social anxiety

[93symmetrymog]

I feel like social anxiety is lowkey ruining my chances with girls and it’s pretty irritating because its not even like Im invisible or anything girls actually do approach me sometimes or at least give signals theyre interested they would start conversations laugh keep eye contact all that and those moments i know whats happening like logically I get it this is the part where you ask for her number but my brain just freezes its like everything shuts down at once i start overthinking every word worrying about sounding stu copid orming off weird then I switch to being super dry or polite and the whole thing gets akward afterwards I replay it in my head thinking of all the things i could have said but in the moment its all just blank in my head the worst part is knowing Im kinda getting opportunities that other people wish they had and Im just fumbling them because of my social anxiety

Anyone else deal with this cuz i didnt have that confidence the born attractive people have and dont got the social skills this might be my nd curse

 

[Banned User]

4th post after 2 years

 

[Frenulum]

Just think on how you want to fuck her

 

[helpmemog1]

If they already show interest into u just to the same does not have to be a very big deal, just talk more, and be more comfortable, just act like they are already ur friends, i was like u to, i just don't care anymore like if u don't like me not my problemen

 

[suicidemonkey]

I feel like social anxiety is lowkey ruining my chances with girls and it’s pretty irritating because its not even like Im invisible or anything girls actually do approach me sometimes or at least give signals theyre interested they would start conversations laugh keep eye contact all that and those moments i know whats happening like logically I get it this is the part where you ask for her number but my brain just freezes its like everything shuts down at once i start overthinking every word worrying about sounding stu copid orming off weird then I switch to being super dry or polite and the whole thing gets akward afterwards I replay it in my head thinking of all the things i could have said but in the moment its all just blank in my head the worst part is knowing Im kinda getting opportunities that other people wish they had and Im just fumbling them because of my social anxiety

Anyone else deal with this cuz i didnt have that confidence the born attractive people have and dont got the social skills this might be my nd curse

Try to mentally separate yourself from the outcome. If you're anything like me, the interaction might be threatening your sense of identity.

You need to ask yourself why the outcome matters so much.

 

[beachflow83]

I feel like social anxiety is lowkey ruining my chances with girls and it’s pretty irritating because its not even like Im invisible or anything girls actually do approach me sometimes or at least give signals theyre interested they would start conversations laugh keep eye contact all that and those moments i know whats happening like logically I get it this is the part where you ask for her number but my brain just freezes its like everything shuts down at once i start overthinking every word worrying about sounding stu copid orming off weird then I switch to being super dry or polite and the whole thing gets akward afterwards I replay it in my head thinking of all the things i could have said but in the moment its all just blank in my head the worst part is knowing Im kinda getting opportunities that other people wish they had and Im just fumbling them because of my social anxiety

Anyone else deal with this cuz i didnt have that confidence the born attractive people have and dont got the social skills this might be my nd curse

Exact same bruv, my mental is still the same as the subhuman guy from 2 years ago only difference is that i don’t look like that anymore i guess only way to improve is to keep going it probably won’t stay like this forever lol

 

[93symmetrymog]

Exact same bruv, my mental is still the same as the subhuman guy from 2 years ago only difference is that i don’t look like that anymore i guess only way to improve is to keep going it probably won’t stay like this forever lol

ye i hope it improves for us both

 

[93symmetrymog]

Try to mentally separate yourself from the outcome. If you're anything like me, the interaction might be threatening your sense of identity.

You need to ask yourself why the outcome matters so much.

i need a girl like my life would be lonely dont wanna be a 35 year old asking myself when i look back at my glory days why i didnt go out with girls

 

[93symmetrymog]

If they already show interest into u just to the same does not have to be a very big deal, just talk more, and be more comfortable, just act like they are already ur friends, i was like u to, i just don't care anymore like if u don't like me not my problemen

preciate it

 

[93symmetrymog]

Just think on how you want to fuck her

bruh it dont work like that

 

[93symmetrymog]

4th post after 2 years

lol just been reading others posts and finally ready to post