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Disclaimer: This probably won't work for you if you aren't at least average looking
Welcome to my Guide for getting girls over snap without having to be neurotypical or low inhib.
If you have aspergers, autism, social anxiety or you just don't have a well developed social circle, this guide is for you!
Step 1: Make a snapchat profile
This is the obvious first step, if you already use snapchat you should probably just use your existing account. I would highly recommend using the feature called "public story" to make a profile picture and post a few pics or short videos of yourself so you will instantly differenciate yourself from all the other guys adding random girls on snap:
Very important note: If you have a snapscore below 1000 your first priority should be to at least farm it up to above 1k, ideal snapscore is somewhere between 20k and 500k tho.
Do this by adding random people and start sending mass snaps, so basically just send a picture of your face or just a wall to the few people you have added 100 times, this way it should take you roughly 15 minutes to get to above 1k snapscore!
Step 2: Adding girls
Your next step is to start adding girls, do this buy just randomly adding girls over quickadd, you should be able to easily add 100 girls per minute, and I guess on average around 5 add you back:
To make this clear: With this strategy you can cold approach up to 5 girls in 1 Minute!!!
This is why snapchat is such a good way!
Step 3: Sorting the girls out
Every girl you add that isn't in your preferred age range or not in your area should be IMMEDIATELY REMOVED.
Why is that?
Because your future quickadd recommendations will be directly correlated with your girls on snap.
If you start adding thousands of 25 year old indians on snap your entire recommendation page will be filled with, well, 25 year old indians.
Also should be obvious but if your goal is to get girls and talking stages you shouldn't add any dudes and immideatly block any guy you accidentally added. If you only have dudes on your snap your recommended users will be dudes.
Step 4: Start talking to them
It sounds stupid but even if there is a girl you don't find a attractive you might wanna leave her on your snap if she is in your area and in your preferred age range to make your recommendations better.
Anyways, after you have a girl in your area in your age range on snap, you have to start getting to know her.
I recommend the conversation to roughly go like this:
hey, you from x?
Yes im from there
How old are you?
Im x, wbu?
Im x years old
After that just send normal pics of you and ask her:
Do you know me?
Or just say:
Thats me. What do you look like?
If you now found a girl in your area that you find attractive you need to figure out if you have a chance.
According to this forum im mid-MTN to high-MTN, but I would say a good 20%-40% of girls I talk to immediately call me goodlooking when receiving pictures of me.
Dudes on this forum have higher Standards than the girls you are trying to date!
If she didnt immediately call you goodlooking after receiving your pictures your chances are reduced, but its very far from over!
I obviously can't recall if every Single girl I met or Kissed or whatever called me immideately good looking, but I'm estimating around 40% of them didn't instantly tell me they find me attractive.
Step 5: Holding the conversation
This part is the most complicated one, you found a girl you are interested in, how do you now convince her to meet you?
Your first steps after exchanging pictures should be to just ask her a few boring questions like what school do you go to whats ur hobbies how are your Grades etc.
In my opinion you should ask her like 5 questions about her, get to know her and if she doesnt respond dry or anything like that your chances aren't too bad.
Important: If a girl leaves you on delivered or on read or just generally ignores you your chances a pretty much 0. You can just send them snaps of your face or whatever and if she just doesn't really want to have a conversation just let the chat die out, don't insult her don't write anything stupid, just let it go. You can block her if you want but if she is in your age range and in your area there isn't really a point in blocking her in my opinion.
Now after asking her a few questions getting to know her:
If you have a body halo or a height halo, I highly recommend you to show it off.
Showing of height halo:
Hey quick question how tall are you?
I'm x cm tall, wbu?
I'm x cm tall, y cm taller than you.
Done
Showing off body halo:
Hey, you go to the gym?
No I don't/yes i do, what about you?
Yes I do, want to see my physique?
At this point she will most likely say yes, if she says no obviously don't send but if she agrees go send her your best fuckboy shirtless pics.
A physique like this might be mid for tiktok Standards, but it will vastly improve your chances with girls. If you have a physique like this or slightly worse: show it off!
If you have a better physique:
Make sure even more that you show it off!
Step 6: Getting the date
You could and should ask for a date after like 1 or 2 days of texting.
Sounds very direct right?
Yes it is but if she likes you she will probably agree.
If a girl still doesn't want to meet up after 2 weeks of texting your chances are basically 0. You can still continue trying but she probably wants you more as a snapchat boredom curer over a guy she wants to actually meet.
Also don't get me wrong, after asking questions about each other sending your physique or whatever you shouldn't just stop texting, keep up the conversation show interest in her interests and if the convo gets dry, just send a snap of yourself.
This was the complete guide from making a snapchat profile to eventually going on a date.
I will follow with lots and lots of things to keep in mind across this process (important to read):
Don't ever write weird or horny things, remeber, they are girls in your age in your area, she definetely knows a lot of other people in your area and you don't want to ruin your reputation!
Never ever send dick pics even if she asks for it unless she send you something before. (Even then you probably shouldn't send anything either unless of course you already met her irl)
There are a good amount of girls that are for example with their friends and just trolling guys on snap by asking for dick pics, so dont be stupid and dont send it.
If you think your meat will magically make girls want to sleep with you and you really want to send it after receiving pics, at least don't have your face or any recocnisable backgrounds on the pic!
If you think you found the one and consider blocking all other girls, never ever do this unless you are in a relationship, you don't know how many times I thought she is it but then she flakes on the date or when we meet we just don't vibe at all!
Final step: The date
This step varies from person to person and what your goal from the dates are (casual or finding a gf).
I highly recommend you not to spend any money on the first date, don't go eat anything so you don't have to pay for anything.
The first date is basically with a complete stranger so don't waste any money on them.
Me personally, I always always always ask to go on a walk on the first date, just go wander around the City or a Shoppingcenter or something, ideal first date.
If you think you can score on the first date, i recommend you to go somewhere on a walk close to your home or close to somewhere you 2 can have privacy, and after walking a bit you can ask her to go to your home or to the private place or whatever.
Don't excpect to fuck or even kiss on your dates, in my experience for every 20 girls you meet, 10 will result in nothing, 5 result in kissing or maybe a handjob and 5 will result in Sex.
It is very possible to fuck on the first date even if you are both 14, trust me!
My now ex gf added me on snap and we met 2 days later and we had intimacy on the first date.
And if you think only sluts are on snap, I highly disagree.
A lot of non-social girls use snap to get to know guys and have talking stages.
Btw, you might think it's impossible to sleep with a virgin on the first date, trust me it's not!
Teenage boys and teenage girls are equally stupid!
So if you now kissed the girl or idk got a gf, reached your goal from this process: Congratulations! Thats all there is to it.
Final words:
I don't promote this way of getting girls for anyone well known or heavily social. Even when you aren't weird and you are just being a nice guy you can still nuke your social life when you are known around town for hitting up every girl!
If you aren't social and don't give a fuck what anyone thinks this is the perfect way.
If you use this method for over a month and got 0 dates, you either have to go change your appearance so you look better or lower your standards!
HOW CAN YOU EXCPECT TO GET A GOOD LOOKING GIRL IF YOU AREN'T GOOD LOOKING YOURSELF?
This thread took a lot of effort, I post this for free publicly because I like helping people, but I would still appreciate it if you leave a react so I know there are people interested. I don't promote this way of getting girls for anyone well known or heavily social. Even when you aren't weird and you are just being a nice guy you can still nuke your social life when you are known around town for hitting up every girl!
If you aren't social and don't give a fuck what anyone thinks this is the perfect way.
If you use this method for over a month and got 0 dates, you either have to go change your appearance so you look better or lower your standards!
HOW CAN YOU EXCPECT TO GET A GOOD LOOKING GIRL IF YOU AREN'T GOOD LOOKING YOURSELF?
Thanks for reading
