If your good looking, get NT high quality pictures taken of you when your out. Treat your instagram like your linkedin to getting jobs. No one who has worked 5 jobs is expecting to walk out in a suit everyday and be approached for employment or something.
If you held off having social media, (and real social media like snap, instagram) and shit that actually matters. Not chronic onlines like discord. You never ever grew and learnt how to take photos, how to be NT. Even if your chadlite, if ur taking photos indoors in pijamas, basement dwelling. Maybe some LTB will go out their way to message u, but u will sit there without females msging u.
You could just be like me and not like taking photos in public and always saw it as super narcy and cringe to do, but if my pictures of me eating at a restaurant, or playing sport, or being with a friend isnt on there, you will look uninteresting as fuck.
org is like my diary atp
