Social blackpill: Once your reputation is ruined in a social group, it’s pretty much fucked forever

[Deleted member 2527]

I realised this when a friend of mine mentioned a girl that we used to hang around with literally 10 years ago. She was a massive whore at the time (only 15/16)

As soon as he mentioned her name I just immediately thought of the whore.

The black pill is that if you become negatively labelled for something in your social group, it’s pretty much over.

Whether you’re labelled as the loser weirdo kid, the drug dealer stoner or aggressive asshole who tried to fight everyone, or the guy who’s really creepy around girls, people won’t forget this and will judge you for it forever pretty much.

If you think selling a few bags of weed won’t cause any harm, think again. There are people who will always view you as a drug dealer scumbag whether they said it or not.

If you try to ‘re-invent’ yourself or publicly change your ways. People will honestly just view this a pathetic desperate attempt to get people to like you again. They won’t forget.


If you’ve done something that has seriously damaged your reputation or been labelled negatively Your best option is to unironically stop talking to everyone and move to a new city to start over.

People don’t forgive and forget at all and most people are actually incredibly judgemental when it comes to social circles.

 

[Lasko123]

 

[loromate]

Cope. I have done several shit for several times and I am still popular. People forget and don't give a fuck, they are more worried about themselves. Stop spreading this kind of autistic bullshit on a website where half of people are one step away from suicide.

 

[Deleted member 3512]

Cope. I have done several shit for several times and I am still popular. People forget and don't give a fuck, they are more worried about themselves. Stop spreading this kind of autistic bullshit on a website where half of people are one step away from suicide.

Same experience. People change opinion every other day, JFL at who think that people's opinion is set in stone. I've seen even people come back to friendship after one has fucked the other's man girlfriend.

 

[Deleted member 7866]

be chad, and you'll be forgiven for whatever. loser kid and creepy around girls are not labels for chad. stoner drug dealer makes chad popular

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Same experience. People change opinion every other day, JFL at who think that people's opinion is set in stone. I've seen even people come back to friendship after one has fucked the other's man girlfriend.

That’s not something to ruin your reputation.

I’m talking about being accused of rape, or stabbing someone or arrested for drug dealing...stuff along those lines.

Some disagreement about a chick won’t get you labelled like those things would^

 

[Deleted member 4612]

That’s not something to ruin your reputation.

I’m talking about being accused of rape, or stabbing someone or arrested for drug dealing...stuff along those lines.

Some disagreement about a chick won’t get you labelled like those things would^

the situation you described in the OP as that some chick was a whore.

so what? lots of chicks are whores

 

[Deleted member 2527]

the situation you described in the OP as that some chick was a whore.

so what? lots of chicks are whores

All I’m saying is that people don’t forget.

Reputation does 100% matter and once it’s cemented you basically can’t change it - so be careful.

 

[Deleted member 3512]

imho having the " violent aggressor " label guarantee no one will fuck with you.
And as a italian byword say, better to be feared than loved.

 

[Deleted member 4612]

All I’m saying is that people don’t forget.

Reputation does 100% matter and once it’s cemented you basically can’t change it - so be careful.

true on that. unless you move to a new location to get a fresh start but that's not always an option

 

[Deleted member 2527]

imho having the " violent aggressor " label guarantee no one will fuck with you.
And as a italian byword say, better to be feared than loved.

And also people won’t want to hang out with you, invite you to parties, and if you date a girl and her friends know about your reputation they probably won’t approve of you.

 

[Deleted member 3512]

And also people won’t want to hang out with you, invite you to parties, and if you date a girl and her friends know about your reputation they probably won’t approve of you.

if you have been violent for self defence, no, in other cases you are right

 

[Deleted member 275]

Most perceptions people have about you socially are based on the way you look and dress anyways. Not the actual behavior that you show.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Most perceptions people have about you socially are based on the way you look and dress anyways. Not the actual behavior that you show.

That's for first time impressions.

 

[Deleted member 275]

That's for first time impressions.

Nah, that first time impression also affects how you are perceived with everything else you do.

If you look like some hippie stoner, but you are nothing like it, people will still perceive everything you do with that hippie/stoner background.

Same with looking dom or submissive. Looking like a nerd, etc.

 

[isis_Bleach]

I realised this when a friend of mine mentioned a girl that we used to hang around with literally 10 years ago. She was a massive whore at the time (only 15/16)

As soon as he mentioned her name I just immediately thought of the whore.

The black pill is that if you become negatively labelled for something in your social group, it’s pretty much over.

Whether you’re labelled as the loser weirdo kid, the drug dealer stoner or aggressive asshole who tried to fight everyone, or the guy who’s really creepy around girls, people won’t forget this and will judge you for it forever pretty much.

If you think selling a few bags of weed won’t cause any harm, think again. There are people who will always view you as a drug dealer scumbag whether they said it or not.

If you try to ‘re-invent’ yourself or publicly change your ways. People will honestly just view this a pathetic desperate attempt to get people to like you again. They won’t forget.


If you’ve done something that has seriously damaged your reputation or been labelled negatively Your best option is to unironically stop talking to everyone and move to a new city to start over.

People don’t forgive and forget at all and most people are actually incredibly judgemental when it comes to social circles.

just be low status so no one even knew you anyways theory

 

[Hightwolf]

this is true. You just have to restart over with a new group, maybe once you meet someoen from an old group again who already has a previous percieved reputation and impression of you they will be drowned by the newer reputatoin you gained with the new group and they will submit to the new reputation

 

[Zyros]

Whether you’re labelled as the loser weirdo kid,

no. I was widely known as the virgin loser (yes I had a fame), and 15 years later I am known as the womanizer player (including the same people who knew me as the virgin) with just a 2 PSL looks increase. Your fame can change over time but its tied mostly to looks or very very very extreme achievements if not looks

 

[KrissKross]

Legit as fucking sin. This is the exact thing I’ve been dealing with currently. New Normies like me but Normans that knew me pre ascension will NEVER accept me.
It’s like the great Gatsby, the rich will only accept old wealth not some Nouve rich imposter.

 

[GucciMvne]

true besides the weed part

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Legit as fucking sin. This is the exact thing I’ve been dealing with currently. New Normies like me but Normans that knew me pre ascension will NEVER accept me.
It’s like the great Gatsby, the rich will only accept old wealth not some Nouve rich imposter.

This guy gets it. People’s impression of you is written into stone for the most part.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

just be low status so no one even knew you anyways theory

Or have high status but everyone knows you for good things

 

[Deleted member 2527]

this is true. You just have to restart over with a new group, maybe once you meet someoen from an old group again who already has a previous percieved reputation and impression of you they will be drowned by the newer reputatoin you gained with the new group and they will submit to the new reputation

Or the person from the old group will new the people about your old reputation behind your back

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Normies also like to say phrases like “everyone deserves a second chance” and “forgive & forget” however this is total virtue signalling bullshit for the most part.

 

[Tusseleif]

My social reputation within my friend group got fucked and I got anxiety and now the result is I dropped out of school at 14 and now at 19 am just rotting. Social reputation is no joke. Preserve it at all costs or lose all

 

[Deleted member 2527]

My social reputation within my friend group got fucked and I got anxiety and now the result is I dropped out of school at 14 and now at 19 am just rotting. Social reputation is no joke. Preserve it at all costs or lose all

Do you mind sharing what you did Lol

 

[Tusseleif]

Do you mind sharing what you did Lol

Nah don’t want people to find out who I am since I said where I live once, but I was maybe too low inhib then, said some pretty controversial stuff which I didn’t think of the consequences

 

[pizza]

foids don't care if you sell marijuana as long as you are chad, don't forget, ITS ALL ABOUT LOOKS

 

[ChadpreetCreator]

Cope. High T narccisitics don't give a fuck about their long term social status. I'm climbing the ladder, fuck the bottom dwellers

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Im experimenting that rn, hours ago i was going for a run and i saw 3 friends i used to hang out with, i just shaked their hands and they stared at me without saying a word like they saw a dead man alive. I was super close with those guys, we did a lot of things together i was seing them almost everyday so it felt super awkward .

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Nah don’t want people to find out who I am since I said where I live once, but I was maybe too low inhib then, said some pretty controversial stuff which I didn’t think of the consequences

What topics was the controverisal stuff. Was it about women or immigration or something?

 

[Deleted member 6400]

Cope. I have done several shit for several times and I am still popular. People forget and don't give a fuck, they are more worried about themselves. Stop spreading this kind of autistic bullshit on a website where half of people are one step away from suicide.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Im experimenting that rn, hours ago i was going for a run and i saw 3 friends i used to hang out with, i just shaked their hands and they stared at me without saying a word like they saw a dead man alive. I was super close with those guys, we did a lot of things together i was seing them almost everyday so it felt super awkward .

Why did you stop being friends with them

 

[Tusseleif]

What topics was the controverisal stuff. Was it about women or immigration or something?

Immigration, it was during the 2015 migrant crisis, but I have autism and I tend to spew shit from time to time, I don’t think any normal person would’ve said the stuff I said

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Immigration, it was during the 2015 migrant crisis, but I have autism and I tend to spew shit from time to time, I don’t think any normal person would’ve said the stuff I said

Hmm the good news is that I think alot of Nordics agree with you but behind closed doors. They probably just had to shut you out in order to virtue signal. They probably don't hate you on a personal level.

 

[Gonthar]

We had a teacher, who had as a student one of the most famous and richest Romanian musician and producer. She wasn't impressed at all by his career, for her he was still a bad student with low grades and who often skipped classes.

 

[Deleted member 2527]

We had a teacher, who had as a student one of the most famous and richest Romanian musician and producer. She wasn't impressed at all by his career, for her he was still a bad student with low grades and who often skipped classes.

Whats your point?

 

[Gonthar]

Whats your point?

Even after he became rich and famous, the teacher didn't change her opinion about him.

 

[Deleted member 11053]

Why did you stop being friends with them

Don't know if you will read this but fuck it you asked.

I Dont really know tbh its the kind of situations where they just slowly pushed me aside and there was a lack of communication .

First i unninstaled ig and thats where we used to talk everyday but it was not against them i was just tired of that app and they still had my phone number.

After that they called me just one time to go out it was for a birthday, then months after that i had a depression and during that depression they asked me to go out 1 time again obviously i refused i was depressed.

Then 2 month after im out the depression, we go out they reproach me to not being a good friend for ignoring them even tho they just called me 2 times in 6 months and they know damn well im not in ig groups anymore im not the one making out plans but i still apologize, after that i though everything was good so i start asking them to go out cause they reproached me to never do it and that i gotta ask them so i ask them but they tell me they can't go out everytime i do it.

One day i ask one of my friends if he want go play basketball with 2 other friends he dont respond the same day at night i go out to buy some food and i see him with the group of friends and at this point, i dont even know what to do or think and why they even did that so i just gave up.

 

[Gonthar]

Back when I was in high-school, I saw how one little incident ruined a guy's reputation forever. In the first year, after a month or two, this chubby guy that I was sitting next to, asked during class for permission to go to the toilet. When he returned, he dragged with him a long piece of toilet paper that got stuck on his shoe and he was completely oblivious about it. You won't believe the reaction he caused! People were literally on the floor, laughing and holding their bellies. Even the teacher joined in, and it took a while until the class settled. From that moment on he was known as the toilet paper guy and everyone made sure he will never forget about this. Even after 4 years, in the last year of high-school, they would still leave rolls of toilet paper on his desk as a prank. Since I was sitting next to him, my reputation too suffered and I was simply stuck there with him for 4 years, there was no place to move elsewhere in the classroom, except if I switched seats, but no one wanted to sit next to him.

 

[Deleted member 4562]

massive cope, imaging thinking that aspie users on here genuinely think like normies

 

[Deleted member 9699]

Most perceptions people have about you socially are based on the way you look and dress anyways. Not the actual behavior that you show.

legit
theres a chad in my school with zero personality yet everyone sucks his dick and ALL the guys hang around him
hes norwooding though so its over for that faggot

 

[BrettyBoy]

My second cousin is known as a whore which she is and she still lives on easy mode because vagina and her boyfriend is a cuck if she knows she has such a huge sexual past yet still dates her.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

There is a way to save it, start associating with people who have a reputation you want, this way peoples views will change on u

 

[Deleted member 2527]

There is a way to save it, start associating with people who have a reputation you want, this way peoples views will change on u

If they find out about your bad reputation through mutual friends, it’s a very high likelihood that they well cut you out also.

 

[Deleted member 6403]

That’s not something to ruin your reputation.

I’m talking about being accused of rape, or stabbing someone or arrested for drug dealing...stuff along those lines.

Some disagreement about a chick won’t get you labelled like those things would^

Only shit u mentioned that might damage ur reputation is rape, everything else is free game in the hood, being feared and respected is good around here

 

[Deleted member 6403]

If they find out about your bad reputation through mutual friends, it’s a very high likelihood that they well cut you out also.

Scapegoats can come in handy

 

[ChangeOfHeart]

Cope. You are living in a FANTASY world. How the fuck is anything you did in high school affecting your social reputation 10 years later? NGMI

 

[Deleted member 2527]

Cope. You are living in a FANTASY world. How the fuck is anything you did in high school affecting your social reputation 10 years later? NGMI

Trust me, I’m late 20s

Adulthood is EXACTLY like high school. People who claim otherwise are overdosing on copium. and if people saw you as a loser then, they will see you as one now. I promise you it’s true.

 

[KrissKross]

Trust me, I’m late 20s

Adulthood is EXACTLY like high school. People who claim otherwise are overdosing on copium. and if people saw you as a loser then, they will see you as one now. I promise you it’s true.

Especially if you never leave your home town, in which case high school never ends.