Slayers of tinder please help.

[Deleted member 30283]

I've tons of matches, like 100+ but I'm very incapable of turning my matches to hookup.

Like they are down to be my gf but never about hookup!

My theory is that your first befriend and chat with them untill it gets sexual? Thet let you fuck them?

 

[Deleted member 30283]

@Amnesia

 

[Deleted member 30283]

@biscotti

 

[Deleted member 30283]

I often have voice or video call with them. The moment i tell them I'm not into ltr but casual hookups. They let me down.

I don't know wtf I'm doing wrong.

 

[Deleted member 30283]

This site went nuts. Only incels now so none commenst since they can't relate to me.

 

[Deleted member 30283]

@Blackgymmax

 

[Jase]

Haha loser

 

[Deleted member 30283]

Haha loser

You don't even get matches, yet calls me looser lol

 

[Deleted member 16673]

Back when i did OLD it was kind of a coin flip.

i didn’t get hundreds of matches, simply because I’d swipe left on 99%+ of foids.

I’d get straight to the point cus i could not be assed to get to know them.
I didn’t give two fucks about what they did in life and I’m sure they didn’t care about me either.

As soon as I’d allude to sex or make a blatant request for ONS, 70-80% of the time they’d be interested (i only swiped on “short-term fun” or “doesn’t know yet” girls).
But only like 1 in 2 would follow through when it came to meeting up.
Even I’d flake too sometimes tbh so i can’t hate them for it.

My take is that you should definitely go down one a rating level if you wanna secure a ONS: chadlite -> htb, htn -> mtb…

I remember one HTB i ONSed with kept me on snap. I felt so cucked when she’d post pictures of her convos with other guys in her private story.
I was competing with statusmaxxed htns with 50-200k followers on insta and more on tiktok.

It’s brutal as fuck and I lost interest.

I’d rather LTR a HQNP girl now. I don’t wanna give these h***s any validation. They’ll get it elsewhere anyway.

 

[Kamui]

Back when i did OLD it was kind of a coin flip.

i didn’t get hundreds of matches, simply because I’d swipe left on 99%+ of foids.

I’d get straight to the point cus i could not be assed to get to know them.
I didn’t give two fucks about what they did in life and I’m sure they didn’t care about me either.

As soon as I’d allude to sex or make a blatant request for ONS, 80-90% of the time they’d be interested.
But only like 1 in 2 would follow through when it came to meeting up.
Even I’d flake too sometimes tbh so i can’t hate them for it.

My take is that you should definitely go down one a rating level if you wanna secure a ONS: chadlite -> htb, htn -> mtb…

I remember one HTB i ONSed with kept me on snap. I felt so cucked when she’d post pictures of her convos with other guys in her private story.
I was competing with statusmaxxed htns with 50-200k followers on insta and more on tiktok.

It’s brutal as fuck and I lost interest.

I’d rather LTR a HQNP girl now. I don’t wanna give these h***s any validation. They’ll get it elsewhere anyway.

It’s legit just a numbers game if you want casual sex, it’s all a coin flip

 

[edodalic29]

Back when i did OLD it was kind of a coin flip.

i didn’t get hundreds of matches, simply because I’d swipe left on 99%+ of foids.

I’d get straight to the point cus i could not be assed to get to know them.
I didn’t give two fucks about what they did in life and I’m sure they didn’t care about me either.

As soon as I’d allude to sex or make a blatant request for ONS, 80-90% of the time they’d be interested.
But only like 1 in 2 would follow through when it came to meeting up.
Even I’d flake too sometimes tbh so i can’t hate them for it.

My take is that you should definitely go down one a rating level if you wanna secure a ONS: chadlite -> htb, htn -> mtb…

I remember one HTB i ONSed with kept me on snap. I felt so cucked when she’d post pictures of her convos with other guys in her private story.
I was competing with statusmaxxed htns with 50-200k followers on insta and more on tiktok.

It’s brutal as fuck and I lost interest.

I’d rather LTR a HQNP girl now. I don’t wanna give these h***s any validation. They’ll get it elsewhere anyway.

THIS . It’s mainly a numbers game , just message all of em and pick the ones that want you , simple .

 

[Amnesia]

I treat it as a numbers game and they already decided if they wanna fuck or not the moment they swiped on u

First line is come over to watch so and so tv show with me bc I’m in the middle of it

Like only 20percent if my matches even respond, the ones that say they’re down. I get their snap

First thing I sent them is a snap where I look good and ask if they’re free that night or the next

Always try to meet up as soon as possible. Girls have a trillion matches and can easily lose track of who they just met or got snap from.

Always be closing always be pushing to meet asap

 

[TheBrownOne]

Like they are down to be my gf but never about hookup!

Lie or some shit bro

 

[mvp2v1]

I've tons of matches, like 100+ but I'm very incapable of turning my matches to hookup.

Like they are down to be my gf but never about hookup!

My theory is that your first befriend and chat with them untill it gets sexual? Thet let you fuck them?

means your not attractive enough.